sukij:
I think she should go for private counselling by qualified practitioners. she should try “The Eight
Foundation” located at lekki. I heard it is free sha

klassiquette:

We're not in Lagos.... Through that counselling thing once..

sukij:


hmmm den I will jst advice you to always try and be dere for her most times. cause right now she needs to be surrounded by love ones

klassiquette:
Ok... Guys a friend of mine needs your help this is the story as she told me #she gave me permission to post it here


Happened 12/09/2013... She was on her way home from seeing a friend off wen a toaster blocked her on the road, grabbed her and took her into an uncompleted building she shouted for help but no one came to help her.... The road was quite lonely and time was about 8:15pm
According to her, her took her to ask uncompleted building and asked her to strip which she refused the beat her up like really tortured her then forcefully striped her off her clothes, then asked her to part her legs for him to penetrate but she refused he brought out a dagger and told her "I'll kill you and sex your corpse and there's nothing you'll do about it"she bluntly refused and she started begging he pushed her and she hit her head on the wall but she still kept begging told him she was menstruating he asked for proof which she showed him but he still wouldn't let go .... She said they struggled till he got angry and started beating her up again she passed out and guess the dude ran off thinking she was dead... She got home, told her parents, she was rushed to the hospital and discovered that he didn't penetrate her vjay , reported it to the police and took this day the guy is still on the run


The real problem is till today my friend still has nightmares about it, she still see the guy in her dreams, she doesn't associate with people as she used to, she cries every other night ... It's really getting out of hand I've told her to let it go but she says she's tried and still can't that the memories still hunt her please nairalanders and advice



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luvguy:
she should jst 4get nd move on...wat if de guy raped her, is dat nt de worst...some gals sef

klassiquette:
Always there

IamLEGEND1:
what she needs is steady lashing from a big,black guy.

I'm being totally serious.

klassiquette:
How can I possibly tell her that?

IamLEGEND1:
shey na you talk say na ur friend.

or am I missing something here?

DopeBoiRapy:
O.p i think this happened to you not your friend......u shuld c a shrink (psychiatric).....i am deeply sorry for wot happened to u....u shuld meet a guy, fall in luv or lust n get over it.

klassiquette:

Missing nothing and yes I'm her friend but I can't see myself telling her that

klassiquette:

If that's what you think it's ok... Your opinion

IamLEGEND1:
well then like a lot of people have already said........ shrinks are ur only other solution...

bt seriously, her meeting a guy & feeling that excitement and love will go a long way to getting her out of her funk........

She is traumatized,Yes. Unless she wants to remain like that forever.....then she better get off her àss, or you force her off her àss. get her out there so she can meet people.

you could try setting her up with someone you trust.

#JustSaying

klassiquette:

Move on..... Dude if you know wat it means to move on you won't call it "just" move on

jackpot:
this shows that you are the person molested, because you already know what it means to move on, arguably by experience.

klassiquette:

tried setting her up with a dude in school she bashed me badly

Youngpo413:
wow,so sad...I pray she meets a good guy will make her believe that all guys are not the same....how I wish she is in UYO,EKET,ABAK or IKOT EKPENE

klassiquette:
So you're in Akwa Ibom... We school in uniuyo

Youngpo413:
are you serious?

klassiquette:
Ok... Guys a friend of mine needs your help this is the story as she told me #she gave me permission to post it here


Happened 12/09/2013... She was on her way home from seeing a friend off wen a toaster blocked her on the road, grabbed her and took her into an uncompleted building she shouted for help but no one came to help her.... The road was quite lonely and time was about 8:15pm
According to her, her took her to ask uncompleted building and asked her to strip which she refused the beat her up like really tortured her then forcefully striped her off her clothes, then asked her to part her legs for him to penetrate but she refused he brought out a dagger and told her "I'll kill you and sex your corpse and there's nothing you'll do about it"she bluntly refused and she started begging he pushed her and she hit her head on the wall but she still kept begging told him she was menstruating he asked for proof which she showed him but he still wouldn't let go .... She said they struggled till he got angry and started beating her up again she passed out and guess the dude ran off thinking she was dead... She got home, told her parents, she was rushed to the hospital and discovered that he didn't penetrate her vjay , reported it to the police and till this day the guy is still on the run


The real problem is till today my friend still has nightmares about it, she still see the guy in her dreams, she doesn't associate with people as she used to, she cries every other night ... It's really getting out of hand I've told her to let it go but she says she's tried and still can't that the memories still hunt her please nairalanders and advice



pardon any errors using my phone to type this

Zceesneh:
i've watched this movie before, aunty try something else

Youngpo413:
wow,so sad...I pray she meets a good guy who will make her believe that all guys are not the same....how I wish she is in UYO,EKET,ABAK or IKOT EKPENE

luvguy:
she should jst 4get nd move on...wat if de guy raped her, is dat nt de worst...some gals sef

misspicy:

wow youngpo making a cool comment.....

am amazed

Youngpo413:
hahahaha,are you kidding me,I'm not that bad please,ne pas toujours l'esprit de ma
personnalité en ligne, en réalité,
je suis un très bon gars, de sorte
que vous pouvez compter sur
moi, voulez-vous?