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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Holluwatarhyor(m): 9:14am On Jan 07, 2016
Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice
there are still fishes in the ocean.....search for your own girlfriend and stop being a caretaker.....you are still very single bro
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by columbus007(m): 9:14am On Jan 07, 2016
Ginaz:
Who's the her she's addicted to? Is she a lesbian? grin. Lol sorry joor but what can we say now
who be dis one undecided
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by abumeinben(m): 9:15am On Jan 07, 2016
Well..this is not so easy. Donicobone

If she didn't have a chattable fone before, then it will seem as if u brought a girl from the village to see cartoon network on dstv.

Believe me, if subscribe after 2months offline, you know how it is...loads of messages to respond to. Lots of things you've missed. Trying to re-tune up. It's another world of its own.

However, nothing should be able to truncate her love and "TIME" for you. In as much as I don't like going try my girl's fone, this is exceptional. Kindly and respectfully ask her....may I see your fone? You may see lots of stuff that'll break ya heart o, but be strong.


Nothing lasts forever. Life is short. Life is temporary. Your happiness matters.

Take her for a date, have a nice time....like while you're there at the date, chat with her on WhatsApp, yeah, more chatting, less talking...see her response time. Her facial expression and body language.

Then back to the house for heart to heart talk.

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by san316(m): 9:15am On Jan 07, 2016
STEPS TO TAKE
a. Talk to her about it
b. Find out, codedly, what her interest is on the phone.
c. Stop buying her data
d. Tamper with the phone's connection
e. Seize. The phone
f. If she gets another, know that she don dey play runs.

And what is wrong in being jealous?
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by ElFenomeno1: 9:15am On Jan 07, 2016
chocolateme:
that's all you learnt in all your 22 years of trying to grow into a man and which is still eluding u. Stay well dear.

Get lost.... fool
Just read your initial comment and tell me you don't deserve to be tied to a stake and pelted with rotten tomatoes!!!
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by ojnnaco(m): 9:16am On Jan 07, 2016
Its obvious that she might be enjoying som1 else company and D1ck.. all u have to do is to sit her down ,ask her to pls switch her phone off so that two of u can discuss in details what's bothering u.
if after many attempts she persist on this inglorious behavior then u have to let go..
at that juncture u have to know dat the relationship is not meant to be,irrespective of the years spent today ... one bitter thing is to love and not been loved back
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by onyowo(f): 9:16am On Jan 07, 2016
Let me ask pls OP is this her first time of social networking?
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by ucnwafor(m): 9:19am On Jan 07, 2016
Phone addiction is so terrible, it can happen to anyone both the male and female folk, op just take it easy with her..........with time she go tire with d fone

Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by CioAngels(f): 9:20am On Jan 07, 2016
My dear boy, don,t lose your mind for a girl, if you have spoken to her and she is listening, please move fast with your life. She sees you have moved On, maybe she will change, otherwise go for another girl, who knows, the new girl could be better than her. Life is short, keed your mind alive..
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by mimicue(f): 9:20am On Jan 07, 2016
She is chatting with other guys and men and setting p .. That's why ..she's addicted to the conversation and there's a high possibility that she's cheating with one of them since you can't even have a decent conversation without disturbance from d phone
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Skmoda360(m): 9:20am On Jan 07, 2016
AceRoyal:
Bro lemme be blunt with u since others are too timid to say it.SHE MIGHT BE CHEATING ON YOU!
Who is she chatting with that she can give u much attention.She doesn't value you.
She ain't gonna change if u marry her,she's gonna get worse!
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 9:20am On Jan 07, 2016
G0ldcircle:
I actually felt this thread was created by my boyfriend.
lol....you better change your way coz phone addiction is a lethal killer to productivity.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by xMrPx(m): 9:22am On Jan 07, 2016
Meehn, u talk too much' simple trick! Steal d phone from her" u get her back
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Rooy57(m): 9:22am On Jan 07, 2016
See as Op use him money take buy problem for him relationship!
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by boxypane(m): 9:22am On Jan 07, 2016
grin Sue The Phone Makerangry
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Larryfest(m): 9:23am On Jan 07, 2016
fbtowner:
Thunder wey go fire the girl wey I go use my money buy phone for wey go com dey ignore me still dey for army training ground

Besides I don't think I can even buy phone for my girlfriend. Lol. She must have over do some impressing stuff.

I think with my head not my dick

Op try to b like me grin
Confirm bro why i go buy her fone wen we ar nt yet married sef,some of dis girls aint 2b trusted atal imagine out of luv u buy her a fone n d next tin she is ignoring u and focusing on odas.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by therealdeal10: 9:23am On Jan 07, 2016
op sorry about dat, but tell her dat u ain't comfortable wit it, be crious let her knw hw much dis her sudden behaviour is hurting u. Bcuz i c no reason y a mother 2 b should b so obsessed wit her phone lyk dat n she's always chatting wit God knows who

Op after confronting about it, gv her sm space lyk minding ur own business but u monitor her actions also whether there'll b any change cuz she too suppose reflect whether wetin she dey do too good. It should b done 4 lyk a week

After doing dis n there are no signs of changes, bros I'll av 2 start weighing ur options oo. Marriage is a commitment

Gudluck
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by KINGLARY: 9:23am On Jan 07, 2016
Talk to her in ernest, if she doesn't change, leave her permenently. I mean: don't accept her if she comes back begging. Her behaviour clearly shows you what she has values for in reality. She can pretend on other things, but this might be a pointer to who she is for real.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by flawlessT(f): 9:23am On Jan 07, 2016
iceberylin:
Start F#cking her.
grin...U try,shey dis will settle is problem. abi?
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by grandstar(m): 9:24am On Jan 07, 2016
naijaboiy:

But who is she chatting with that she cannot pay attention to her boyfriend when he's around.

