Appliedmaths:
@Op, this was the same reason I broke up with my ex she is spending her 6th year in school on a four year course and from the look of things another year still dey wait her. It all started when this fellowship people grabbed her and gave her so many top positions, she lost focus and abandoned her studies I did all I could to bail her out but to no avail. I remember telling her that in the end all the fellowship people would abandon her and that's what's happening now.
So my guy u caused it, sit your behind down and read your books abeg, else you stay in that school till 2019. God cannot be mocked, u no read for exam how u wan take pass?

stabas:
I am currently doing a little job now anyway.One that pays 45k per month and it's a 2 month contract job.I'm thinking of using the money to pay my fees and when the work is done,i'll just write a letter to my dad before I travel to write the exam and tell him everything,switch off my phone till I can confirm from my mum that he has calmed down,then I can talk to him on the phone.my father can be very HBP'd by something like this cos he's in his 60s and I won't something bad to happen to him cos of me.But when he has calmed down,he can be forgiven.My elder bro had a similar case with mine and my father always used him as example to us and it hurt me when he does that cos nobody plans for failure.
I schooled in uniben anyway.Physical sciences faculty.

stabas:
Chartey thanks alot.The thing is I lost all interest in reading book after the 100 level failure.And even when I read,i won't just understand at all anymore.that's why I opted for the runs that has helped me alot.

Goodboiyy:

u even read the epistle the guy write ?..

hiroz:
bro you are so on point.. I saw so many of their likes i n school,if you advise them they would look at you like you are a demon...op you lost it right from the beginning, there was no balance between you church life and educational life..

tamquezee:
Very pathetic story but the key to success is still in your hand. But ur story at some point really disgust me. A Christian as u claimed to be; u were bribing lecturers and at the same time sowing seed, praying fervently for God to help u. Lying to ur father etc and still expecting miracles without even registering some of ur courses and relying on ur dubious lecturers. I don't really pity u but I learnt a lesson from your story that; short cut to achievement is full of pain and regret.And again, it is ur type of Christians that floods churches nowadays. My advice: don't cut corners read ur books u will surely pass OK.

stabas:
During the 2nd semester,a lecturer friend of mine I had been doing 'runs' with told me there's an elective course I should 'run' in order to grad and they'll use it to replace any other I fail,which I did at 25k per course(all final year courses).Only for me to hear from people later on that they weren't using that course to replace any.On calling him,he told me he din't tell me they were using the course to replace any.I felt bad and used but I still had faith.I sowed seeds and prayed like never before,telling God I can't be having a 2nd spilling year.I remember clearly when a woman made a prayer point in Church saying 'I shall not end this year in shame'.i prayed like I was about to die and sowed seeds to the prayer as well.i kept telling God that it was better I died than to go through what 2016 will offer me if I don't grad this year cos certainly,i will now have to tell my dad,who is already proudly telling people he now has 3 graduates at home.

Just last week,the results were released.You guessed it.My name was in the list of spillover students again,my final chance of being a graduate.

I seriously do not know how to go about it now cos i'm just confused.Its too big a burden for me to bear.Please I need the wise advises of my fellow nairalanders as it will help me on what to do this coming year and above all,although i've practically given up on prayers,i still need your prayers as well.If you're looking for who to pray for in your 31st night prayer,please let it be me cos God might answer yours,even if He dint answer mine.

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lekan3531:
MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER....MY ADVICE FOR U IS DAT U SHUD TRY AND RE-REGISTER THOSE COURSE U FAIL.....60% ON ACADEMIC,30% CHURCH AND 10% FOR ANOTHER THINGS.I BELIEVE DIA IS A REASON FOR ALL DIS .............BUT I PRAY FOR U TODAY THAT GOD ALMIGHTY WE HAV MERCY ON U AND PERFECT EVERY GOOD THING IN UR LIFE. YEAR 2016 WE BE A TESTIMONY YEAR FOR U,ALL UR LOST GLORY WE BE RESTORE BACK TO U IN YEAR 2016.....REMAIN BLESS AND CONTINUE TO AV FAITH IN THE GOD U RE SERVING


.........VERY SOON U WILL GIVE A TESTIMONY HERE

Chartey:
I still don't understand how you could have been paying for "runs" and still be "sowing seed" . That's why I don't go to church anymore. The pastors and members are all confused, worldly people.



I don't know your age but I can guess you've not seen life at all.
You want to commit suicide because of academic failure. That will only confirm that you're all round unintelligent rather than just not good academically. Do you want people to think of you that way after you're gone? I guess not.

Thank God your mother knows already. Here's what you need to do.
1. Keep your money and stop the Father Christmas in the name of "runs".
2. Face the courses you spilled squarely and pass them. If you have to turn the personal assistant of the guru in the new final year class, do it. No shame in it.
3. At this stage, it's likely you've lost passion for your course if you ever had it that is. So you make new life goals and plan how to achieve them from your present status.
In no time, you'll be a happy person again. Good luck.