I just wanted to discuss a trend i've noticed. It seems when the 'nice guy' is dumped, he metamorphosises into a player or bad guy. I've seen some of the nicest guys I know, when dumped, turn into misogynistic, hateful, bitter, arrogant and mean men who do attract the ladies (but normally quite insecure/needy ones of variable attractiveness).

I'm not sure if the same is true for women; the 'nice girl' turned hussy? I'd consider myself a 'nice guy but when I was dumped, I just put a wall up and after a short rebound, stayed away from ladies altogether.

But do people do this to get their power back? As in, 'I was the nice one, now i'm going to be the nasty one' to make themselves feel better for their powerless position in their break-up? I just find it funny the number of good male friends i've known who have turned into jerks since being dumped and i'm sure women do as well - I just may not have noticed it.

Hmmnnn... So true. Just reflecting about how nice, loving and caring i was before i was heartbroken. My trust in ladies became broken and shattered and i turned into a wild thing, thank God now sha, i am back to the normal and smooth loving dude but despite this i still have this slight feeling that ladies dont worth it. So i have made up my mind that what will be will always be jawe.

Oh yes, I'm also a victim

u nt far from d truth..... trust sometimes knows hw to change a man once broken.
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.#W A I L E R S

My brother you're making sense. One plate of isiewu.

Op same goes for the females too

My babe told me she needed space.. I dumped her sorry arse.. No time to beg.. If u need space in a relationship.. What will u need in marriage? Light-years?

Right now.. I am almost into another.. And this one is hotter

kilokeys:
My babe told me she needed space.. I dumped her sorry arse.. No time to beg.. If u need space in a relationship.. What will u need in marriage? Light-years?
Right now.. I am almost into another.. And this one is hotter

I dont just understand why ladies will always use that word "i need some space". My ex gave me that shit 4 times before i decided to really give her that space, now she has been trailing me for years, telling me she is yet to find a guy like me blablabla.... she is planning to come and see me in Lag, I go too over-bleep her and after send her comot for my house. Onyeoshi. lolz

I rest my comment here...

definitely


that's why I only Bleep them bitches once and honestly,i don't give them numbers

KashyBaby:
I rest my comment here...

see your life?who you con dey confess to now?



Them ask yhu?

I wonder the kinda gurl that your g.f is self.


Fishbrain.

Then when we say men are childish they'll start complaining. Get over urself and stop being a whiny little brat, one small girl from somewhere broke ur heart and ur actually proud to use that as your reason for being a bad person? Grow up abeg

PrinceAlex001:

I dont just understand why ladies will always use that word "i need some space". My ex gave me that shit 4 times before i decided to really give her that space, now she has been trailing me for years, telling me she is yet to find a guy like me blablabla.... she is planning to come and see me in Lag, I go too over-bleep her and after send her comot for my house. Onyeoshi. lolz

When u r too perfect for them I guess.. I cook, play instruments, sing, work .. A perfect gentlemen..

So they think.. Woo.. If i can get this guy attention.. It means I can get someone richer, finer, more talented..

As if u r cheating them from something good.. The good life..

Only for them to realise.. U were the best for them.. Too late..

I need space... Thats the beginning of the end.. To any relationship.. Guys beware.. Run for ur life

Too fucking bad. I don't get what's so "damaging" about a break-up. So she bleeps up, too fucking bad. Get your act today and get another girl.




Some people sha.........

KashyBaby:
I rest my comment here...

I really need your comment

MrsPhyno:
Then when we say men are childish they'll start complaining. Get over urself and stop being a whiny little brat, one small girl from somewhere broke ur heart and ur actually proud to use that as your reason for being a bad person? Grow up abeg

funny u,i bet u won't undastand

MrsPhyno:
Then when we say men are childish they'll start complaining. Get over urself and stop being a whiny little brat, one small girl from somewhere broke ur heart and ur actually proud to use that as your reason for being a bad person? Grow up abeg

we guys are so emotional and things are not the way you girls thinks sometimes

Op, in summary, all good guys that were heart broken just woke up from sleep(the sleep of believing in true love!)
#team_Olosho

ChappyChase:
Op, in summary, all good guys that were heart broken just woke up from sleep(the sleep of believing in true love!)
#team_Olosho

I believe all men are good from start

not again.

puresoul1:
I believe all men are good from start

I can't tell oo, cause I have never had a girlfriend all my life and am not sure if a searching for one!

Too bad am abt going tru one nw.....

Sabadon:
Too bad am abt going tru one nw.....

wow

wo gals don help self

kilokeys:

When u r too perfect for them I guess.. I cook, play instruments, sing, work .. A perfect gentlemen..

So they think.. Woo.. If i can get this guy attention.. It means I can get someone richer, finer, more talented..

As if u r cheating them from something good.. The good life..

Only for them to realise.. U were

I need space... Thats the beginning of the end..
To any relationship.. Guys beware.. Run for ur life

I do all that except play instruments, my ex said I wasn't deserving of her, called me an over perfectionist cos I didn't cheat... now she trolls me on whatsapp with all manner of texts, even talking about sex...

I'm in school now, and I'm turning into a player, and I hate it... anyone with steps on how to feel like a guy without playing girls....

In a dilemma right now.... 3 girls on my head... anyone in UNIBEN here??

PrinceAlex001:
Hmmnnn... So true. Just reflecting about how nice, loving and caring i was before i was heartbroken. My trust in ladies became broken and shattered and i turned into a wild thing, thank God now sha, i am back to the normal and smooth loving dude but despite this i still have this slight feeling that ladies dont worth it. So i have made up my mind that what will be will always be jawe.

in fact u just spoke about me like u directed my past with girls...bro u have said that all....in my own case after my first and second girl I loved truly with my heart, I just told myself that the next 1001 girls that will come my way will suffer for it....and they did tho not up to 1001 girls...but I really dealt with girls in my university days, straffing them like say my life depends on it all in the pretence of "I love u girl"...but now I trust no girl again even tho I have calmed down from my past life style with girls.....as I chat now I don't have a gf to call my own cos I tink my past is haunting me, cos I ve asked some girls out and they turn me down despite th fact am handsome with height n nice physique and to the glory of God I hold small pepper ....i will be 32 come March 19 ...we bro nice comment again. hala

Ehimzy:
In a dilemma right now.... 3 girls on my head... anyone in UNIBEN here??

I hate to be a player, but the girls are not helping at all,most of the girls see relationship as profit and loss

I still don't understand what ladies really want. Is it that their wants are complicated or they themselves. I was a perfect gentleman. I loved this girl with all my heart, did everything for this girl, even to the extent of following her to fetch her water. When she falls sick I made sure that I showed her all the care I could,sometimes massage her body wit hot water and rob,pay for most of her assignments,helped her in her exams etc, only for her to finally dump me. I think ladies dnt like perfect and loving guys but the harsh ones. Now I dnt think I'll try such a crap again. #never

Finally....my dream thread.....


*Drops 15 inches mouka foam*....

Hmm too bad

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