thelish:

Is she still on nairaland? Its been a while I saw her post n that of GreatGod.

EfemenaXY:


That post wasn't directed at you. Sambarry knows what I was referring to.

SAMBARRY:
ejo ejo ejo abeg abeg abeeegg.Mrs gbeborunnn I take God beg you in the spirit OF the season respect yourself and carry your e.ameboism go front. Shogbo.awon landan boys need your attention

Abi your name be kanwuliajara. Wetin consain you


Don't just get me started this evening so dress go front.

Awon e.busy body.chochochocho.marimaso.oniranu omo

Joy1706:

Lmao! Madam hot blood. Calm down. Like I said, I was just wondering about ur fixation with kanwuliajara. No offense intended sha. Compliments of the season

SAMBARRY:
compliments of the season o.

And merry Xmas in advance

Matter for the day as iyale concerned

Your osband abi na boyfriend wey you want make I friend no drop money for Christmas .e no do Xmas hair for me OR carry wura go fantasy island and e wan marry wife

thelish:


Hahahahaha. So good to hear from u again?
Its really becoming so boring. But na people like u go fit give am life ooo. Compliment of d season .

mostyg:


Men are polygamist by nature ( It could be by keeping multiples mistresses,multiple wives, multiple girlfriends, visiting prostitutes, etc) so the desire to have more than one partner at a time is always there.

Why do I want to have more than one wife, it is because I am a man (natural polygamist) and I want to keep and be RESPONSIBLE over my wives. I want my wives to know themselves, I want my children to know one another bearing my name. I want my wives to be proud bearing MRS and be respected in the society.I want to reduce the numbers of MISS that would eventually become someone mistress and destroy a happy home.
I want to have another wife because my society and faith permit it.
I would rather have another wife than to commit adultery.

SAMBARRY:
she's my lesbian partner. Is that what you want to hear?

Bye bye.odabo o forever and ever more

mostyg:


Thank you. I actually want all of us to be living under same roof.

mostyg:


Since you have suggested these set of animals, I will take my points from here. A farmer intending to rear goats would not buy one he-goat and one-she goat, he would maximize the ability of the he-goat to serve at least 3 to 4 she-goats. My point is that only he-goat is enough for all your four beautiful displayed she-goats.

Note: I am not comparing man with goat but I think with goats he brought forth, my points would be better understood.

mostyg:


Men are polygamist by nature ( It could be by keeping multiples mistresses,multiple wives, multiple girlfriends, visiting prostitutes, etc) so the desire to have more than one partner at a time is always there.

Why do I want to have more than one wife, it is because I am a man (natural polygamist) and I want to keep and be RESPONSIBLE over my wives. I want my wives to know themselves, I want my children to know one another bearing my name. I want my wives to be proud bearing MRS and be respected in the society.I want to reduce the numbers of MISS that would eventually become someone mistress and destroy a happy home.
I want to have another wife because my society and faith permit it.
I would rather have another wife than to commit adultery.

mostyg:


Since you have suggested these set of animals, I will take my points from here. A farmer intending to rear goats would not buy one he-goat and one-she goat, he would maximize the ability of the he-goat to serve at least 3 to 4 she-goats. My point is that only he-goat is enough for all your four beautiful displayed she-goats.

Note: I am not comparing man with goat but I think with goats he brought forth, my points would be better understood.

Chidoks:

Wow,1 he-goat =3-4 she-goats
Then 1 man =3-4 women
What then is the difference bearing in mind that we humans are higher animals.I no fit shout...
The goat analogy is even a good arrangement,it's for commercial purposes.

Chidoks:


So it means that 3 factors could lead to a man's decision to indulge in polygamy
1.cultural dictates
2.Religious dictates
3.Sampling of varieties aka different soups.
Sha,I don't know how you guys do it.How you can comfortably sleep with two women at the same time to the knowledge of all. Some say it's not about sex,I keep wondering what else is involved.

mostyg:




Is bringing them together to cohabit as a family not better than doing it behind their back?
Is bringing them together and be responsible over them not better than sleeping with them and paying them off like prostitutes?

