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‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by iliyande(m): 8:35pm On Jan 01, 2016
Dear Bunmi,

I‘m going through my second divorce from a man I married in the native law and custom way.

I have two daughters by my first husband and one by my second. I went straight from my second husband into another relationship. My current boyfriend is divorced and has three children. He’s besotted with me but I feel nothing for him. I want to be on my own, not stuck in a relationship.

I’m never honest with myself or the man I’m with. I’ve never had an orgasm with a man – I’ve always faked it. Also, although I’m a loving mum to my girls, I know I’m not setting them a good example by having these relationships.

I lost my mother at the age of 16 and my dad lives in another state. I have no sisters or brothers, just friends. I feel such a bitch. I lead men on and once we’ve slept together, I don’t want to know. Please help me pull myself together and break this habit. It’s not fair on the kids or the men. I feel like a horrible person.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/01/ive-never-had-orgasm-with-any-man-always-faked-it/

Lalasticlala

Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by XOGBADO(m): 8:37pm On Jan 01, 2016
hmm...dis matter strong o. You dont need to go into a third relationship. U'd be setting a very bad example for ur daughters.
wow! FTC
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by muaa(f): 8:40pm On Jan 01, 2016
Perhaps she was circumcised at a young age.

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Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 01, 2016
You sure say u be woman

my advice: shebi u know mountain of fire ministries? they are having a crusade tomorrow, just go there. bkus me, I no know wetin I go come dey advice u. this ur case get as e be undecided
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by XOGBADO(m): 8:55pm On Jan 01, 2016
muaa:
Perhaps she was circumcised at a young age.

lol! grin
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by Pheals(f): 8:55pm On Jan 01, 2016
Seriously I don't understand...
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by lgboks(m): 11:47pm On Jan 01, 2016
don't think the idea of an orgasm has to do with only the man.
Get to know your self better,be comfortable with your self etc
Also going into a third relationship ain't the right thing (apart from setting a bad example for your kids you need to learn to be independent)
Know what works for you,love your self more,be focused (expecially on your daughters) etc

Ps-how do I know I made front page grin
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by Nobody: 12:17am On Jan 02, 2016
[size=25pt]Werin come concern us....[/size]
Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’-bunmi Column by Nobody: 12:18am On Jan 02, 2016
muaa:
Perhaps she was circumcised at a young age.
Blood of Nairaland... shocked

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