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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 5:23pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Omotolu: Yes there is. After marriage, the next step is to make a family which is having children and taking care of them. This is the main responsibility of the head of the family. How's he going to do that without a job? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by torddy4u(m): 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
tallfish145: I think this is early marriage syndrome most especially when getting married to young girls that just graduated, that has not felt the heat in the labor market. two of my frnd that are politicians are passing tru the same heat living in their personal houses in PH, with fleet of cars, just that their party lost in the previous election n mine I'm a Lil job not earning upto 60k n have abt fews days off duty. despite that she mounted pressure that the money is not enough, meanwhile I started job search from 2009 after nysc till date not seen a better one yet. to cut the story short I talked to her but all in vain. so I decided to be leaving the house n started coming back late, when she called I told her that I was looking for job by 10pm for 3days n she started begging n promised that she wont do that again. like wise the other 2 frnds of mine. # just look for something n be doing no matter how small it is. # don't be moved by her threat(if u not ready to loose u can't hv it). #she just want u to up n doing even if u r doing sth or not. #she wants to be hearing that u took ur cv to house of assembly gate n the gate man said come tomorrow, tell her to be praying for u to get a better job. # don't regret that u married her, but this is the fun abt it. #im sorry to say this''don't beg her again''but do the needful. # keep searching u will get a better job soonest 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Trapnews: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sleekone: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
So you didn't have a job but still let your wife pressure you into moving to abuja. What were you thinking! Why did leave the little job you had before finding another one. Your problem is not knowing your priorities. Your wife sef no try! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sukkot: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
angiography:well we finally see eye to eye on the bolded. its his cross he has to carry for stupidly rushing into marriage. like in this era of enlightenement why is he still living like a primitive man ? primitive men married early and had many kids so the kids can all work on the farm. the earlier you married and the more kids you had the better you were cuz that means more hands to harvest the crops. this is a different era. unless your father is dangote, you dont need to be getting married till you are 40 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 5:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
sben2308: Oga, now that he got married without a job. See what he is going through. Abi didn't you read his story? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by osina: 5:28pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Bros I think she is not meant for u. A good wife will be by your side at any time. Many wives are breadwinners pending when d husband gets a good job. D important thing is that u are a graduate and by d Grace of God a good job must come. Allow her do her mind. Don't even beg her if not she may turn u into a house boy. Think. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 5:29pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Trapnews: Lol, but he is actually right. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by angiography(m): 5:30pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
sukkot:lol...that's so true.... well, perhaps the op got the ladie impregnated and had to marry her..lol the 40 is kinda long tho...u don't want ur children to call u Grandpa... lol |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kaypompey3: 5:30pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
God is your strength my brother,, everything happen for a purpose. In everything always give thanks to God what is your field of specialization, am not employer but have the chance for the field of elect/elect. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 5:30pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:this is d problem wit young guys of nowadays. To tink I graduated 3 years b4 dis guy, wit a job dat pays me 100k monthly, plus I just rounded up a Masters programme I started wen I got d job, and yet i'm still single and looking for ways to increase my income, dis one is tinkin of marriage and woman. @op u neva see anytin, I dnt pity u at all. U hav laid ur bed so pls go and sleep on it. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by bugativeron: 5:32pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
tallfish145: You graduated in 2012 you served in 2014, and you are already married. Are you that jobless and vision less. Now you want us to pity you. I am sure that girl pushed you to marriage. Bale nta Igbo, iyawo nta ogogiro, Omo GBA Owo ita esi ni e fe esu labule. Meaning, Eze sells Indian hemp, his wife sells shepe( kaikai) their son is a tout and you are saying you Dont want trouble in the village. Yeye they smell. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by mikolo80: 5:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
tallfish145:sorry but you have a useless wife that used you to get out of the village now she doesn't need you again. no be wife you marry o but liability. and you sef why your wife go de control you like mumu. you carry go Abuja with no plan cos your wife said so. so if she say you should join Boko Haram you will join cos she applied pressure |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kaypompey3: 5:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
inbox me kaytechnology@yahoo.com 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ogawisdom(m): 5:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
tallfish145: Simple go and find job, hw could u have married without one 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by greggng: 5:34pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
That woman is not your wife. She might be the bad luck not allowing you to secure your dream job. If she doesn't have a child for you, pls allow her to go so that you can arrange your life. I hate young men that doesn't plan their future before marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by donshady(m): 5:34pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
You don't have a wife bro. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 5:34pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
sben2308: Oga now that he got married without a job and going this this shit. Which is better? Did you even read his story? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ify84(m): 5:35pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
No job, u moved to Abuja... The most costly city... Something is wrong with the op.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Emasel(m): 5:36pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Remind her marriage is for better, for worse! or has she forgotten her vows? |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 5:36pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Yeye dey smell. You expect your wife to feed, cloth and house you? Olorunmajebadthing biko!! So your only mission in life is to bang her?? He might even be lousy in bed with bad breath and all.. You have misplaced priorities jawe. Wetin I dey read bikozienu , the only thing he's bringing to the table is his blockous.. Tafia. 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 5:38pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
End time wife. Let her go na, wen one door closes, another one will open |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Acidosis(m): 5:39pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
OP made NO mistake by marrying her without a JOB. What if you had a job and later lost it? Do you all think the witch will make a different statement? Abeg let her go!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by supremepapey(m): 5:40pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Bro, u didn't marry ur wife ( God's destined woman) , u married a woman who was destined for someone else hence the predicament. Because ur true wife will stick with u through thick and thin and not give u ultimatum cos of ur present predicament. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ify84(m): 5:41pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15: The job is not the issue... He had the wrong wife. .. If he has a job and marry, and after marriage, lose the job, this kind of his wife will still lament.. . She is ostentatious, that maybe why she insisted on Abuja 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by nobeku: 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:Things aren't always the way it seems..and life doesn't always, most times, play out the way it should.. It's not about the job really.... Some women will even threaten when you have a job and you at earning 250k..The problem is not the job or money cos he could still make over 300k monthly without a "job", if you get me.. The problem is THE WIFE...I got married to my wife without any job.. And she never felt bad for once or hustled me.. Because of who SHE IS..Today, that a memory we enjoy laughing over.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fyneboi79(m): 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
tallfish145:Have u paid her bride price? If not let her go better women will come ur way. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by nobeku: 5:43pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:Things aren't always the way it seems..and life doesn't always, most times, play out the way it should.. It's not about the job really.... Some women will even threaten when you have a job and you at earning 250k..The problem is not the job or money cos he could still make over 300k monthly without a "job", if you get me.. The problem is THE WIFE...I got married to my wife without any job.. And she never felt bad for once or hustled me.. Because of who SHE IS..Today, that is a memory we enjoy laughing over.. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15: He's already married Mr. Oga, you don't have to chastise him all over again. I'm sure he's blaming himself for getting married already. Op sit your wife down and talk to her, if she refuses, leave the decision to her. A yoruba adage says, 'if your wife leave you, trouble has left you be that'. Marriage is for better for worse, if she can't endure the worst, then she's not fit to be a wife. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by thelish(f): 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
fm7070:He can't go into keke driving n other menial jobs but arm robbery. E dey he blood before. nonsense |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Trapnews: 5:47pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15: 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by nobeku: 5:49pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100:You're obviously NOT married and really sounding like a youngster.. Using your post, what also is the woman bringing to the table? Well, I can't even begin to explain to you.. A 4 by 5 mind can NEVER understand a 15 by 16 concept.. 3 Likes |
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