I don't know if some of you have seen what I mean. The ones that act all feminine. Snap their wrists, touch their forehead when they blush or something like that, even when they chuckle they make that obnoxious sound, they sound girlie, walk with the girlish attitude.

Isn't that a little over the top

Don't tell me it's because they're borderline females who just happen to have been born as males. Or is it?

it's just in their nature. I found online (i forgot the link) that during pregnancy, there is a possibility that these males had more of the female hormones or something along that line.
I have a friend like that. His isn't over the top. It's more subtle but you can tell he's effeminate and he's straight w/ a girlfriend.

I have two other friends (more like acquaintances) that are very girly and openly gay. and one acquaintance that is not so girly but obviously quite effeminate and he's openly gay as well or maybe bi (brb i'll go check his facebook to be sure. lol)

ROFL lol . Can you advise them to kind of keep it locked it in the closet, please? I heard it's kind of annoying .

oh and there's another one who is VERY effeminate (but not as effeminate as the openly gay ones)but i'm not sure what his sexual orientation is. he flirts with boys definitely. lol

C2H5OH:

ROFL lol . Can you advise them to kind of keep it locked it in the closet, please? I heard it's kind of annoying .

that's their nature. lol
if they acted otherwise they wouldn't seem normal. trust me. it's just part of them. I prefer it when ppl are themselves and not trying too hard to please ppl in their surroundings

yea my school has a lot of gay ppl was voted one of the most gay friendly. we have transsexuals even. I tolerate them but am yet to understand that kind of lifestyle. lol

I was fine until i saw the girlies gay I have ever physically seen.

Are you sure it's not EMO syndrome?

Fine, you're gay we get it. No need to turn into a girl.

some are not even gay. Those ones I pity most times because guys will hit on them and no girls will be interested.
there's one black kid at my school who perms his hair, talks, walks, acts EVERYTHING like a girl. he is adamant that he's straight but nobody believes him. lol I still have some doubt myself
I don't know him but I heard and i've seen him around.

so I don't think it's something they usually can control well they can control it but if you let them be themselves, they will be very girly. nothing anyone can do abt it.

what's emo syndrome? r u talking goths

Emo, goth, whatever you people call your people.

It's a learned behavior, right?
They made the choice. They must have seen these things on TV, practiced in their mirrors at home, painted their nails while nobody's looking, etc.

with the emo/goth subculture,yes their acts are learned and they made the choice. I knew some kid in high school who was emo/goth. funny thing is we went to the same middle school and he was different/normal then.
I don't think they act like girls though just because they paint their nails. they exclusively wear red and black/dye their hair some crazy color, wear chains and some wear dog leashes around their necks. plus they love violence and blood. I know 'cause I sat next to him in class and he would always draw disgusting stuff in his "art" book and talk about the most gruesome things with his friends. That's a very weird subculture to me. I'm not very fond of it. nothing girly abt that at all

come to think of it, I think i've been exposed to a very diverse and wide array of ppl.

yeawh you are a weirdo

@ethanol
Was this supposed to be a trick question?

@Oyinda
Becareful my dear. My lawyer friend use to tell me that "Birds of same feather flocks in close promximity". Don't research further about this gay thingy before u start driftin towards that direction sha oooo!

@Biola, u no wan talk abi?

I have observed one or two male/female gays and i noticed that its thing of the subconscious. In their mind they believe they are actually the opposite sex i.e a man thinks he is a woman and a woman thinks she is a man that is why some act it out so obviously. Have you ever noticed some folks that look like like male/female  at the same time. If you dress them up as a male they look good and if you dress them up as a female they still look good. Most of such pple have gay tendencies, some even turn out to be bi-sexual.

I have also heard  that some mothers during pregnancy desire a particular sex so much that even if they dont get that particular sex, the child tend to have most of the features they want any way.

A lot of factors contribute to this, some children became gay because they were abused as kids and the turn out to hate the sex that abused them so they take to same sex.

Which ever way i beleive its a disorder and needs to be corrected because from the beginning it was Adam and eve and not Adam and Steve or eve and eve or steve and steve. Its is higly sodomic and that was why  God destroyed Sodom and Gomorah whether people choose to beleive it or not.

I am not judging anybody but i believe that anyone who seeks help on it can get it for with God nothin shall be impossible.

May God help this generation.

sparta:

Have you ever noticed some folks that look like like male/female  at the same time. If you dress them up as a male they look good and if you dress them up as a female they still look good. Most of such pple have gay tendencies, some even turn out to be bi-sexual.

naaaaaaaaaa !!!!! >>> i don't agree with that >>>> not all guys who act effiminately are gays >>>
have a couple of friends that way & they aren't gays >>> even back in K.C there i knew a classmate of whom u could say >>> remain small im 4 be woman >>> but he never acted effeminately >>>> all in all u just have to deal with these stuffs just like hermaphrodites & the rest of 'em 

i said most not all.

How can somebody be gay? gosh!
Spitting, its so irritating

@@ sparta

well then >>> it ain't most of such effeminate guys that are gay

i know one in my fellowship then in school he used to act like a baby. i dont think he was gay he was just childish,an ajebutter, girlish and used to whine (''ohhhhhhhhhhhh whats that'' and all that kind of girlish talk)and generally act like a chick. Oh and he was nice

@Oyinda
Becareful my dear. My lawyer friend use to tell me that "Birds of same feather flocks in close promximity". Don't research further about this gay thingy before u start driftin towards that direction sha oooo!

lol. what other wise advice did your lawyer give u

This thread always makes me laugh.

Effeminate guys are fun to be with.I have one at my side ,we weren't friends but he came straight to me and started chatting up,I can say they are lively chatters

cruzita:
Effeminate guys are fun to be with.I have one at my side ,we weren't friends but he came straight to me and started chatting up,I can say they are lively chatters

mtcheew!

Lively chatters u say?
Me thinks they are noise makers dat need ta STFU!