I AM SO MUCH IN LOVE WITH HER,I WILL SAY LIKE AN OBSESSION.SHE WENT TO A PARTY WITH A GUY,SHE SAID JUST HER FRIEND.I WAS ANGRY because SHE DID NOT TELL ME.IN TIME SO I SCOLD HER.I REALLY LOVE HER AND I WANT HER BACK WHAT CAN I DO

She must be very very stupid then! As a man dont you know your the head of the relationsip and any female who is not ready to accept that fact is an imbecilic idiot! I am sure before you told her she is stupid, she must have done something really really stupid because Men are far intelligent than women and weigh their words well. For her to have broken up with you shows she doesnt form to authority and in the process you should have beaten her up to drive home your point!

You dont need to be obsessed about a bitch that wont respect you! She will only stay with you if you say "I love you" but run away when you call her stupid! What a crack head you have for an ex!

Better go and find a submissive chic that will respect you instead of all these bread and butter spoilt stupid animalistic brats your fawning over!

OBNOXIOUS:

She must be very very stupid then! As a man dont you know your the head of the relationsip and any female who is not ready to accept that fact is an imbecilic idiot! I am sure before you told her she is stupid, she must have done something really really stupid because Men are far intelligent than women and weigh their words well. For her to have broken up with you shows she doesnt form to authority and in the process you should have beaten her up to drive home your point!

You dont need to be obsessed about a bitch that wont respect you! She will only stay with you if you say "I love you" but run away when you call her stupid! What a crack head you have for an ex!

Better go and find a submissive chic that will respect you instead of all these bread and butter spoilt stupid animalistic brats your fawning over!

You sound really bitter against women, If I may ask, have you ever been hurt by a woman?

@Post

Apologise, plead n give her some little time. This isn't so serious.

@ OBNOXIOUS
na wa 4 u o, take it easy on ur words, haba, u sound as if u've been hurt by a woman b4

@ poster

u know ur post really had me laughing coz i was surprised
why the hell would a woman leave her man because he called her 'stupid'? i asked myself

anyway, if you really love her and want her back, go to her and sort things out, not necessarily apologizing.

even if she did something that was highly stupid, you should have known that many women/men dont like to hear the truth being told to them.
what did you expect, that she said thank you?!
now you are here bitching about it, do you want to be with a stupid person?
if it really doesnt bother you to be with such a person then why did you let it out that she was stupid then? it shouldnt  have made a difference.

Mehn the fact is you don't own her so let her be.Also you shouldn't apologize just tone down on your voice don't listen to obnoxious he might have a perfect relationship and just pretend to hate girls here some pple like to project themselves in different characters

Obnoxious, thank u for chasing those bitches away from NL.

100% agree with you OBNOXIOUS, some girls dont like to hear the truth rather they prefer you to be lie or stay quiet

OBNOXIOUS you indeed communicating, you know what yeah some girls like all this child play see we not a kid we all adult if the girl dont have respect for you no point in having her weather is for girlfriend or fiancee whatever, we have to face reality

Akata level don reach NAIJA,

If you love her the way you say you do, you would nt be verbally abusive,
no matter what she does too you. Best of luck sir.

Tell her you called her stupid out of love. Hopefully she'll be stupid enough to believe you. . .

declem:

I AM SO MUCH IN LOVE WITH HER,I WILL SAY LIKE AN OBSESSION.SHE WENT TO A PARTY WITH A GUY,SHE SAID JUST HER FRIEND.I WAS ANGRY because SHE DID NOT TELL ME.IN TIME SO I SCOLD HER.I REALLY LOVE HER AND I WANT HER BACK WHAT CAN I DO

Yarrrrnnn!!! She went to a party with a guy? Have you heard of this song? Ohhh Babby you, you got what i need and you said he just a friend, his just a friend.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2jqZTJk30qg

Let her go, if she really wants you back, she'll come back and apologize for what SHE DID.

She knows what she did was wrong.

hmmm, i once told a guy he was stupid for thinking bitch was the only way he could describe a female who was behavin in a manner he wasn't comfortable with. He felt offended and i couldn't stop laughuing at the irony of the situation. There are loads of ways to express your feelings without being offensive, and you should learn them.

@ Poster, You'll figure it out later rather than sooner

You did right , She as your girlfriend shouldnt have done that.

@Poster, She's been lookin for an excuse on a perfect man like u!
Bro, bone dat gal and move on wit ur life. If she needs u, she'll come back, But until den, feel focused.

She want to ride on shotgun and make an advantage out of your comment. In my opinion you shouldn't have said she was stupid, you should have been quiet and she will be the one begging for you to talk then you can say whatever you want afterward. They always offer you what they can't take. Yesterday someone posted that her girlfriend got mad at him and quit the relationship because she hugged his ex girlfriend. How senseless!

