Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy



The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like Sex is the best way to finding the right one. This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on Sexual intimacy than emotional intimacy.



Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.

As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having Sex with your partner.



1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.



2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand:
Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the Sex. idea.

3. Do you both share the same ideas and values:
It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.



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All this one na long story

Akuko

True talk.

4. Survey/discovere if his Gen and Car is Filled with Fuel and if he has 50L reserve....






























Mtcheeew ! Nansense

grad2012:
True talk.

Sister Gradice... This ur back-side can fit injure person

Ain't nobody got time for that!....abeg shift make I see road

Most people don't think when they are already in the motion....

ClassCaptain:
All this one na long story

ah tell you my brother abi na marriage? Just do the thing and go.....

Who get time for this one

juhan:
ah tell you my brother abi na marriage? Just do the thing and go.....

happy birthday

ClassCaptain:

happy birthday

tnx

Don't have sex with him until you're both married.. That's what I know and was taught.. Not the other way round

Maamin:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy



The hookup culture in modern society makes it look like Sex is the best way to finding the right one. This has totally damaged the dating culture in out society because relationships are now more focused on Sexual intimacy than emotional intimacy.



Women tend to disregard emotional intimacy which includes sharing each other’s experiences, opinions and feelings and would feel guilty about not jumping into bed too soon with a guy they like.

As much as physical intimacy is important, there’s always a reward for waiting. Inspired by YourTango, here are three things to consider before having Sex with your partner.



1. Are you both interested in staying together in long-term commitment:
Sex is a way to express love and attraction, which is why it helps solidify emotional intimacy. You have to first see yourself in a committed relationship with your partner otherwise, save yourself the heartbreak.



2. Are you satisfied with where you both stand:
Emotional security is constantly overlooked by most people and if you can’t honestly give a ‘yes’ to if you are both secure then you should reconsider the Sex. idea.

3. Do you both share the same ideas and values:
It’s not how he feels about you, it’s how you feel about him. You should know how he fits into your life in terms of certain values such as work-life balance, religion, lifestyle, parenting style, religion, money management.

Good one!

When that girl gives you herself and you dont sleep with her, she is gone.

Cutehector:
Akuko

ejiagha

ellacute45:
ejiagha

hw are you today

Cutehector:

follow ur heart.

ellacute45:
hw are you today

am doing fine darling.. some couple are just havn their weddin reception in a church, it's just a stone throw from my house... I feel like gettn married today. Awww

Cutehector:
am doing fine darling.. some couple are just havn their weddin reception in a church, it's just a stone throw from my house... I feel like gettn married today. Awww

you are so popular on nairaland so no girl will reject you make you kuku propose to one nairalander

ellacute45:
you are so popular on nairaland so no girl will reject you make you kuku propose to one nairalander

i'l just propose to ya den

The present day nigerian youth will never adhere to this

DehtahGeh:

Good one!

Thanks!

Cutehector:
Akuko

What is dat suppose to mean?

firstking01:
The present day nigerian youth will never adhere to this

U can say dat again.

Super story

Ok

You are advised to consider one actually: are you married?

So true. Team Virginia

Story for the gods. Na when she don pull pant finish, she go remember this message.