why tell us? go see your pastor

STD or

in cassper voice. *bigLongDick*

Jolllyjoy:
no sweet,your post didnt go down well with me.


It ok tho

cheers

alright. Have a nice day

misspicy:

all you listed can be treated but vaginismus has no treatment, more reason why i mention vaginismus only.....and trust me i know about this topic so well but i can"t delve in much right now,maybe at night


and for a guy to speak up about his girl having painful sex,he must have done everything needed to ease her up

Yeah you're right I've done my best I could to manage her pain yet it isn't working. Am helpless!

KashyBaby:
This is interesting one...OP, if u have this monstrous eggplant then it cud be painful for her every time u hammer her...or it cud be as well her vaginal wall...

What's wrong with the Virgina wall?

CC:kingtom food don land!!advice d op

Abayor7:


What's wrong with the Virgina wall?

Sometimes due to dryness it cud be painful too or the floor of her uterus myt be lower...juz go find some position tat make her feel relaxed.

Abayor7:
Hi N'landers.
My girlfriend always go through pains whenever we have sex.
Am I the problem here or she's The one having The problem?
What can cause the pain and how can we deal with it?
Has anyone here ever gone through this before and what possible solution can be done?
Matured minds advice needed pleased.
And I don't mind harsh comments too as some may help.
Please help!

Cc : Lalasticlala

bros ur tyn too big for her hole dats why....................




just find the women with d perfect hole and ur problem will be solved

obiorathesubtle:
How old are you man?

bro is that all you can say? I don't think this has to do with age

Bro it is likely your girlfriend has endometriosis or other related issue. You can read about it here, if she has any symptoms from it pm me and I will give you a contact you can talk to about the ailment

http://www.naijanewsrave.com/what-endometriosis-really-means/

Lovelynature:
bro is that all you can say? I don't think this has to do with age

Lol. True, but I just had to ask.

How does this bring down the price of fuel.........end time O.P

Jolllyjoy:
no sweet,your post didnt go down well with me.


It ok tho

cheers

sorry please are u the girl in question, cos u quoting everybody

timmyblast:
sorry please are u the girl in question, cos u quoting everybody

am not quoting everybody,i only quoted oboriathestuble and add to what spicy said.


Any problem?

misspicy:
Vaginismus : painful spasmodic contraction of the vagina in response to physical contact
or pressure, especially during sexual
intercourse.

Painful sex is often a woman's first sign
that she has vaginismus. The pain
happens only with penetration. It usually
goes away after withdrawal, but not
always.
Women have described the pain as a
tearing sensation or a feeling like the man
is "hitting a wall"



google the rest

yeast infection can also cause it'

Michellla:

yeast infection can also cause it'

I am 100% sure that is not the case here.....


did he say he noticed whitish stuff? no....


you see vaginismus is like a no discussed cause of painful sex,not widely known also.....



i know all what causes painful sex but I can bet my last month salary that vaginismus is the cause of this one

misspicy symptoms of yeast
infections? Women may experience: Vaginal itching Burning while urinating Pain during intercourse Swollen or red vulva Thick, white discharge resembling cottage
cheese (sometimes watery)so he may not have noticed it.

am not saying its not what you called it.am saying yeast could also be a factor.

Michellla:
misspicy symptoms of yeast
infections? Women may experience: Vaginal itching Burning while urinating Pain during intercourse Swollen or red vulva Thick, white discharge resembling cottage
cheese (sometimes watery)so he may not have noticed it.

am not saying its not what you called it.am saying yeast could also be a factor.

you are getting me wrong my dear and yes we are saying the same thing,I have not disputed you that yeast infection cannot cause painful sex,what i am.saying is,from what OP typed up there,its most likely vaginismus and not every other cause of painful sex
you get

@ bolded yeast infection gives out an offensive odour so if he didnt notice the whitish cottage cheese like substances,he must have noticed the odour....

btw no matter how watery yeast infection is,the whitish particle is visible

misspicy:

you are getting me wrong my dear and yes we are saying the same thing,I have not disputed you that yeast infection cannot cause painful sex,what i am.saying is,from what OP typed up there,its most likely vaginismus and not every other cause of painful sex
you get

@ bolded yeast infection gives out an offensive odour so if he didnt notice the whitish cottage cheese like substances,he must have noticed the odour....

btw no matter how watery yeast infection is,the whitish particle is visible

alright you got me are you a meds major?

