Yewandequeen:
I have been pondering over this for long.

I don't know Why GUYS believe when they take a lady out they either end up on the bed in his place or her place.

What is the cause of this?

Not the I never chop ladies oooooo,ladies they themselves know they can foot the bill.

GUYS over to u

with that br.east and yansh I am seeing on your profile why would I wanna end up on bed?

20bc:
Do you seriously want us to answer that question now

vizkiz:


with that br.east and yansh I am seeing on your profile why would I wanna end up on bed?

Yewandequeen:


Ure a typical example of GUYS am referring to

ok, so can we go out so I can touch those boobs and yansh

Yewandequeen:

Yes pls

dachaste:
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A guy's impression of a lady depends on how she present herself.

Twaci:
A very very smart reply.

Twaci:
A very very smart reply.

Yewandequeen:

I dont agree with that.
1. Most GUYS think that way.
2. The lady's features can also constitute to it.

Isaacmacdon:
Like my frnds up there has said, D impression she creates really matters. Point f correction "Not all guys".. There's one thing girls dnt knw nd it cncerns d "taking out" thingy. It shudnt be on d guy always,try 2 surprise d guy(dats if hz eitha ur bf or close frnd nt some random guy). Pay 4 d meal at times nd uve gaind enuf respect 2 last a lifetime(nt literally)..

Twaci:
How a lady presents herself would be the way she would be treated.

A sexy vixen would be seen as a seductress

A naive girl, as one easily manipulated.

A dependent girl, as a free giver.

A classy, no nonsense, independent girl is always respected.

20bc:


Kai, you murdered it.... Just take a bow and go...

Twaci:
How a lady presents herself would be the way she would be treated.

A sexy vixen would be seen as a seductress

A naive girl, as one easily manipulated.

A dependent girl, as a free giver.

A classy, no nonsense, independent girl is always respected.

Yewandequeen:


Yea u right about the not a * random guy thing *

But for example a lady is Who is celebrating her birthday, u been a friend called her to Wish her birthday wishes and discovered she decided to stay home on her birthday watching movies and sleeping. U been a friend decided Thats not possible, It's her birthday she has to go out n v fun. After the outing u then decided to cap it all with should we go to my house or ur house .

The point is she never wanted to go out in the first place.

So what u say?

Yewandequeen:


I concur with the other lady's type mentioned above


The last lady type-it isn't always true

Twaci:
Why?

Yewandequeen:
I have been pondering over this for long.

I don't know Why GUYS believe when they take a lady out they either end up on the bed in his place or her place.

What is the cause of this?

Not the I never chop ladies oooooo,ladies they themselves know they can foot the bill.

GUYS over to u

shumuel:


You've received very good replies already, i just want to add but a few, look lets be honest, when a guy is taking you out, he will have it at the back of his mind to get laid, but what happence during the date will tell if he will go with the back-up plan or change is mind.

Now if you have selfrespect, good carriage and vibrate good energy, i believe he will see you for keeps but when you present yourself as ''i never chop'' then he will want something in return for his money, and he will demand it that very night.

Its more like the ''You are address the way you dress'' even though we are not talking about dress or fashion here, hope you get me ?

Yewandequeen:

Yewandequeen:
I have been pondering over this for long.

I don't know Why GUYS believe when they take a lady out they either end up on the bed in his place or her place.

What is the cause of this?

Not the I never chop ladies oooooo,ladies they themselves know they can foot the bill.

GUYS over to u

Yewandequeen:


Because I v friends who experience this and I do too

obadizena:



It's usually the practice when a guy goes out with a runs girl. Once she goes out with him, it's implicitly understood by both that both would end up on bed at the end of the day. Some guys have the preconceived notion that all sophisticated girls, nowadays are runs girls, either openly or in disguise.. Very often, people behave according to the premise they harbour in their minds.
It's quite upsetting how some people will harbour false ideas, then take for granted as if those ideas are facts and go about using them as guides to relate with others.

Having regards to all these, u can save urself embarrassment if, before u go out with any guy, u try to hammer on him in a very polite and indirect but firm manner that u're not the type that goes out with a guy and end up in bed. Ensure that the message u're putting across has actually sunk well before going out with him. Usually if that's what he intends to do, he would loose interest and abandon the idea, although some will still forge ahead and try u. Of course, if they do, they shouldn't be embarrassed or offended then when u turn them down.

Yewandequeen:



Yes you're right but some take it as she is forming hard to get or that she just need a Lil more of tease.
But we both know many won't listen,many dudes of nowadays just kinda have that terrible notion that 'they take u out-u end it in the bedroom'


yuck

#I wonder who inculcated that into them

unapapadeycraze:




Won't you feel disappointed? After eating shawarma, jollof rice and chicken, he didn't take you to his room? C'mon, you will call him a slacker.

Yewandequeen:


This thread is for your type#yuck

why should I?
For me it's the I never chop ladies that feel indebted to a guy and thus offer him body in return since they can't afford what they have eaten.

Never in my life will I do that,if am going out with u I will go with my ATM and I will never allow u buy for me what I can't pay for should things go south.

unapapadeycraze:




Like say she don know say she go get date with me.

I can't just resist your ukwu. If you check her dp, you won't see it there, so don't even bother.



So are you trynna say, you are financially independent, you don't need any guy's money?

It's not the matter of being able to settle the bill, it's the sexual hormones that runs in both parties body. You both just wanna have fun, you know. What if he is the type of guy you are into? He meets all your specifications, won't you gv in? So you've never gotten down with a guy on a 1st date? Be sincere.

Yewandequeen:


yinmu

u wish

yes I am and I haven't see that dude that will brag/flaunt his money around me, I will bluntly tell him to go to blazes dear.

To the last paragraph,

That he is my type will make me more cautious and not to fall my hand,I never give in to such.To the last question,I have never allowed that and never will.


Dear u don't get it,it's not about the bill it's about the mindset of the dude paying the bill we talking about here.

Guys should stop thinking cos they have paid the bill they have the right to Disney land.NO THEY DONT