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Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by lovely17(m): 7:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
This isnt Nigeria right? |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ststyreal(f): 7:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:Y are you this bothered about a child who doesn't want to help her self, i know she is your sister but then, please give her the space she want . Abeg, relax and let her be. Let your mum send her out of the house since she certainly don't want to be useful to her self and those around her. Leave her, she wants to learn in the hard way, when her eyes clears she will return like the prodigal son. Don't beg her or try to interfere in her matter again, in fact let her go and meet the so called baby daddy wey dey rigmaro her head smhhhhhhhhh, by the time she receive one slap from the guy her head go correct. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by sholasho(m): 8:05pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Ok here is the thing, She & your mum can get into arguement its normal, cos Mum is still pissed and would possibly still be for a long period of time. You are the one to do alot of work here. You need to sit her down get into conversation with her always. You said shes almost 17yrs right? you need to put her back on track. Don't let her drop out of school if she has, Get her back to school, its not going to be easy let her know that. But she would be glad she returned back someday. Do all you can to make it work, let her see things you envisage in 5years - 10 years from now. Please Please & Please get her back to school and talk to her. I Pray she listen to you. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
octopusfreaky: Iam black and proud of my root white boy and when u bring in GOD into it what does it mean,is GOD man like us is nt d same spirituality.aim b4 u shoot |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 8:15pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Use 2by2 plank take reset her brain. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by HARDDON: 8:18pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ministerblessed: Ic, but how daft can a gurl be? A guy put u in the family way, denied u n d baby, the u give birth, n start running back to him? The earlier d beta they stopped her from visiting him, if not, she wud take in again soon. Or beta still let her pack n move in with him which im im very much sure, guy e wud kick against |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by cyprus000: 8:19pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
fem29: [size=13pt] Lol..that woman no be here. She never express emotion. The only time I saw her express emotion was when I swallowed one naira coin and was dying. She was weeping lyk a child. I was also crying,not because I was feeling pain or going to die. I was crying because I had a wrong perseption about my mum hating me and almost died with that thought. She is the reason I survived that day,cos I refused to undergo surgery and was determined to die with my stance. She risked he life going to get what saved me. She is the only true friend I have. I would have been a waste,if not for her approach. [/size]. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by izziworld(m): 8:20pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Anybody that bite the hands that feed them should be taught a lession. You guys shouldn't chase her out but allow her met her needs herself and stop her from entering your farm. Now that she has grown wings,she should be made to take care of her need and that of her baby herself so she realise the task before her otherwise she might get pregnant again. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by octopusfreaky(f): 8:22pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
kevinscore:I don't get u pls |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by crackhouse(m): 8:29pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
The character is not new at all, very simple, sure at her age she will always want to be independent so give her some space let her go and useless her life first, if she's lucky she will come back to her senses and advise herself which to me is the best advice ever but if she's not then she will end up in the street or into the hands of people that will give her diseases that will make her weep endlessly. Op pls don't mind me, the truth is that i don't advice such people. I only leave them to live their life to the fullest and see what they cause for themselves. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by acada111(f): 8:29pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Since she can go there from morning till 10pm that means your house is just for crashing na. Abeg, save her the stress, whenever she goes again, make una cari her load go there go drop. Simple.....afterall, she spends the better part of the day there. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by waleey27(m): 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Cyprus000 nailed it. No matter what you say, your sister will not listen to you. Let your mum send her out of the house so she can go learn some lessons about life. She needs some reality check. Let her go and meet those people. When she has learnt some lessons she will run back to you, then she will be ready to listen to what you want to say. It may take a few months or a few years. Just be ready to take her back when she eventually comes back. She has to learn about life herself, otherwise she will never take whatever you want to do for her. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by clemzo101(m): 8:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
I love dis ClassCaptain: |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 8:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Lock her in the house. Force her to do housework unless no food for her or dump her in the village with some grandma. If you don't take some drastic measures,she will get pregnant again. She's still a Teenager. Don't throw her out! |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by anonym0us: 9:01pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ClassCaptain:nawa for you oooh...y some people feel say Dem fit give advice ? |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by kechywillz(m): 9:01pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
''Have you Considered getting her a professional Cain''. I mean flog her so that she'll know you are her elder sister. By so doing she'll recover back to her senses |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by dayosweetness(m): 9:06pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
something is wrong with dis ur story, after d guy denied d pregnancy, she still goes to his place with d baby??..are dey back together or he finally accepted d baby is his??..clarify plsss |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by shumuel(m): 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy: Nice one, my pick also |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by shumuel(m): 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy: Nice one, my pick also |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by shumuel(m): 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy: Nice one, my pick also |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Damfostopper(m): 9:09pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
annoying....me sef no even want gal child |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by talk2gdan: 9:09pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Thank you for loving your sister however sorry for all the pain caused by your sister, I suggest that the solution to your sister problem is prayer, so please pray for her. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by StephenJoseph(m): 9:26pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
bettercreature: I have one as well. She was very stubborn and rude in the 90's and she is facing the consequences now. And the funny part is that she is now apportioning blame to nature for being wicked to her. I just dey laugh her anyhow 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by kenny4one(m): 9:30pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Stubborn and disrespectful just like my own sister ,just free her so she can learn the hard way.. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by omojeesu(m): 9:39pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Please, please, please don't send her out of the house! She needs help. Dont abandon her. Something is seriously wrong here and parental failure cant be ruled out. Be gentle with her. Counsel. Appeal. Pray for. Make it clear that you love and wish her well. Please no physical or verbal abuse. May God help you, her and the family. May He grant wisdom to you all. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 9:42pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
cyprus000: Eeyahh that is a real mama. With strength and character. Thank God for her. We mamas learn how to be tough and rugged due to the struggles we go through. We have to go through so much and be strong for our children. May God continue to help us. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by BABANGBALI: 9:57pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
you have tried your best for her,just let her be,in two or three years time her eye go clear. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by opedaydydx9(m): 9:59pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
17 yrs with a baby, her life dn spoil already no going back..... Buh where were u before it got spoilt to this extent,............. ND where were u parents.......... Rip to a once bright future dick dom sweet am,...... |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by UyiIredia(m): 10:05pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: Prayers, tough love and advice from pastors, counsellors etc |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Politicos:My Guy, u couldn't have said it any better. God bless u. OP this is the real shit, the most sensible post so far. You people have failed in raising her well, I'm sorry to say but that's the fact. She's been too overpampered. For goodness sake, she's just 17, still a minor. How did the whole brouhaha get to this stage I wish she had my kinda mom |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by damocool(m): 10:10pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
The family needs genuine salvation,, believe me all storms will be over... |
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