Michellla:
alright you got me are you a meds major?

.....not at all,i can relate to the topic

misspicy:
.....not at all,i can relate to the topic

ooh.i get it.sorry about that

Dry post though
Ain't no persons fighting here jae

Jolllyjoy:
advice him?are you a doctor?have you experience such before?am sure if you were to be the one in op shoes you would have come here to seek advice too.



Kingtom come help a confused friend.

What should I say again? The idiots above have said it all.

prettythicksme:
CC:kingtom food don land!!advice d op

ok

apart from vaginismus, pelvic inflammatory disease and fibroid involving the cervix could be a cause. let her see a gynaecologist, preferably.


few questions:
has any girl had similar experience with you b4?
does she have the pain all the time u ve sex or occasionally?
did d pain just started?

Ladies should know that the complain of pain does not make her sound intelligent.

Any lady who engages in exercise cannot complain of pain. Some ladies are so stereotyped, they do not want to try new things. They only give missionary and that just remain like logs of wood. Its laziness.

Take your girl to gym. Ask her to do intensive squatting. Join her. Any lady with thick thighs and strong laps should not complain of painful penetration. Also check for infection. Some of them carry infection about for years without knowing.

Finally, see a doctor.

Use KY jelly...it's a lubricant you rub on ur dick and she should rub it too on her V...it helps to reduce friction ur data the problem...try it

misspicy:

you are getting me wrong my dear and yes we are saying the same thing,I have not disputed you that yeast infection cannot cause painful sex,what i am.saying is,from what OP typed up there,its most likely vaginismus and not every other cause of painful sex
you get

@ bolded yeast infection gives out an offensive odour so if he didnt notice the whitish cottage cheese like substances,he must have noticed the odour....

btw no matter how watery yeast infection is,the whitish particle is visible

On point, no odour at all but she still feels the pain for hours after the play. And some people. Said she's not aroused; she was the one begging for it that's why I think she's aroused.
Thanks!

KingTom:

What should I say again? The idiots above have said it all.

Please bro, mind no one if Ɣòμ think †ђξy are not right. I need contributions and yours can be added too.
Thanks!

Abayor7:


On point, no odour at all but she still feels the pain for hours after the play. And some people. Said she's not aroused; she was the one begging for it that's why I think she's aroused.
Thanks!

you are welcome.....for the solution i think you should put up a thread on health section or google vaginismus or see a health worker in your location preferable a gynaecologist.....

douglasben:
apart from vaginismus, pelvic inflammatory disease and fibroid involving the cervix could be a cause. let her see a gynaecologist, preferably.


few questions:
has any girl had similar experience with you b4?
does she have the pain all the time u ve sex or occasionally?
did d pain just started?

No girl has ever had the experience with me.
And Ɣε̲̣̣̣̥§, she does experience the pain every time we had sex.
And I don't thinks she's ever had such experience with any other guy cos am her first (I hope Ɣòμ understand)

400billionman:
Ladies should know that the complain of pain does not make her sound intelligent.

Any lady who engages in exercise cannot complain of pain. Some ladies are so stereotyped, they do not want to try new things. They only give missionary and that just remain like logs of wood. Its laziness.

Take your girl to gym. Ask her to do intensive squatting. Join her. Any lady with thick thighs and strong laps should not complain of painful penetration. Also check for infection. Some of them carry infection about for years without knowing.

Finally, see a doctor.

Your second paragraph Ȋ̝̊̅§ spot on! I don't think she does exercise (she may be but am not sure).
Ɣε̲̣̣̣̥§ it may also be infection. I will take her to a doctor as adviced.
Thank Ɣòμ!