When a guy wants to DATE the girl he met, what should he do?

And what's the common kind of mistake he should NEVER make around her?

Those 2 questions and more, answered in today's write up. You ready?

This Red wine here just finished sliding deeply down my throat, So I am.

Let's Ride.

Shoutout to Mystic1 & xxxtedyxxx
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"How Do I Get This Hot Girl I Met To Go Out With Me."


Mr P.

What's up Boss.

I just bought your awesome product about a week ago.... Babes have been more engaged in conversations more than usual and I know it's because of your guidance.

There is this one particular babe I have had my eye on for a while... the only time I really get to have enough time for us to have some conversation is in the morning and the rapport has been good (blah blah blah)....
We exchange nos and she came to my place once.

Whenever she ask for card, I send to her and money too. But I really want her as my girlfriend, help a brother out.
I really love this girl (blah blah) .

Thanks, u're the man.

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Hey Mr P, thanks for writing in.

I'm going to rip you to shreds first, then build you back up now;
So by the time you're done reading these words, you're going to notice you feel even more Confident and assured of your ability to not only attract this girl, but to attract even better ones too. OK? Cool.


Here we go.....

I want to start with your whole mindset of "Super analyzing the issue"

It's fvcked up dude. lol

No bueno

**
Your Original question was more like a Super-story, but we had to shorten it significantly just to make it digestible for other guys.

Don't tell stories too much
Let her be the one doing that for you.


Now, here's what I would do :


1.) Do NOT make your little "I REALLY want her as my girlfriend; I REALLY love her..." joke

I love you for being an action-taker and betting on yourself, as it assure your long-term success,

BUT
...........there's nothing funny or attractive about that joke bruv.


From what I'm seeing here contextually, u've already asked her out and she turned you down; So u want to find the best way to go ask her out again.


Huh?
(It makes me want to strike your wrist with a selfie stick until you have the feeling of pain on your wrist)

Like seriously?!


It is a weak, low-status mindset to attract women/girls.

It is no more a"Desire" ; It has turned to "Need". Which is weak man.

Be playfully cocky, own your non-neediness, Share it as a gift freely to the world.
Not that you should sell yourself.

Can't you see your dick hate you for that?
Check the young-man down there; It can never be erect with the


"I really need her as my girlfriend" mindset.

Get it?

The behaviour also communicates to her that you are WELL-AWARE of these conversations you guys have been having, and tthat they mean alot to you,

And you're basically offering up your dick on a wood platter, cheaply.

She hasn't even impressed you yet, so why are u so bent on trying to impress her?


If 'proposal' was a person, it would even slap you on the face right now for giving it away easily, and making yourself so EASY for her.


Promise me, right now, you will not do this again. Good

... Onward we roll.



2.) Traditional Mistake :- About the issue of sending cards and money to her.


All I see here is a girl taking advantage of your advances towards her.

She's only halfway attracted to you, but since u're so bent on dating her, she can see that all over you and wants to take advantage of that.

And u're falling for her trick too by becoming a "Coded maga".
Deep down, you know you don't like the card & money habits, but you think her asking means a 'greenlight', and you think you have to please her to make her like you.


You DON'T owe her ANYTHING.

Let me make this clear...

If at all you're going to send a girl anything,

Do it because you WANT TO..... NOT because you want her to like you.

Doing things to make a girl like you (That's the traditional bullshit some movies are telling you to follow)

Don't vibe with those movies. They are only acting according to a Script.

I take you on shopping = So u'll like me back.

I buy you flowers = So u'll start to see I'm sweet and
like me back.

I buy you gifts = So u'll like me back now.

I take you to expensive dates = So u'll see I can go
to the end for you and u'll like me back.

I write you long love letters = So u'll finally fall for
me.

WRONG! WRONG!! WRONG!!!

Where did all those jumbo-logic come from?

The movies?

Fvck the movies. (Those people dey crae)

Face the reality and forget the stupid movie fantasies.


Attraction with a girl is not something you buy.

As we know :-

#1 Law of Attraction of states;

"Girls are always attracted to guys who they think are better than them."


