Most times have ponder on this; why ladies or guyz take for granted people who love them. For example you see a guy who truely love a lady, he calls her, text her, care about her well being....but the lady most times don't take such guy too seriously... Seeing him as weak or emotional.

Even guyz too, a cool lady wants you, text you, call you and really care about...most times you find out that the guy takes such a lady for granted, even to the extended of cheating on her.

Why do this really happen... Pls guyz are there thingz that could be causing this kinda attitude

Hold on am coming to answer the question

Itz allowed

It's really sad yea.

osaslord500:
Itz allowed

....really?

Am seriously following! I've been a victim of such act..
This stuff makes me think, God! do ladies really crave to be shown real love?!

I don't trust ladies!

because your enemies can even pretend as if they love you but they are looking for the one way or the other to destroy you

Its only natural for us to take serious things unserious...
No be me talk am o...
Its been there even before ah was born

This only happens when someone doesn't feel the same way about the person who is showing them love. And what's funny is that such person who isn't reciprocating this love shown to them, is showing love to someone who isn't showing that much concern. That's the irony of life.

If I have feelings for someone and she is showing me love, affection and attention, I'd definitely reciprocate these feelings, because I also feel the same way for her.
But if it's someone I don't feel the same way for her as she feels for me, her show of attention and affection would become a constant burden to me, especially when I have feelings for someone else.

It's the way of the world..loving someone doesn't guaranty they will love u back

SirAfoy1:
because your enemies can even pretend as if they love you but they are looking for the one way or the other to destroy you

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The real pleasure is in the chase. Once u've caught ur prey u tend to lose interest and divert ur energy to something else

That's the irony of life... Just like i for instance i like b0rn2fuck for his simplicity and honesty bout life buh yet i can't date him coz that dude is soo addicted to fvcking. Yet am dying for one hot nairaland dude lyk dat buh the nigga don't even have my time. Painful world.

I can't say much but if I av done this to any lady, maybe because she has treated me worst when I was asking her out, cos wen am loving, am loving. no looking side-way #truelover

Scammers heaven

Eyekandi:
It's really sad yea.

lol

This has been the trend since the time of metuselah op

tempem:
Am seriously following! I've been a victim of such act..
This stuff makes me think, God! do ladies really crave to be shown real love?!

Sure.. Why nt..
Do not judge the others based on your past Experience..
Believe me we ve all been there..


Cheers

SexyCeline:
That's the irony of life... Just like i for instance i like b0rn2fuck for his simplicity and honesty bout life buh yet i can't date him coz that dude is soo addicted to fvcking. Yet am dying for one hot nairaland dude lyk dat buh the nigga don't even have my time. Painful world.

and this is wats happening to u nw i guess

firstking01:
lol

U agree

Eyekandi:


U agree

yeah sure...and there's no answer or reason to why it is that way...we must learn to live with it, cos sm people are even destined for it.

OK here are the answers;

1. Most people are messed up upstairs

2. Been nice and loving is boring and predictable. At first its fun, but later its becomes a routing. You know he/she wont cheat and would always be there for you

3. Most people live in fantasy world, so they believe been romantic would keep the boy/girl

4. Bad boys always get the girls, cause they are fun and spontaneous.


the answer?.. add some craze to your life style, dont be too predictable

Life is not fair.


The moment u fall in love, common sense leaves your body...


and the thing here is, the one that "cares" less in a relationship holds all the aces...because the other party will be at his or her mercy.


Your sin...you love him or her too much.


can't we all just love n let's live and avoid all these dramas...


sometimes I wish I was a robot wit no emotions sef.

Its really bad when you inlove with someone, and the person treats you like like you not really important in their life.

Then am thinking maybe been inlove with someone and also detaching oneself from them could help.

Eyekandi:
It's really sad yea.

Indeed, very sad, and painful but what do you do? Give up? Yes as a lady, after trying enough, but someone like me, would try and make you see why...I said 'I love you......

the matter has teyed. so just let it rest.

But! That's life, sometimes we wish, for what we have not, and reject the 1 we have, which might have been the best, we would ask for.....

frakdon:
Indeed, very sad, and painful but what do you do? Give up? Yes as a lady, after trying enough, but someone like me, would try and make you see why...I said 'I love you......

It Will still be sad when she says ,,she doesn't love you,,,

Eyekandi:


It Will still be sad when she says ,,she doesn't love you,,,

But it won't be that's sadden when he or she says it in the beginning, when emotion is less involved.

vick555:


But it won't be that's sadden when he or she says it in the beginning, when emotion is less involved.

It still will be "sad".

Eyekandi:


It Will still be sad when she says ,,she doesn't love you,,,

true, but it's better than, she pretends to need you,but in essence she is wasting your time..