joseph1832:
You still forget that love fades, sooner or later, eyes become open and question start being asked... Then, they know were they belong.

Say what? No be my bubble the OP dey burst sha. Whether the OP like am or not, any girl wey wan straff go straff, plain and simple.

bwahahahaha roflwkmd lmao

Nawao! All these rules are boring sometimes!

What if someone just wants to have sex! Then what?

Abbykem:
Yeah. Not 4 flings


U are right abt d sex in relationship but for me I just live and enjoy d moment if I love him.

Bea , u are so funny n twisted. seriously.. pls dnt get me wrong m not trying 2 haunt u here. but only pointing out clear observation.

so you are aware n practice the last line of ur statement i bolded above n u jump out 4rm wherever to post a "dust thread" as an o.p....like seriously..?

guys dey reason u out o..which kind girl u be.. ..lol.. u fit use pepper soup wash ur kpekus, walihi.. ..n still shoot urself on the foot..
thats wat i say abt black african girls n their attachment of one awkward importance 2 their pkekus...e no dey let them see far..or even dey true to themselves ... as a result u fit deduce the ones wey dey real, the ones wey dey immature, the ones wey dey learn, the outrightly delusional, n the fake ones i call "i dnt like,but chuk it". (out-rightly pretentious)
All this ur epistle wld have been titled "pkekus management " or somethin... lol..... u girls dnt even measure ur pro n cons b4 posting, or finking fins thru 4rm anoda angle, even b4 throwing out ur ideology..

b4 u compose this ur epistle finish, a Hot gurl go don go 2 rounds, they reason anoda tin.. ?

no worry, when u jam hommies like me, wen d matter dey hot, ontop ur blazing conji n small calypso 4 ur system..

u no go know say na u write this kind tin 4 nairaland.....

pls leave this epistle bea, n solve maths....ejo..

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Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

With all these theories sex is guaranty right...
Cheap and rubbish trash.... Woman were is your pride!!!!
Big sorry for you and the moderator who push these useless writeup to Front page....

osaslord500:
Nonsense

na soo

Ur topic no blend with today's events.
In these last days, na girls dey disturb well for sexual satisfaction oh! They don't even sell their toto again, they give out for free so that the guy go like them.

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.

Only one thing needs to be on this list:
1. You must be married

You are also right. Nut she spoke reality than yours. I used to be a teacher. Even JSS 1 students are dating and by jss 3, they are already non virgins. Some try to reach like ss2 and very few graduate with there plaster on their cuints. So who waits for mariage these days.

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.

Only one thing needs to be on this list:
1. You must be married

You are also right. But she spoke reality than you. I used to be a teacher. Even JSS 1 students are dating and by jss 3, they are already non virgins. Some try to reach like ss2 and very few graduate with there plaster on their cuints. So who waits for mariage these days.

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Hahahahaaa. If the guy lie nko ?

He z perfect.... Aside from dat work sha....4 months out... 1month in... Gush.... It hurts!

So make I agree with ashewo too?


Abeg channge dis topic
#buhari's voice

Fact is people change. It is the only constant.

At the end, it's down to sense of duty and, determination commitment on BOTH part. It takes two to tango.

May not sound romantic. And it's not because every struggle in most relationships/marriages has little in the way of romance.

No list of dos and don'ts quite cut it.

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Where's this coming from? What if she's a hooker?

osaslord500:
Nonsense

osaslord500:
Nonsense

A sadist spotted

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

I av tried most times. D sweetness of sex is jst 2mins. 4 me wat mater's most btw d both of us is udastndn n careing 4 each oda...

Abbykem:
we know ur type

are you type detector?

Nigerian Ladies will not pay heed to all these but they will rather consider these 3 points before jumping into Bed with him:

1. Does He have the money to take care of my basic needs? If YES...Sex will follow

2. Does he have more money to foot the bill for a lavish wedding? If YES...Sex with Monkey Style will follow.

3. Does he have even more money for us to be very very comfortable like Dangote? If Yes...She will build Duplex for you inside her Vjay!
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JoeCutie:
Nawao! All these rules are boring sometimes!

What if someone just wants to have sex! Then what?

Abeg help me ask OP.

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Honestly, I'm tired of reading all these lists on NL these days. Everything has a list attached to it.

10 ways to detect a runs babe.....Tosynefvckingwhateverhisnameis

How to shi.t covertly in your bf's house.....whats her nameagain?

10 types of guys to avoid in a relationship

5 ways to make a girl like you

6 ways to get anygirl you want

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Dont y'all get tired of these Goddamn lists

Sex is sex. Get it over with it already. If you don't want it, stay the fvck home with your pus men. Ah!

delectablegyal:
Don't have sex till marriage.

Noted! A bad idea anyway. Marriage is a no going back institute, its better to know d institute before writing jamb

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.

Only one thing needs to be on this list:
1. You must be married

what's wrong having sex aptitude test and induction training b4 marriage

delectablegyal:
Don't have sex till marriage.

So dt when you marry you will surprise the guy with side shots and various styles...eventually e go de wonder na Dem who train you

delectablegyal:
Don't have sex till marriage.

Keep on fooling your self.

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Soro niyen?

Apparently when you are at the initial gragra phase all the 3 you wrote will be ensync until after he has scrwd you dry then he will strt reconsidering.

I think most of our ladies have become hopeless and cant just zip up till marriage hence the need to write this poo to justify the decision to have sec wwith a man they are not married to.

MrsPhyno:
End time list, my children.
Only one thing needs to be on this list: 1. You must be married

Wise lady

[quote author=tosyne2much post=41162349][/quote]abi i lie

Abbykem:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy.


1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment: Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.


2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand: Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the sex idea.


3. Do you both share the same ideas and values: It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Sha from my own point of view, keeping your marriage bed undeviled had its own special blessing..so if you can stay away from sex with the man or woman you want to marry, please do or alternatively once you start going for counseling, better tell them you guys have had sex and you guys will have to be put thru some extra counseling which might involve both of you not having sex again till marriage and might take longer than expected..

And who says sex the can't make you tick all the boxes above and afterwards you realise that you were just being pushed by adrenalin?