well, love is blind as many say, but the rapper heavy d said is it that blind that i can see?
many will say you should go ahead, but what of the problems that may outcome. i am one of such victims. there is this girl i love so much, but getting her is a problem because she is from a rich family and many who knew about my intention are calling me a thief, that i am only interested in her because of their wealth. i was silented. this things happen in our society. nairalanders please discuss.

lekside44:

well, love is blind as many say, but the rapper heavy d said is it that blind that i can see?
many will say you should go ahead, but what of the problems that may outcome. i am one of such victims. there is this girl i love so much, but getting her is a problem because she is from a rich family and many who knew about my intention are calling me a thief, that i am only interested in her because of their wealth. i was silented. this things happen in our society. nairalanders please discuss.

Nope, cant marry a guy that is broke. My love isnt that dead.

Sure: But you probably will have to spend your whole life proving you are not a gold digger.

Feelitx:

Sure: But you probably will have to spend your whole life proving you are not a gold digger.

u got a good point there!

@Poster

It can be pretty difficult from your perspective. . .cus I don't think her people are gonna be giving you. . .your deserved respect as her husband.

as long as you showyou are hard working enough and willing to make and pay your way and that of your family you can't be faulted!

a woman should support her man, and if her financial status means your both get a more comfortable life - then why not?

It's all about understand. I can, that doesn't mean she will be controlling me.

And again depending on the kind of lady/woman you wanna marry.

Joint account straightens alotta things
Its just like being asked: ''Can you marry a senator's daughter?'' All the way!!!! [size=3pt]if there's love though[/size]

I wonder why Nigerians are so caught up with who is richer and who is poorer. who pays for the wedding ? What kind of car the person drives?

Supercharg:

I wonder why Nigerians are so caught up with who is richer and who is poorer. who pays for the wedding ? What kind of car the person drives?

Buhahaha!! I tire ooo

Love oshi wo
abeg, comot from my face if you're not rich.
Love ko love ni

FL Gators:

Love oshi wo
abeg, comot from my face if you're not rich.
Love ko love ni

You got it wrong. that is where you ladies got problems. So if you are richer than the guy you are dating. You won't marry him even thou you love him?

So you have to search for a guy that is richer than you before you get married.  I pity you 

Before you know,  O ti sha!

FL Gators:

Love oshi wo
abeg, comot from my face if you're not rich.
Love ko love ni

lwkmd

faakay:

You got it wrong. that where you ladies got problems. So if you are richer than the guy you are dating. You won't marry him even thou you love him?

So you have to search for a guy that is richer than you before you get married. I pity you

Before you know, O ti sha!

well, what do do advice if she nows search all around and found non, should i accept the offer back since i am still single?

well, a man rises to the heights of his dreams, if u believe u will remain poor, then don't go but if u are a goal getter and believe u can one day run dem cash 4 cash, then shoot, back in the days, my ex's were richer than i was but now i sit in same class as their folks during flights;so sir, if u no get today, it doesn't mean u won't have 2row,just forget what she has and focus on making urs with God's backing.

i can absolutely,
money isnt such a big deal

If u can convince her u not afta her for wot she got, fine. But dude she's like 1 amongst d mill ppl u wud av 2 prove u got no eye 4 ha money. R u ready 2 b recognisd cos of ur wife! Tink nd if u gud wit dat, den just go 4 her.

faakay:

You got it wrong. that is where you ladies got problems. So if you are richer than the guy you are dating. You won't marry him even thou you love him?

So you have to search for a guy that is richer than you before you get married. I pity you
Before you know,  O ti sha!

Storry story.I already found one

@sincerr
Which means that u are after the money men
f++k u
f++k u
f++k u

I can marry a lady who's richer than me as long as she's not a nigerian.

I can marry such person as long as she
is not too pompous for my likening., [b][/b]

cleric:

well, a man rises to the heights of his dreams, if u believe u will remain poor, then don't go but if u are a goal gettjavascript:void(0);er and believe u can one day run dem cash 4 cash, then shoot, back in the days, my ex's were richer than i was but now i sit in same class as their folks during flights;so sir, if u no get today, it doesn't mean u won't have 2row,just forget what she has and focus on making urs with God's backing.

i believe i can make my own money, but the problem remains that which job will get me so much cash to put me on top of her financially now. she currently works with shell pretroleum with a salary of about 1 million a month minus other allowances such as travelling, trainning, e.t.c. i didnot grad with a 1st class or 2.1 so getting job in a simlar org that pays so much is extremely difficult. although, i had shown my interest years before she got the job and even got admitted to the university, you can see what i am passing through

Its really evident you are feeling inferior to this girl and believe it or not it'll surely surface whether through alcohol or stress and you'd take out your frustration on the poor lady. . .

cleric:

well, a man rises to the heights of his dreams, if u believe u will remain poor, then don't go but if u are a goal getter and believe u can one day run dem cash 4 cash, then shoot, back in the days, my ex's were richer than i was but now i sit in same class as their folks during flights;so sir, if u no get today, it doesn't mean u won't have 2row,just forget what she has and focus on making urs with God's backing.

Confirm! I dey tell you!! Na the game be that, Because all this girls wey get money dem shakara get as he be ooooo Ani make omo boy get KISHI!

But all rely on the kind of girl you are moving with

it depends

^^^

Why not.