Am inlove with a guy i met on phone, actually someone connected us. We have been chatting and talking on the phone for three months now, but still haven't seen each other. He lives in the uk and i live in norway, several times he promised to come see me but never did. And am already inlove though i haven't seen him, now the problem is this he claims he likes someone else in nigeria and now he's about to choose between myself and the other gurl. But i just heard recently from the person who connected us, that the gurl in nigeria asked him to help her go somewhere to make something that will make my guy in the uk to love her,  So right now i don't even know what to do, even if the guy doesn't choose me i don't really care,  all i care about is that this guy is such a nice person and doesn't deserve to be charmed. please i want you guys to advice me on what to do, cos am really confused.

I think you will need to pray about the situation before taking any step. I hope you go to church in Norway where you stay, talk to any of your leaders. Let them counsel you before you talk to the guy. Before you go ahead make sure you confirm the story so that you wound`t look stupid at the end of the day.

Me as a christain believe that charm exist but will never have any effect on me. Is the guy a believer?

Goodluck

Yes he is a believer, and am also a believer. Really i'v been praying over this issue and am still on it. Just hope God helps me find the right way to follow. And as humans i still need more advice and opinions on this. Thanx for your response.

Since both of you are believers the problem is almost solved. There is need for you to make more investigation about the matter to be sure of some facts. Whatever comes to your mind about the whole thing thereafter then do it. I believe the Holy Spirit will direct you. If you prayerfully talk to him, God will make him understand it and act right.

May God help you.

Nairalanders pls help me, I really need an advice on this issue. I've been here with my topic for a week now but only got one response. I know u guys can help with this, So am gonna keep my fingers cruzed, Thanx

Why are you scared in telling him i think u need to add this so that NLers will know why exactly you are scared of telling the guy
   Are you scared of being affected by the charm?
   You afraid of being strike by the girl if she find out you are trying to prevent/prevented  the guy from being charmed?

And going by your post that is it right to tell him. I dont see anything wrong in telling the guy.

@poster,

Na wa O!

Jazz

Naija babes sef. . . @Poster: is she from Edo?

Tell him sha, atleast you can die for love right?

naija gels

Yes she is.

I told him but he didn't believe a word of what i said. So i decieded 2 give it up, probably we 'r not meant 2 be. But i really love him.

what if na shakara 

what if the guy sef na ogunjimi

whitelexi:

Jazz

Naija babes sef. . . @Poster: is she from Edo?

and that is funny

and that is funny
[quote][/quote] what is funny? i donut know what  you people have with EDO

Since you have told him leave it there and let God do the rest. You have done your part and let God do his part. If truely the girl is fetish as you claim God will reveal everything. You shouldn`t stop praying. if he is for you, God will preserve him for you. Maybe he is for the Jazz lady.