Your girl friend went to a party without informing you! And not just alone but with someone else, Man what she did was stupid and i mean a big one!!! And she broke up cos of the fact that she was stupid and you called her what she is? Then she is stupid! And amma say it to her that she is stupid 4 real! But if u wanna get her back cos of the obsession, just do as Tudoy said, tell her this "baby i called you stupid outa love" and she will be stupid enough to take u back! In short she is Stupid, Sigh

Seadbari:

Your girl friend went to a party without informing you! And not just alone but with someone else, Man what she did was stupid and i mean a big one!!! And she broke up cos of the fact that she was stupid and you called her what she is? Then she is stupid! And amma say it to her that she is stupid 4 real! But if u wanna get her back cos of the obsession, just do as Tudoy said, tell her this "baby i called you stupid outa love" and she will be stupid enough to take u back! In short she is Stupid, Sigh

You have said everything right but I don't agree with the last part of your statement. He shouldn't call her. Some of these girls are arrogantly stupid when it comes to their hanging out with another man. I don't think he should go back to her otherwise he will receive worse treatments from her very soon. He should tighten up his game and move on with his life. There are lots of girls to go round than any girl to start making a mess around.

@ the seeker

REAL TALK!!!!!!

olaleye101:

@ the seeker

REAL TALK!!!!!!

Thanks buddy. You know with the statistics around, I rationed 4 women to one 1 man and there were still left overs? Believe me, try one, two and three and you'll find out they are all the same, you might just be lucky with the fourth. There's no denial that there are still good girls out there.

deji2005:

100% agree with you OBNOXIOUS, some girls dont like to hear the truth rather they prefer you to be lie or stay quiet

me too i agree, @ poster, Fc.uk sh*t, wuld she be happy if u also went 2 a party wit a female friend wivout tellin her?
she shuld be d one beggin, me aint scared 2 let go of any chick dat is not serious, never,ever beg her, Infact keep tellin her `Time & Again` dat i said she is Stupid,

Poster, dats Y ppl like U are bein cheated in d Court of Law, cz i dont fcukin know ur Right!!

spikedcylinder:

Oh. She needed permission before going out?
I guess stupidity get level.

Na so e be ohh,

@ poster
Well that was very wrong of u. Shouldn't av used the word "stupid" really. Isn't a nice way to talk to a woman. Most of them get all emotional over it even if u are just joking. So u should apologise FOR THAT ONLY.
Also at least based on just what u have told us I dont see the girl
as a serious person, maybe she's not really worth ur time. She knows that u av become aware of the fact that she went parting with another man and it wasn't as if she told u about it before. And the next thing she does is work out of the relationship just because in ur anger u called her stupid even tho it aint right. Does she expect u to hug her, kiss her and say "I love u sweetheart u have done well"? how funny some girls can really be. That means she has seen nothing wrong in what she's done. Fine she might not need excuse to go out but definitely not when she's going out with another man. I dont expect my girl to smile at me if she hears I'm taking another woman out. I should at least tell her about it.
If u still want her like u said u guys need to talk. Apologise for what u said and she should also realize what she's done is not right. If she'll not come back to u all the same I guess she's probably tired of the relationship before and this's just an excuse to opt out so I guess u are going to have to move on. Best of luck.

@ poster
Well that was very wrong of u. Shouldn't av used the word "stupid" really. Isn't a nice way to talk to a woman. Most of them get all emotional over it even if u are just joking. So u should apologise FOR THAT ONLY.
Also at least based on just what u have told us I dont see the girl
as a serious person, maybe she's not really worth ur time. She knows that u av become aware of the fact that she went parting with another man and it wasn't as if she told u about it before. And the next thing she does is work out of the relationship just because in ur anger u called her stupid even tho it aint right. Does she expect u to hug her, kiss her and say "I love u sweetheart u have done well"? how funny some girls can really be. That means she has seen nothing wrong in what she's done. Fine she might not need excuse to go out but definitely not when she's going out with another man. I dont expect my girl to smile at me if she hears I'm taking another woman out. I should at least tell her about it.
If u still want her like u said u guys need to talk. Apologise for what u said and she should also realize what she's done is not right. If she'll not come back to u all the same I guess she's probably tired of the relationship before and this's just an excuse to opt out so I guess u are going to have to move on. Best of luck.

count your lucky stars

You love her so much then why did you tell her she was stupid?? Don't say anger cos, you get angry with your parents but you don't insult them,you get angry with your teachers but you don't insult them so, anger isn't an excuse!
Well, try telling her she a'int stupid for a start and you culd also tell her what yo posted. Who knows, she might actually come back! Goodluck, you obviously need it.

Tudór:

Tell her you called her stupid out of love. Hopefully she'll be stupid enough to believe you. . .

rotflmao. . .guy u harsh o!