fm7070:


Pls do not castigate the guy for marrying without stable job.
is marriage all about bearing the woman's burden.
Men are not burden bearer. We want partners. Not some lazy woman who wants magic overnight

fm7070:


OK Bro.
That is end time women for us oooooooo.
If the man should go into kidnapping or robbery and bring loads of money, she will be all over him as if her life depends on him

fm7070:


Pls do not castigate the guy for marrying without stable job.
is marriage all about bearing the woman's burden.
Men are not burden bearer. We want partners. Not some lazy woman who wants magic overnight

StPete:
She should be ashamed of herself for even making such statements. A wife is a helpmate. If you are down, she should be there to assist pending wen u get back on ur feet. Not making threats and giving u ultimatums

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

Sanchase:
Borrow money from her, after one week tell her that she is now free to leave. If she ask for her money tell her you don't have it yet.
When she leaves take 2000 naira out of the money buy beer and chicken, take pictures and post it on facebook. Then call a few friends and ask them to like and comment on the picture.

You will see positive results

angiography:

sir...I believe a gud wife shouldn't be happie with a complacent husband... no


the op should man up and get a job.

moving to abuja is definitely making the wife seeing more illustrious life than she saw in d village... and who won't want her man to be a man to be proud of??


m not a female, but we should understand the female world

sukkot:
nigga shut your ass up

Sanchase:
Borrow money from her, after one week tell her that she is now free to leave. If she ask for her money tell her you don't have it yet.
When she leaves take 2000 naira out of the money buy beer and chicken, take pictures and post it on facebook. Then call a few friends and ask them to like and comment on the picture.

You will see positive results

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

angiography:

OK....I knew that hurt ur lazy bones

Anikishaya:
Mr Op, let's start from here,
1. Are u married? If yes, i tink a good wife should be able to stand by her husband through thick n thin. I was once in her shoes, cos it's always frustrating seeing ur friends doing good as a lady n u can't get along with them.
2. Is she just a fiancee? If yes, try n explain to her that rome is not built in a day, she should please bear along with you, cos those days when my guy was searching, I fought him everyday also but power has finally changed hands.
Finally, if you love her, talk to her n make her see things in your direction and make sure she's busy also, so that she can help u in situations like this
I rest my case..

Panzerfaust:
She should leave you..you deserve it..The average Nigerian guy will rather rush and get married because everyone is getting married, rather than wait and build a good life for himself. You went and got a wife, despite having no job..how stupi.d can that be? Did you expect to take care of her with air..wht if she gets pregnant and has a child? What will you do to take care of the kid? Beg? Steal? You ppl believe marriage is the most important thing in life, despite being a broke as.s...Ill advise you to do the following..
1. Let her go..you have failed in your duty as a husband.
2. Work on your professional career or start a business.
3. Save as much as you can and invest in something profitable.
4. NEVER, NEVER, stop moving..no matter what...
My older brother got married in his mid-thirties despite some foolish family members disturbing him to go nd get married..by the time he got married after years of joblessness, he had gone back for a masters degree, wrote TONS of professional exams, had started a Football viewing centre on the side to pay some bills, and was managing..he dint just rush to get a wife..after abt 8 or so yrs of frustration after graduation from UNI, he got a job at GLO, bought a car, and got an apartment of his own, all in a year...It was after the struggles of 8 yrs, he later got married..Now he has 2 kids and is doin fine..
Your mistake is marrying in the first place when you had nothin on your pockets. The Lord is your strenght, see you at the top.

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

tallfish145:
I graduated in 2012 and had my NYSC in 2014 but since then getting a meaning job has been a major challenge for me. Though after my NYSC,I opened an hair dressing salon for my wife in my hometown but after few months,she asked if we can relocate to abuja(where we met). After so many pressures from her,she moved to Abuja sometime in March,2015 and i later joined her in April after she secured an apartment i paid for. I stayed idle(after many job search) for two months before i got somewhere(through nairaland). As a graduate,i was earning 20k per month and transportation to work in month cost about 9-10k. Due to stress,i left the place after 3months. Now,this is November, no job and my wife is threatening to leave me,for reason that she hasn't experience hardship when she was alone. Please advice me on what to do friends.

Nova15:
But OP why should you even be thinking of marrying when you haven't secured a job?


You should get your priorities striaght!

sukkot:
yeah i am sure you typed this with your maga fingers. lol. yeah like men are put in this world to please women. our sole purpose is to work and get money to please women ? mugu