All I am saying is that I want my wives and my children to live and know one another. I don't want to have any relationship with any woman without being responsible for her and her children well being.

Danke..

EfemenaXY:


Lol! Nor vex.

Just carry your mat & raffia sponge come, make you manage am like dat.

Compliments of the season to you to, my dear.

Chidoks:

I respect your take against adultery,truly I do. However I wonder if you guys consider our feelings in seeking to satisfy your manliness. I speak as a non-Muslim.maybe the Muslim women are taught to conquer the jealousy and the put-off resultant effect of knowing that he still gets down with someone that is not you as many times as he wishes.If you want to understand what I mean then imagine your woman with another man( no pun intended)
Well different strokes for different folks.

bolseas:
Mostyg, what is the meaning of Danke?

mostyg:


No woman would love to share her husband with anyone else, but it is hypocrisy and foolishness of any woman to prefer her husband commit adultery to marrying another one. Muslim women are no different from other women, many have accepted it with faith and it has not make them inferior women.

Do we consider your feelings? Yes. As for me I do.
Do you also consider our feelings? Haven't you on one occasion or the other not able to perform you role as a wife,cook, denied your husband 'soup' etc to your husband? I want to presume you are still sexually active, in 30 years time, when you will be less active, what happens to your husband? when you will be traveling from one part of the world/country to another to take care of your grandchildren, what becomes of your husband, off course he becomes a bachelor.

Please take a survey round many educated, retired, old, monogamist men who are now in there 70s and 80s, and ask them of their opinions on polygamy when they were young and now that they are old, you will be amazed with their responses.

Some men oppose polygamy not because they 'respect' or consider the feeling of their wives, their reasons are because they see it as financial burden and not conforming to modern trend. Or how do you explain the 'respect' a husband who sleeps with other women has for his 'only' lovely wife?

You may call this selfishness, the point is that no matter the decision you take, it would favor someone at the expense of the other in the long run.

My take.....it may not make much sense.


Thank you for respecting my stand on adultery, it makes me glad.

Danke...

SAMBARRY:
same to you o jare

EfemenaXY:


Come, when are you gonna change your profile pic?

SAMBARRY:
what's wrong with my profile picture. Don't you like it?

And why the frowning of the face. This is Christmas season na.oya smile.say cheese

EfemenaXY:


Your pic is a shock to the system na. Shuo!

SAMBARRY:
haaa ok na.I've changed it

EfemenaXY:


Phew! Much better.

I know your previous pic was inspired by Chillisauce - that naughty gal.

Vyolet:
The Op is only out to read reactions from family section landladies whom he knows they won't agree with his post.
Weldone oga.
Lemme oblige you though,separate flat in the same compound is cool.

onegig:
Nairaland gangs of intolerant religious folks at it again.

Why can't you guys just for once respect people's personal spaces as long as it doesn't pose a danger to you or your family?

How different are you in ideology from Boko haram or Daesh who's only mentality is " I am the only right one, my version of religion is the only correct one; agree with me or you perish" ?
He came here seeking architectural designs for a polygamy home.He doesn't need your opinion about the pros and cons of polygamy.

He didn't mention a particular religion in his opening post and to the best of my knowledge polygamy is still very much recognized by the constitution of Nigeria and is practiced in all regions.

If you feel you need to air your views about such. You would do well to open a new thread about that.

@mostyg

You would do well to ignore responding the posts that are off topic. You don't need to educate and you owe no one any justification for whatsoever you do. You opened a thread seeking ideas about architecture and if anyone doesn't find it interesting, they can always close the tab and move on.

I may or may not agree with your points of view or your actions but as for this I believe the best bet would be a winged styled apartments. With two wings and a central living room connected.

Also, the winged flats should have all that's needed for each to exist without a need to go to the other end to "borrow" or make use of things.

Wish you the best, just remember the word "just" in your dealings. May He make it easy for you.

baby124:
OP is a troll. Coogar is that you? Anyway just to play along. I can never share my kitchen, bathroom, room, sitting room, not even my child's pencil with another woman and her kids. Sorry. So use this revelation to build your house OP.