Even when kids come that kind of person can still be busy with her phone instead of breast feeding her child.

Doesn't seem normal to me. undecided
the lady strikes me as young, not too exposed or not too rich background and enjoying the novelty of chatting on the phone
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by lifeisbeautiful: 9:25am On Jan 07, 2016
Op my candid advice is, seize the phone from her and get her phone that can't whatsapp or Facebook then if she don't change talk to ur leggedisbenz. Most people under estimate the power of online love,u can live in the same street with ur gf but online lover is closer to her than u living in same street with because they are 20hrs in a day together
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 9:25am On Jan 07, 2016
Collect the phone from her and smash it on the floor. End of discussion.

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Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by BLESSEDISDLORD: 9:26am On Jan 07, 2016
Steal the phone and buy touch light phone for her
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Abyzan(m): 9:26am On Jan 07, 2016
She’s not matured
She’s not the one if you must get married this year
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Lexusgs430: 9:27am On Jan 07, 2016
G0ldcircle:
I actually felt this thread was created by my boyfriend.

I promise to come armed with Durex, forget goldcircles (it's prone to bursting when excessive or slight friction is involved).
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Nobody: 9:28am On Jan 07, 2016
Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice


Collect the phone from her and smash it on the floor.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Fawklicant: 9:29am On Jan 07, 2016
Donicobone:
Pls guys I need ur best advice before I loose it all, I have been dating this girl for over 2years now, she is very lovely to be with, she's caring and understanding, I also did my best to let her know that I appreciate all her effort towards our union, we got engage four months ago and we are planing to get married this year, then our problem started when I bought her a better phone than the one she had been using, formerly she use to called me like 3 to 4 times a day, but now she hardly flash me, all she do now is chatting both day n night, even when we are together she's glue to her phone, we don't even talk much again because she's always busy with her phone, even when we have an important discussion her phone will not allow us to talk, initially I thought that maybe is because is a new phone so I gave her some time maybe with time she will change ( for where) now the phone issue is getting worst she hardly have time for me even when I call her to pick my call is a problem for her even when she pick she talks in a hurry just to continue the phone chat some time she use to stay online till 2 to 3am at night, am not jealous o, but am no longer enjoying my relationship because phone has taken her from me. pls guys am losing my mind o. I need ur advice

My nigga before you start ranting, surprise her today. Ask her to give you her phone to check. If she refuses, then know that something fishy is going on. Don't make a fuss, just be swift in your decision. If she tenders it without protest, then sift through her chats and be sure there's no cheating going on first. Then sit her down and have a good word with her. Be firm and resolute. She needs to know she is marrying a man and not a wuss. If she can't handle it, then save yourself some heartache.

Don't make the mistake of talking to her first. If you do, she will be at alert and delete whatever chats she has to in order to keep her phone clean. Just surprise her with your demand. Afterall she is your fiancee'. If my fiance' or wife refuses me access to her phones, then she is not mine completely and vice versa.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Skmoda360(m): 9:29am On Jan 07, 2016
frugal:


What's wrong in buying your girlfriend a phone if she genuinely needs one? Unless you're broke.
Some girls don't worth it.
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by fexyrich(m): 9:31am On Jan 07, 2016
Op if u take dis advice then ur relationship is doomed..U don't give ladies free hand like dat unless u want to get ur own finger burnt.sieze that phone from her immediately and threaten to call off d marriage..Leave her for a while and don't pi her calls for a while..Let her know ur mad at her..If she values ur relationship she would come begging then u tell her she must choose btwn d relationship or her phone.If u guys settle get her a non browsing phone cos dats what she deserves..As she has proven to be immatured and shld be treated like a kid if not she wld loose control
MrcuteOscar:
The Best i can say to you bro,is to understand that women are kids (so to say), u need her attention isn't? Y not let things slide,allow how to enjoy her moment,give her time,don't nag,dont complain about the situation.. Just be a MAN. Soonest she would realise that saying that goes thus; "Silence is Golden". Remember ur complaining can't change anything,rather he would see you as one who complains of little things.. Ok
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by chocolateme(f): 9:32am On Jan 07, 2016
ElFenomeno1:


Get lost.... fool
Just read your initial comment and tell me you don't deserve to be tied to a stake and pelted with rotten tomatoes!!!
you know why you still need to grow up as a man? Because if wishes were horses, beggers will ride. Check this. : this is social media : all you've got are just negative insulting words to make yourself feel better : bad words don't have effects or prevail on anything or anyone if not boko haram will be cursing and swearing morn afternoon and night : showing the world how the number of responsible words you have left especially in an unfavorable situation that needs just your personal opinion : if you observe well, you will read meaning into the following statement; "HELP!! My boyfriend is eluded with wisdom to talk RESPONSIBLY" that's your case :if you are truly a man, bring it on to my land and space without adding your addiction.I guess not!
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by Queenw: 9:33am On Jan 07, 2016
I think u should collect d phone from her .dat is just d best option if u truely love her
Re: My Wife To Be Is Addicted To Her Phone by oshdam2015: 9:34am On Jan 07, 2016
Brother take it easy. Although, this issue calls for concerns, but not a terminal issue. You can definitely talk this. Seat her down, explain to her you need attention. Am sure she will listen.

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