Vanquay:
There's this cousin of mine, he's 32, a medical doctor and makes over $300,000 a year so hes a big baller. I had always wondered why hes still single and 3 years ago, he told me it was because he had a strong hatred for Nigerian ladies(he was raised in the states like me). Recently around november 2014 he called me telling me that his family were pressurizing him to marry a nigerian.
Last year christmas when the whole family met to throw bombass parties, he introduced me to his fiancee, my body "Just weak". This girl LADY was the true definition of "Wife Material". I was more than impressed with her behaviour and beauty.The brief convo we had revealed her mass of intellect when i was struggling to keep up, i stylishly started cracking jokes.
The problem is i am just like my cousin and would rather not have any Nigerian lady in my life due to past experiences. I have a strong fear and dislike of them. Can you guys give me tips on how to conquer this irrational fear as i foresee it might cause trouble in the far future. I still have time on my side as i will be turning 21 this year...All suggestions are welcome.


Lalasticlala,Mynd44 help a brother out...MrCork?

YourMain:
Your mother is a Nigerian lady. Use her as a baseline of what you think of Nigerian women. If you've had a bad experience with 200 Nigerian women blame those 200 Nigerian women. Not over 80 million of them.

Don't discriminate against your own race. Like it or not you are Nigerian. Your mum is a Nigerian, your sister is a Nigerian woman, your aunts, nieces are Nigerian women.

MrCork:



..GET A JOB!!!!

I am in college dumbfvk

Vanquay:


I date black women but the "things Naija girls have shown me no be small"...Also, i am less than impressed with their way of thinking, we have soo little in common and its frustrating...The culture is just foreign to me.

YourMain:
Your mother is a Nigerian lady. Use her as a baseline of what you think of Nigerian women. If you've had a bad experience with 200 Nigerian women blame those 200 Nigerian women. Not over 80 million of them.

Don't discriminate against your own race. Like it or not you are Nigerian. Your mum is a Nigerian, your sister is a Nigerian woman, your aunts, nieces are Nigerian women.

YourMain:


But you're here on NL for over 5 months and you're not complaining about culture.

I joined Nairaland as a 1yr project to get more familiar besides all i do is TROLL its not like i frequent culture section or anything and yes i do complain over Culture but im not a biitch that whines about it, stroll through my old post or threads if you ever get bored

Vanquay:


I joined Nairaland as a 1yr project to get more familiar besides all i do is TROLL its not like i frequent culture section or anything and yes i do complain over Culture but im not a biitch that whines about it, stroll through my old post or threads if you ever get bored

Ray360:

I admire the echelon of intelligence that garnished this post. It is highly ridiculous and gobsmacking to lampoon or write-off a race as a result of the inefficiencies of a few.
It's a fallacy. Op, Nigerian women are lovely and adorable, They lead the league of cultured women in Africa. they are hardworking and loving.
Get a good Nigerian woman and thank me later.

YourMain:


Right. You came to learn about Nigerian culture and the way to do that is troll ? Maybe that's why you attract the kind of women you do because you're the same .

grad2012:
You sound like we are monsters.don't ever use one persons attitude to you to judge the rest.There are so many wonderful Nigerian women out there you haven't even met yet. So why not give one a try you have u whole life ahead of you and you have nothing to lose. Besides your mum is a Nigerian, isn't she a wonderful woman?

You are not all monsters but there seems to be a higher concentration of the monsters where i live. I have dated 1 and attempted 2, that was all i needed to steer clear.

My mum is a Woman...Wonderful*YAWNS* "Na Buhari go decide that one"

Vanquay:


I am in college dumbfvk

Vanquay:


Nairaland is really boring and drab only my perseverance is the reason my account isnt deactivated. I know the kinds of ladies i want now...Dumb Blondes with phat asses and nice titts, beautiful black women whom just want child support checks but I am much more worried when i become mature and realize that i have no love lost for Nigerian Women.

I know a few Nigerians that are decent and have been through hell because of the women from the confluence of River Niger and RIver Benue*YAWNS* Your poiuint isnt valid

grad2012:
You sound like we are monsters.don't ever use one persons attitude towards you to judge the rest.There are so many wonderful Nigerian women out there you haven't even met yet. So why not give one a try you have your whole life ahead of you and you have nothing to lose. Besides your mum is a Nigerian, isn't she a wonderful woman?
So if you want to date a Nigerian woman all you need is just plenty luv I your heart to show her.

Vanquay:


I am in college dumbfvk

MrCork:



^^^bro fon't u hav school homework?...u Tonkin nigerian women will date guys wit out qualifications?

MrCork:



....then get a pat time job as a toilet or black board cleaner there in college & stop moanin like a pregnant donkeys!! (No ofeense)

Vanquay:


I actually just came back from practice and currently chilling, dont you have a life other than replying "school boys"...I am rich and in 6yrs time they will be diieing to get a cut of my $300,000 income,. keep driving your battered range rover and dont go and get a sensible degree

MrCork:



....u on $300.000 a year but then u spend 23 outer 24 hour on nairaland....my brother. .yor head is clearly not correct!! (No ofeence)

You are more active than me, keep deceiving yourself old man. You need to CUM join us small boys to get a degree cus i said in 6 yrs time ama be making that kinda cash...Ogbeni go sleep Ordinary McDoinalds worker with a 1977 Range rover

Vanquay:


You are more active than me, keep deceiving yourself old man. You need to CUM join us small boys to get a degree cus i said in 6 yrs time ama be making that kinda cash...Ogbeni go sleep Ordinary McDoinalds worker with a 1977 Range rover