I am suffering the effects of being partially old, out of touch and having a weird personality. I have come to terms with the fact that my system is now tired of meaningless sex and pointless relationships. I remember pointing out this sudden dearth of romantic feelings in me towards having any relationship with new females. I always lose interest, plus I have gotten so bad in the game. I remember when one silly karishika I dumped those days after she slept with my roomate cursed me, that one day I will see women and desire them not plus they will hate me. Well nneka the terrible. It has happened. I have tried fighting it by picking up olosho (which you all know how that ended) and pretending to care about some people but I can't sustain the lie anymore and it's getting depressing.

I realised I have never dated myself, or learnt to be truly alone, since I realised early am a womaniser, I always surrounded myself with them. Today I see a woman, and my mind plays out every possible scenario that could ever happen and I lose interest. I wish now I wasn't as rotten as I was in my early days, I wish there were sexual things I hadn't done a thousand times, so my desire for them will push me towards having more sustained interest.

I have admitted defeat, i have abandoned it all, but I now have alot of spare time on my hands, periods I utilised in chasing skirt and telling lies to them now lies idle, and that idleness is killing me. Am bored. My job na ajebo work and doesn't cover this time. How can I date myself and be content. Since I have accepted defeat, that I have finally lost, my old days are long gone, how can I fill up my spare time. If not for the premier league, I would have died every weekend. I wanna buy a PS maybe that will help, but I need more suggestions from people who have dated or are currently dating themselves. Thanks

Ok, so are you In need of relationship with another self?

chocolateme:
Ok, so are you In need of relationship with another self?

don't get ur question dear.

Lol...we myt have different ball games but definitely we have same equation...
I still prefer to be single than keeping my time with another person...
What I usually do during my free time, I go for a non formal classes, I volunteer myself to some organisations that need an extra hand, I travel abroad & lastly I love shopping...
I can't afford to see myself giving up my freedom to anybody yet...so I'm cool with my routine.

Take easy bro....form is temporal but class is permanent..it comes naturally,trust me,u still have that touch.when the right babes comes along,it happens like a flash...u still have it bro

KashyBaby:
Lol...we myt have different ball games but definitely we have same equation...
I still prefer to be single than keeping my time with another person...
What I usually do during my free time, I go for a non formal classes, I volunteer myself to some organisations that need an extra hand, I travel abroad & lastly I love shopping...
I can't afford to see myself giving up my freedom to anybody yet...so I'm cool with my routine.

guess church activities is an equivalent of ur volunteering experience, just that I don't wanna hear anybody call me "brother eddygourdo". Am a man . Shopping? Feels shameful to consider. Thanks dear.

obinnashady:
Take easy bro....form is temporal but class is permanent..it comes naturally,trust me,u still have that touch.when the right babes comes along,it happens like a flash...u still have it bro

nwannem nwoke. Thanks for that. Maybe ur right. My location makes it all worse as I have to solve my situation amongst scare crows. Maybe a little more patience from me. Thanks. Udo

Eddygourdo:
guess church activities is an equivalent of ur volunteering experience, just that I don't wanna hear anybody call me "brother eddygourdo". Am a man . Shopping? Feels shameful to consider. Thanks dear.

Lol...see how d way u think? U put everything in one box & that's it,end of the story...
Shine ur eyes, not only church needs volunteer boo...there is red cross, environmental team, women's group against domestic violence to name few...

KashyBaby:



Lol...see how d way u think? U put everything in one box & that's it,end of the story...
Shine ur eyes, not only church needs volunteer boo...there is red cross, environmental team, women's group against domestic violence to name few...

that's true oh, red cross and environmental groups. Thanks hon. Biko is there a men's group against domestic violence? cos it's not appropriate I show my woman wrapper character in a female group.

KashyBaby:



Lol...see how d way u think? U put everything in one box & that's it,end of the story...
Shine ur eyes, not only church needs volunteer boo...there is red cross, environmental team, women's group against domestic violence to name few...

that's true oh, red cross and environmental groups. Thanks hon. Biko is there men's group against domestic violence? cos it's not appropriate I show my woman wrapper character in a female group. U get?

Eddygourdo:
nwannem nwoke. Thanks for that. Maybe ur right. My location makes it all worse as I have to solve my situation amongst scare crows. Maybe a little more patience from me. Thanks. Udo

I di ok nwanne

Eddygourdo:
that's true oh, red cross and environmental groups. Thanks hon. Biko is there men's group against domestic violence? cos it's not appropriate I show my woman wrapper character in a female group. U get?

Aside from Premier league that makes our weekend's crazzzzy, yes ofcurz u can find a lot of NGO's that need ur help..or maybe it's time for u to develop ur hidden talent? Or explore ur new things and engaging urself something that doesn't need a female partner

Just say u wanna tell us how creative u are..... Sit down and think for a second, there is a way out!

KashyBaby:


Aside from Premier league that makes our weekend's crazzzzy, yes ofcurz u can find a lot of NGO's that need ur help..or maybe it's time for u to develop ur hidden talent? Or explore ur new things and engaging urself something that doesn't need a female partner

naughty you. Dating my hand and a bottle of vase line is not what I had in mind. Am a sexual deviant, so it can't work for me. I like the NGO idea. My location is the issue but nevertheless, Biko if you know any that will take a lonely brother in, holla @ ur boy. I am 6ft 2, dark and built, so I can be a guard sef at their events.

BrightEye:
Just say u wanna tell us how creative u are..... Sit down and think for a second, there is a way out!

am lost bro. Explain better please ur suggestion.

Eddygourdo:
naughty you. Dating my hand and a bottle of vase line is not what I had in mind. Am a sexual deviant, so it can't work for me. I like the NGO idea. My location is the issue but nevertheless, Biko if you know any that will take a lonely brother in, holla @ ur boy. I am 6ft 2, dark and built, so I can be a guard sef at their events.

Lol..sorry but I wasnt talking abt masturbation @ all, funny u..
And btw I don't live in Ng & I'm not a Nigerian so I have no idea abt how NGOs run in ur country...

Your womanizing no get part2 chacha. All d people u follow on nl are all women. Hai how we go do you now?







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