You do the maths yourself - If you were to be allowed to choose to spend time with someone who is : (1) higher than you
(2) lower than you

Which will u choose? - ofcourse higher than you

Your guess is as good as mine .



Next time you're having a conversation with her, say

**during conversation**

You : I really enjoy our conversations, but I can't make you my girlfriend

Her : (jokingly) Why? / I can't even be your girlfriend.

You : No, not that, I just have a feeling u're too young for me, like girls of under18 (no matter her age).

She : (laughs) oh, u better don't make a mistake, I'm not under18 oo.

(Now you'll say)
You : Really? So if i make u my girlfriend now, u mean I can trust you won't be jealous like those small small girls?

She'll reply u .... Infact anything she says by now, she's still bringing the toasting/proposal to your court indirectly, which is what we wanted in the first place. It'll now look like she's the one proposing/toasting you.


Then... NOTE this... (Finish the conversation with)

You :- Alright, since u're toasting me now, I'll think about your proposal but I'm not sure if I'd say yes oo,.. (Wink at her)

She'll laugh and try to deny it..

Then greet her telling her bye that you have something you have to attend to, even if you don't have. ...

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Guy who get all the girls don't talk, and talk, and talk..

It spoils everything when you talk too much.

Then finish the conversation on a high note and go your own way.

And I think you can take it from there dude.....



You're welcome

Peace, bruv
Djboosting

wordbank:
I no know y I no fit read ds epistle weda na d excessive spacing or na sleep

I swear u said my mind
Are u related to a magician??

We need sumone to magically put op writes up into 2 lines

Too long. . Can't read that thing jor

nickkylawve:
op u expect me to sit down nd read all this I swear u are on ur own mayb others will

Ofcourse I do expect u..

But I didn't forget the fact that d post is written, and to be read through by a few select group of people who think they can benefit from it.

halfrica:

I swear u said my mind
Are u related to a magician??

We need sumone to magically put op writes up into 2 lines

No magic

wordbank:
I no know y I no fit read ds epistle weda na d excessive spacing or na sleep

Probably it's the sleep
Are u awake now?

OP or whoever wrote this. U try. Ur not as good as I am, but u try small

Laveda:
Too long. . Can't read that thing jor

Okay.

End time

Brilliant essay. Thanks, op.

You make brain op,. Will be back to drop a question for you.

MrsPhyno:
OP or whoever wrote this. U try. Ur not as good as I am, but u try small

Small? Don't try me, i love challenges

bigwind:
You make brain op,. Will be back to drop a question for you.

Alright u're welcome..

JuanDeDios:
Brilliant essay. Thanks, op.

Pleasure mine

lols

i will read this thread during my annual leave

There are many science text books to read joor?

Djboosting:


Small? Don't try me, i love challenges

Lol I've faced enough challenges here on NL I won't try u.

Guy, i jst cant help bt clap my hands, i doff my hat bro. U ar such a genius

Too long

SOOOOOOOOOOO LONG!!!

I like every word u put up there..cos dis was a case of d iniiatail me....am cute lookin,and like preety girls bt I watched too many romantic movies dat brrain washed me...so I startd doin to please...only wen I realized I ws a office..and people don't value what see chasin dem around,dey value what gives them time to get atttention..I found my steering wheels....9ce bro..

On point. though I nevr read it.

MrsPhyno:

Lol I've faced enough challenges here on NL I won't try u.

Smirks**
Not on NL tho' ... But cool all d way.

noblemails:
i will read this thread during my annual leave

Dats lovely.. @least there is 45days left till anoda new year

Adasun:
There are many science text books to read joor?

Do wotever u want to do.. The content up here is not for everybody

kolatcole:
Guy, i jst cant help bt clap my hands, i doff my heart bro. U ar such a genius

I appreciate d huge ego boost.. Pleasure mine..
I'm sure u've learnt one or two things.

ayemerbarth:
On point. though I nevr read it.

Thank you. Though u're not welcome

STFUareyouGod:
Too long

Yes, it is

asumo12:


SOOOOOOOOOOO LONG!!!

And if only u just take d time to read, u'd be sooooooooooo happy!!!