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Is It Advisable To Keep All Other "Doors" Closed When U're In A Relationship? / thread closed / 18 Things Women Do Behind Closed Doors That Men Probably Don't Know About. (2) (3) (4)
CLOSED by nwaanyioma: 4:07am On Jun 20, 2009 |
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Re: CLOSED by nwaanyioma: 4:08am On Jun 20, 2009 |
I'm 27 as this may be useful in ur advise |
Re: CLOSED by SeanT21(f): 4:32am On Jun 20, 2009 |
nwaanyioma: Will his wife not find out?? Anyway, Move forward. Forget about the man and take care of your child. Like U stated the man is married. He is not gonna leave his wife and come to Nigeria to be with U. |
Re: CLOSED by Nobody: 9:44am On Jun 20, 2009 |
Well, i think it's time for you to step up, for your daughter and yourself. You don't need anyone to tell you now that you were a pawn and you better get used to people seeing you as gullible because these are facts you should have looked into first hand. If you still want some kind of relationship, step up now and ask for it, and if it's not offered, move on with your life. Find the strength through God and look after your daughter and yourself. Don't make the mistake of waiting around for him to do right by you, you might end up at 37yrs old still waiting and very bitter. |
Re: CLOSED by iice(f): 9:53am On Jun 20, 2009 |
Ughhh love blinds people or is it they blind themselves Move on, take care of yourself and your baby. Eventually you will meet someone again. |
Re: CLOSED by emilyone(f): 11:08am On Jun 20, 2009 |
its so sad, the bastard played you big time! 4get him and carry your cross. |
Re: CLOSED by spoilt(f): 12:13pm On Jun 20, 2009 |
He's bad news. Find a real man. |
Re: CLOSED by egokanwa(f): 2:07pm On Jun 20, 2009 |
i know its not going to be that easy, but jst try to move on with ur life. GOD is going to help u 4get him as fast as possible. |
Re: CLOSED by nwaanyioma: 1:29am On Jun 22, 2009 |
Thank you all for the advise, nairaland have always been so helpful The fact is that he still think i dont know he's married. Do i have to tell him now and what's the best way to go about this ? |
Re: CLOSED by Nobody: 2:26am On Jun 22, 2009 |
Tell him what you know, tell him how you feel and resolve to do better for yourself. If you can't call, send an email/ msg on Face book, whateva. The point is get the ball rolling, open the lines of communication. Don't sit by your bedside waiting for his reply, start thinking of how you're going to move forward. If he's on board to help with his child, then that's wonderful! But if he's all about making up stories and excuses and wants to revisit the issue of adoption, then be strong, if not for yourself, then for your child. You can't bring a child into the world and not step up and be responsible for her welfare. |
Re: CLOSED by omega25red(m): 3:29am On Jun 22, 2009 |
i blame you poster for this why are you having no condom sex with a dude who is not marrying you. you got pregnant and he still didnt marry you and you still had the baby now you are here looking for sympathy. This should learn ya, freak a guy all you want but at least you some form of birth control. Now you will harras the man until his marriage breaks up and even if that happens he still wouldn't marry you. moral of the story a man would do and say anything to get some azz always protect your self because you have to carry that baby and if the guy runs you have to raise that baby. |
Re: CLOSED by biola44: 8:31am On Jun 22, 2009 |
u r officially on ur on, move on |
Re: CLOSED by touchmeder: 8:57am On Jun 22, 2009 |
uhmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn good thing ure just 27, still young, let him continue to be involved with his child but DONT ACT LIKE YOU NEED HIM OR U'RE STILL AT A STAND STILL WITH YOUR LIFE but you need to get on with yours. all the best |
Re: CLOSED by sparta(f): 10:40am On Jun 22, 2009 |
Girl, the guy simply used you to have a baby. Wont be surprised if it was all planed with the wifey knowing about it,if not why is she not raising dust? How come he wants to adopt the child? Girl you need to wise up. |
Re: CLOSED by kalmebad(f): 10:50am On Jun 22, 2009 |
I wonder what people intend to achieve by deceiving people, anyone could have fallen into d same cheap trap, but where i blame you is letting yourself get preg in first instant. You probably thought to fast track things? The did has be done --- stand up for urself and your daughter Forget the bitch, but b4 doing that., confront him on your finding and allow him eat his shame as u do that The law of karma surely awaits him, no escape |
Re: CLOSED by Kx: 10:58am On Jun 22, 2009 |
If by a miracle or something his wife conceives,his concern for his baby will cease.Too bad u fell so cheap for dis cheat. Pick up ur pieces and move on. |
Re: CLOSED by nwaanyioma: 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Thank you guys , i appreciate all your response and have learn to move on . It's all my fault |
Re: CLOSED by princesa(f): 2:02pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
hmmm . . . . . o ma se |
Re: CLOSED by chibull007(m): 2:18pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
hi, princesa, i just want to say hi cuz m new here, watsup?
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Re: CLOSED by princesa(f): 2:58pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
uhm . . . . . welcome then is that our picture |
Re: CLOSED by boy1(m): 3:16pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
mugu must fall when will people learn? |
Re: CLOSED by rawbest: 3:20pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
well i really want to known u because i think there is some thing i need to get 4rm u am best by name u can email me on best.rest63@yahoo.com thank good day |
Re: CLOSED by sosisi(f): 3:25pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
nwaanyioma: You've made your mistake,hopefully you've learned from it. Take care of your daughter and move on. Forget about that loser. Some of these deceptive men would use the daughter excuse to string you along and would want to continue a sexual relationship with you when he feels like it. You should be wise Let him take care of his daughter financially and have nothing to do with him. If you think you can't handle it emotionally,cut off all ties with him entirely. You can do it There are many single mothers doing a fantastic job. You too can I don't believe you're a bad pesron for having a baby out of wedlock. We all make mistakes. I wish you the very bestYour name Nwanyioma says a lot about u |
Re: CLOSED by nwaanyioma: 3:54pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
You've made your mistake,hopefully you've learned from it. Sure i learnt from my mistake and have moved on. Honestly, you make me feel better and stronger. Thanks a million! |
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