C2H5OH:

Oh come on. I have had that happen to me when I was in Nursery 2 lol.

ayinisong:

I'm 24 and she is 22. She is just my friend and we are not lovers although we are close. I took her for sightseeing. During the discussion with the tour guide, he paused and asked her whether she will marry me, just like that.

We were not discussing relationships mind you. He was showing us around the place. And when I asked him why he asked her such a sensitive question, he said he doesn't talk anyhow, that something just put it in his mind to ask her.

When we were about leaving the place he asked me whether I will marry her. I told him I had to think about it.

How come he didn't think that she could be my sister, cousin etc.?

Both of us are graduates, but you know as a girl she will be looking out to get married very soon and definitely, I'm not ready now.
what do I do cos she might be the one for me. Also what do you think about the age difference.

Could it be that we were destined to be together and we didn't know all these years cos she has just been my casual friend, although I know I love her.

I happened to call the guy later and ask him the meaning of what he said, he just said I should think about it. that there is a day that a guy and a girl came to the place and he made the pronouncement and today they are married. I'm confused.

Bro, wake up dat ur guy is justa MATCH MAKER prolly a fake one

i had a similar experience with my first girl friend, we went to a beach (our first date) and there was this photographer who came up and he ws like, hey you guys match each other, saying the two of us (me and my date) were goin get married! today she is going out with someone else and same with me, so once more i say wake up, he was just trying to play those LOVCE MATCHING GAMES


but for destny in marriage, i will say yes there is such, read much abt it and seen very much of its kind

ayinisong:

I'm 24 and she is 22. She is just my friend and we are not lovers although we are close. I took her for sightseeing. During the discussion with the tour guide, he paused and asked her whether she will marry me, just like that.

We were not discussing relationships mind you. He was showing us around the place. And when I asked him why he asked her such a sensitive question, he said he doesn't talk anyhow, that something just put it in his mind to ask her.

When we were about leaving the place he asked me whether I will marry her. I told him I had to think about it.

How come he didn't think that she could be my sister, cousin etc.?

Both of us are graduates, but you know as a girl she will be looking out to get married very soon and definitely, I'm not ready now.
what do I do cos she might be the one for me. Also what do you think about the age difference.

Could it be that we were destined to be together and we didn't know all these years cos she has just been my casual friend, although I know I love her.

I happened to call the guy later and ask him the meaning of what he said, he just said I should think about it. that there is a day that a guy and a girl came to the place and he made the pronouncement and today they are married. I'm confused.

O boy, age has nothing to do with marriage.

There is nothing like you were destined to be together, if you are [b]very sure you love and understand her (vice versa) [/b]and ready to live with each other for the rest of your lives, then go on. But be very sure you are not mistaking love for closeness/familiarity or lust.

The guy is just match making based on the closeness between you two. The fact that he made the pronouncement for a guy and a girl in the past does not mean he has to make the same pronouncement for every guy and girl that comes for a tour guide with him. Now, he told you that the guy and girl are married but did he tell you if followed up to see if everything is well with the marriage and will last?

Don't be confused, be sure of yourself.

If he has to pronounce that always, then some desperate ladies will have to go with a guy they are close to so that he pronounce it and they get married.

dawg7o:

This is absolutely irrelevant to the topic being discussed but can anybody tell me how to create a topic of discussion in this forum?

Apologies for any inconveniences caused.

Many thanks

olanajim:

man can make or mar his own destiny!

REAL TRUTH:

God bless you man,,the man or woman you get marreid to would go a long way to define or redefine ur destiny,,,,I don't believe in destiny in marriage,,the last time we had destiny in marriage was in the Garden of Eden and that marriage had a problem that made Adam to blame God for giving him(Adam) a wife(Eve),,,
After wards in in 1st Cor7,,,we were advised to chose our own wife ourselves,,,

dwonder:

What is destiny?
If I understand d word destiny then you don't need to do anything but wait and d babe will be urs when u're ready.
Wake up man u have 2 work hard 4 whatever u desire.

REAL TRUTH:

@Poster: No man or anywoman is particularly meant/destined for any man or woman,,,there is no destiny in marriage,,we humans wisely or stupidly chose our destiny when it comes to marriage.Since the advent of Adam and Eve in the Garden of eden,,God has given up on man when it comes to marriage and made man to be solely responsible for his actions and inactions as regards marriage.
What I will tell you is that you re still a very young man think of ur life and future,,,try getting a job b4 U start thinking of marriage,,,love ur life,ur future and ur dreams for life at this stage,,,have an idea of d kind of woman you want in ur life,,,when its time to now get married,,,you would see those ladies in their droves,,,more importantly,,you must not pity anybody in ur choice and don't allow anybody to pity youn too,,,Marriage that would stand the test of time are those which the man in marriage has the strong will to shape and be decisive in in his choice.
Finally note that whatever decision you take in this regards whether good or bad,,you re going to regret,,,but I will say don't take a decision that you would regret so much.take one with a lesser regret!