Without Pain, We Cannot Understand The Beauty Of Healing.


For your sake, I won't say your name nor nairaland id. I know it well, and I cannot get it out of my head. But to you, you who hurt me, you who took away my relationship, you who selfishly thought of only your own happiness, thank you.

We have never met, but I know you must know who I am. I am the woman you saved through the strangest means possible. My boyfriend cheated on me with you. Through social media, you must have known I existed.
I could say congratulations or you win, or even the cliché -- you deserve each other, but I won't. I will say thank you.
You would think I would hate you, because you did to another woman what all women fear most, but I don't hate you. You have done me an incredible service that I did not have the courage to do myself.
Thank you for setting me free. Thank you for saving me a future full of pain and lies. Thank you for showing his true colors through your joint actions.
Thank you for giving me a reason to say goodbye to the biggest blockade I have ever faced. Thank you for opening my future up again.
Thank you for taking the blame, for giving me a reason to leave, to give me a reason to start over.
Thank you for reminding me that I am worth so much more than lies and deception, that I don't have to take the emotional abuse and trauma of this experience lying down.

Thank you for showing me that my dad was always right, and for letting me feel the overwhelming love of the friendships I had forgotten.
Thank you for showing me that there are better ways to spend my time and my tears. Thank you for sending me running to Jesus, for reminding me that I am nothing without my true Saviour.
Thank you for giving me a chance to have another first date, another first kiss, another chance at a pure and Christ-filled relationship.
Thank you for bringing me to my knees, for reminding me of what pain feels like, for without pain we cannot understand the beauty of healing.

Without bad, we cannot understand good.
Without your interference, I would not have lost my breath; but because of you, I have learned to breathe again.
Thank you.
Most sincerely,
The girl you helped set free

you are writing an open letter cos ur boyfriend cheated what will now happen if he is your husband

Is this an attention seeking stunt or are you for real?
Btw, why you come dey snap for bathroom, are you related to this girl?

Next post we'll see is "should I forgive a cheating boyfriend? ". How long between the cheating event and now because your post indicated that you're already in a new relationship.

Rebound relationships don't always work out well oh. Take time and heal and enjoy being alone.

hummmm.

Hehe..open letter kwa. Wonders wil probably never end. U cud save dis writing skill for more profitable ventures biko..#ifyouwroteityourself

Lie Lie ti lie lie o!

What you're selling I can't buy o!

What good is a letter without the name of the person to whom it is addressed?

Name & shame

Hmmmmmmmm

You will be fine....
Let go of the past and move forward..

It's well...

PunkyVeer:
What good is a letter without the name of the person to whom it is addressed?

Name & shame

My tot exactly

Nairaland has turned to a mental asylum

Really now
Dear sisGal
U sound excruciating y shd we even believe dis tale,
Since u kept d victim anonymous, no need of showing up her either.
Buh den again
U re in a new relationship now so I guess u both (u Nd ur ex)are equally happy.

Without any evidence I figured out dat u r still in pain.


Move on already ok.

RozyNora:
Without Pain, We Cannot Understand The Beauty Of Healing.


For your sake, I won't say your name nor nairaland id. I know it well, and I cannot get it out of my head. But to you, you who hurt me, you who took away my relationship, you who selfishly thought of only your own happiness, thank you.

We have never met, but I know you must know who I am. I am the woman you saved through the strangest means possible. My boyfriend cheated on me with you. Through social media, you must have known I existed.
I could say congratulations or you win, or even the cliché -- you deserve each other, but I won't. I will say thank you.
You would think I would hate you, because you did to another woman what all women fear most, but I don't hate you. You have done me an incredible service that I did not have the courage to do myself.
Thank you for setting me free. Thank you for saving me a future full of pain and lies. Thank you for showing his true colors through your joint actions.
Thank you for giving me a reason to say goodbye to the biggest blockade I have ever faced. Thank you for opening my future up again.
Thank you for taking the blame, for giving me a reason to leave, to give me a reason to start over.
Thank you for reminding me that I am worth so much more than lies and deception, that I don't have to take the emotional abuse and trauma of this experience lying down.

Thank you for showing me that my dad was always right, and for letting me feel the overwhelming love of the friendships I had forgotten.
Thank you for showing me that there are better ways to spend my time and my tears. Thank you for sending me running to Jesus, for reminding me that I am nothing without my true Saviour.
Thank you for giving me a chance to have another first date, another first kiss, another chance at a pure and Christ-filled relationship.
Thank you for bringing me to my knees, for reminding me of what pain feels like, for without pain we cannot understand the beauty of healing.

Without bad, we cannot understand good.
Without your interference, I would not have lost my breath; but because of you, I have learned to breathe again.
Thank you.
Most sincerely,
The girl you helped set free

....arrrrha, u r lightskin...sweery u no wot?....why don't u sleep wit me so we can punish him!!(great idea)

u just joined nairaland ds evening only to write this

sister u must be. a saint


go buy super glue #50 gum ur heart if u won't mention her name here, so we could finish them both

MrCork:




....arrrrha, u r lightskin...sweery u no wot?....why don't u sleep wit me so we can punish him!!(great idea)

Best comment so far

Dyt:

E don happen
So much 'blame game'. Why are people getting so emotional lately? What's with people bringing private lives to discuss on Internet? Is it to get cheap pity or people are just going crazy?

Wow

MrCork:




....arrrrha, u r lightskin...sweery u no wot?....why don't u sleep wit me so we can punish him!!(great idea)

u want to mate with her?

Awwww

Laveda:
Awwww

as ma london brodas will say, u luk fit bae, so fit

Extremely lame...like seriously?wtf

VaselineWarrior:


as ma london brodas will say, u luk fit bae, so fit

Ok, thanks.

Laveda:
Ok, thanks.

i wish i av xray glass

see shaki an kpomo, brokoto an darkmeat

copy and paste

This soul-ing piece deserves the FP buh it ain't complete. What's missing?? NAMES!
OP I usually get miffed whenever politicians say 'i can name those behind XYZ scam '. It's sooo mighty irritating, give us the morafu.cking name of the biatch (and guy too) who played the game better than you, she needs to come to our attention so that NL baes would be wary of her and would pound the alarm when they see her following their bfs or having him in her mentions.
MODIFIED : its such an unfair world. Two adults came together to satisfy their sexual urge at the expense of each other's legit partner and we're all here going hard on the babe who snatched OP's bf, no one has paused to realise that OP's bf is as guilty as the cheating babe and also deserves to be called out. Really is it me or there is smthng wrong with our psyche??
Even the babes here and the OP herself isnt calling out the guy, yes it's a man's world but does it mean it's ok for a guy to cheat on his girl? This is the attitude we're putting forward here.

oh dear Me ! it's so touchy.... and she looks so gentle.

Orishirishi!!