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Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 6:23pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100:u have killed me wit lafta #bringin blockous to d table 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by iamfortunate: 6:24pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
I so love ur comment.. same mistake many young people make out there. I wonder what's responsible 4 d rush.. Get at least a source of livelihood b4 venturing into marriage Nova15: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 6:24pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
ogawisdom:I Taya oh, @op wat were u tinkin? U nor knw say life nor be beans? Times r hard oh |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:...read the opinion trail. Every man is entitled to his opinion on what is good or bad. I won't impose my opinion on others.... |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:26pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
fajani: Na wa! The woman had that biz before he met her jawe. He was schooling, while she went for hairdressing and after freedom, her parents, sugardaddy, enieleni anybody might have set her up but not this Op. Na wife he suppose marry now?.. 31 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Dominionhost(m): 6:28pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
My candid advise to you brother is if you can't secure any job, learn a business that involves less capital to kick-start. If she is indeed your REAL WIFE, she will stay with you no matter what... If I were to speak from an ungodly heart, I would ask you to leave her to go but honestly speaking, no matter the years you search for real job, she must endure all moments with you. I got married with no real job, my wife was financing the home then...What she was telling me then was that... SHE CAN SEE A GREATER TOMORROW AHEAD OF US... Today, to GOD be the GLORY, am in charge as the Husband and man of the house and she remains humble. Don't give up... All will be well... But never you for any reason steal or rob to satisfy her. Remain optimistic and all will be well. God's blessings upon you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nova15: 6:28pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Omotolu:Oga nobody is imposing anything on anybody. We are just stating facts here. The OP made a terreible mistake that any reasonable person can see. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:28pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Lagusta: My Love, and you just disappeared I had one massive boil for that place and you were not reachable Lagusssssta 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sabi99(m): 6:28pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
gentlesinna:I think that billions of girl is an exaggerated statement cos good girls are very very hard 2 find dz end time days....just reduce it to hundreds of girls pls 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 6:29pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100: Lmao!!! When u enter 4th marriage, lemme know....shameless 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:30pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
adexolu: What's shameless about remarriage? If E no pay me, I waka nooni No time for iranu things 34 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kennethchidi(m): 6:31pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Bro,really sympathise with u on ur travails. But den,d threat from ur wife isnt d best she can do in this situation. Provided u r hardworking and u keep trying without giving up,i think u should let her go if she insists! Who knows,she might b d one killing ur luck all ds while. Shes meant to b a helpmate not a liability,and definately not meant to add more problems to d already difficult situation. I believe u will overcome ds soon....just dnt give up on life and ur efforts. Gudluck brother! |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:31pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100:woman! tell me you are joking, what happened to their marriage vows? End time women! |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by kilode100(f): 6:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Oyind17: Joke bawo?.. End time Men o... 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by pedrilo: 6:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
thelish:u too get mouth ohhh |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:34pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:...oga,how do know the op makes terrible mistake? Every man to his decision. |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100:you are joking joor End time kilode |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Malakh: 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100:kilode wetin be your own na why u con carry am for head, your sick n twisted thoughts is getting to you |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by fyneboi79(m): 6:45pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
adexolu:Simple!!!!! |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
StPete:Na LADIES for you. Their BRAINS ARE ALWAYS GROWING. That's why I will never settle for less. They are fluttering around me because I have a lucrative Job. Some are doing RESIDENCY TRAINING IN my kitchen I will keep dumping them until I get to my wife 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by millionboi(m): 6:57pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:all dis girls na temptation,thy go do lik angels until thy catch u 4dia trap called marriage.......Na then u go see dia true colour 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Its a shame we can't hear her own part of the story. This woman married you straight out of NYSC when you had very little doing. She knew your financial status and married you like that. Which means she accepted you that way. OP, I believe that you are not telling the full story here. Personally, i hate a man who is stinginy but the size or quantity of money doesn't matter to me. But very important: I like a man who can hustle, I mean real hustle to bring something home without giving excuses Some men are lazy and full of excuses. Once they see the woman bringing in something and taking care of some responsibilities they just sit back and relax. The man could be sitting his increasing fat ass and waist line playing draft at home or borrowing from her to go drinking or to go out with his friends. Most times the mood of a jobless man is unbearable. Everything makes them angry and insulting. She may be reaching her limit already. Communication is key here though. Talk to her. And even if you got no job yet every morning go out as a man and look for something. When she sees you trying she will definitely understand 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Mrlekan07034617: 7:00pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Dominionhost: Nice one bro, the best advice I've seen so far. Believe me Op, getting married with no real job is not "chin-chin" but I feel your pain just try more to get a good job and as for your woman try talk to her but if she insist just let her go. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by vicraven(m): 7:01pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
my advice...divorce the b*tch,put yourself through school again(if you can),study either chem,mech or pet eng,geology,come out with some firstclass shi*,and u're made or.... i dunno |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 7:10pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15:you have nothing to say 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by adexolu: 7:13pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
kilode100: Hope you're making money from marriage business sha? Seems u're a professional... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sben2308(m): 7:25pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
Nova15: I did read his story and I understand very well but wat I can c is that u ain't married and ur view if from a single person view. Will wait for u to get married and then we will continue from where we paused. Thanks |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by ojib(m): 7:32pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
stop referring to her as ur wife again.. biiko! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by MirandaPrestly(f): 7:33pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
fm7070: The honest truth is that marriage is completely different from dating. Marriage comes with responsibilities. It is in a man's best interest to delay marriage until he is in a position to be responsible for the welfare of his household. But situations may arise where a husband is incapable of providing as he should. In such situations, the wife should stand by him and support him, not threaten to leave. Marriage is about responsibility, both the man and woman are responsible for the home they have created by getting married. Where there are issues, they should work as a team to fix their issues. OP, this is what your wife needs to understand. I am a wife too. We all wish things could be rosy always, but life isn't always like that. A wife should be there for her husband. She should support him in good times and bad. Same goes for a husband. I hope you find a good job soon. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sben2308(m): 7:35pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
crowns2: Madam I am very sure u still a teenager and still very immature.Ask urself is it hustling the main thing now.We av men over hustling and still their wives are threatening to leave because most or some women want things to be sweet but not ready to pay the price.Wat I know is this he has the head show call his wife cuz wat makes a man the head of a house isn't money at all but how he carries his family along .He must take charge as the head and carry her along... Just my view |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by sben2308(m): 7:35pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
crowns2: Madam I am very sure u still a teenager and still very immature.Ask urself is it hustling the main thing now.We av men over hustling and still their wives are threatening to leave because most or some women want things to be sweet but not ready to pay the price.Wat I know is this he has the head show call his wife cuz wat makes a man the head of a house isn't money at all but how he carries his family along .He must take charge as the head and carry her along... Just my view and if av insulted u am sorry |
Re: My Wife Is Threatening To Leave If I Can't Find Job by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
adexolu:Awwwwwwww. Thanks for d gbosa, my head is swelling |
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