In case you haven't heard, the biggest story on Nigeria's cyberspace in the past couple of hours has been this episode of theirs. While I am not interested in who was/is right or wrong as I do not have all he fact, neither am I in a position to even try to apportion any blame, my real concern is that there are many other pathetic stories of countless women/men whose child(ren) was/were forcefully taken from them by richer, more powerful and more connected estranged ex husband or ex wife. For those unfortunate, unconnected ones, no one is talking about their predicaments.

I once heard of a case where the husband retrieved the children from school without their mother's consent and flew them to South Africa; the distraught mother, left with only one child, could only haplessly look on. About 7 years after, the other 3 children have yet to return, the complicated court system in Nigeria couldn't help matters. Lawyers, human rights activists, NGOs, volunteers etc. can be of help, a great deal, to countless women and men in this area.

As we enter the new year, what measures can you take as a young man or woman to avoid such future heartbreaks for yourself and your loved ones? Here are seven simple steps:

1- Inculcate the right values and stay true to them;
2- Don't be in a hurry to get rich quick;
3- Don't be in a rush to be married;
4- Before entering into a relationship, "shine your eyes well". As much as humanly possible, know (in advance) what exactly what you are getting yourself into;
5- Know when to call it quit with a disoriented or an abusive relationship/marriage;
6- For those who are asexually active, ALWAYS use a condom; it not only saves you from unwanted pregnancies and STDs, it also saves you from heartbreaks such as theirs; and
7- When you slip, mess up or act indiscreetly (like we all do sometimes, after all, we are but human), PLEASE, don't sweep it under the rug only for it to linger on or re-appear 10, 20, 30 years down the line. Be courageous and wise enough to admit your indiscretion and make efforts to clear your mess before it degenerates into a disgraceful public spat as theirs.

Finally, I hope Davido and Sophia, at least for the sake of their baby, Imade, can amicably resolve this impasse and find a way forward.

And to everyone, I say, Happy new year 2016 in advance (it's barely 12 more hours to go)...
A toast to your success.

i need the 20 ways

HUMAN BEINGS !!

una don see case to take list from

chai

Cal davido and tell hm

Step 1 - dont be like davido
Step 2 - dont fvck sophia without condom

Thats pretty much the summary of it.

https://www.nairaland.com/2885600/ulcer-killing-mehow-survive-it


Moderators please help me push these to front page

If your mother do not take weed and if your father do not have baby mama

op,u no well.

chaiii wat a post

NEXT, mother's advice is importance

Abi ooo

Zip Up.. close up

If you cant.. use condoms correctly and consistently

Its that simple

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meanwhile guys see this threaad on nairaland on the new way to cure stroke, obesity, burn fat, and obesity

https://www.nairaland.com/2844443/know-anybody-down-stroke

mtcheeeewwwww

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Very Practical Points OP
No Religious Self righteous brouhaha that characterizes NL Sunday Threads.

I shouldn't be quick to get rich.
Make God never make my life be like fatai rolling dollar

1)Dont spread your legs for any boy
2)Dont spread your legs for any boy
3)Dont spread your legs for any boy
4)Dont spread your legs for any boy
5)Dont spread your legs for any boy

Op better have david's money

Nice one OP.....jus hope dey will hear

And it made front page 24 days later.
NEVER GIVE UP - moral of the story

There's only one way, DONT DO BABY MAMAS. GET MARRIED AND THEN YOU CAN HAVE YOUR BABIES

0k

Touching urrrghh...sophia nd davido
Nice 7 ways.. My life needs it..

I don't like divorce but if it is unavoidable. It is humane for the parents to split up the kids. Personally, I think the kids should stay with the mum till they are in their teens, then they should passed on to their father.

Don't fk below your 'station' .

If sophie was a rich man pikin, all of this baby mama, weed, kidnapping etc would not have happened. They would have settled their differences.

Davido should stick to chicks in his 'class'

Na wo get heart de suffer heartbreak...

Number 2
Like r u for real what type of dumb advice is that ... Thats the most ignorant comment i have seen so far ...so because sime stweepid lil boy is doibg nonsense means we should all seim in poverty to avoid the scandal ... Mehn i cant

CaroLyner:
1)Dont spread your legs for any boy 2)Dont spread your legs for any boy 3)Dont spread your legs for any boy 4)Dont spread your legs for any boy 5)Dont spread your legs for any boy

don't take moni from any boy

It is well, when love goes sour, it can be terrible

CaroLyner:
1)Dont spread your legs for any boy
2)Dont spread your legs for any boy
3)Dont spread your legs for any boy
4)Dont spread your legs for any boy
5)Dont spread your legs for any boy

Thank u .. Simple
N guys too shouldn't just go n sleep with any chic... Even if u do make sure u strapped or baby mama everywhere some chics is their mission to make it through baby mama jobs so guys need to b wise