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Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 6:40pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
shachris02:I won't call you a m0ron because you've said nothing to earn it. Maintain your silence and you may beat Eistein's IQ just as Proverbs tell us 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by shachris02: 6:43pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
vooks: proverbs is a book of poetry. Better poems existed before proverbs. rumor has it that it was copied! |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 6:51pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
shachris02:Proverbs 17:28 (ESV) 28 Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent. There! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by shachris02: 7:13pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
vooks: A fool who knows his foolishness is wise at least to that extent, but a fool who thinks himself wise is a fool indeed. (63) Though all his life a fool associates with a wise man, he no more comprehends the Truth than a spoon tastes the flavor of the soup. (64) Buddha's 'Path of Wisdom' 13. When it is said to them: "Believe as the others believe:" They say: "Shall we believe as the fools believe?" No, of a surety they are the fools, but they do not know. Quran:2 Surah Baqarah 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 7:20pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
shachris02:How young are the Quran and Buddha? Besides, point remains, you have contributed zilch to the topic at hand barring mindless jeering |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by shachris02: 7:34pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
vooks: Buddha lived long before Jesus. What makes you think you own proverb is more correct than the above? |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 7:36pm On Jan 19, 2016 |
shachris02:Proverbs predate Jesus by a few thousand years Now you are a deranged m0ron, shoulda held your piss 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Rose2014: 3:58am On Jan 20, 2016 |
dearpreye: Well said my brother. That was the same kind of issue I had with RCCG. And it had to do with church building collection too I'm one person that understand the principle of giving. If we have a project, you don't need to preach before I make my own little contribution. I'm naturally not a stingy person so it's easy for me to help out in my own capacity. But I have a BIG problem when the sermon begins to sound like people are being blackmailed to give for all kinds of things. For example, That you gave money for building is not enough if you didn't give for pastor's birthday or you didn't give offering or you missed tithe or you didn't contribute for a visiting pastor. All the different giving mutually exclusive Imagine being told in church that the reason people are having a certain problem is because they didn't give in church. For example, your car broke down because you didn't pay tithe, or put differently, if you pay tithe, your car won't break down.smh. It has gotten to the point that if you have N50,000 tithe and you see a person needs N50,000 to start/save his life, you're not allowed to save that life with that 50K cos it's fit the church. Whatever happens to Mathew 24:45 "Then the King will answer, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for Me.'" I thought I had heard it all until one day a visiting pastor came. He was trying to get donations especially from men(women are always easy to convince) and was telling the church that if a man needs his wife to conceive and he's not paying tithe, he's wasting his time. I just felt my sensibility has bn insulted enough Each day we're told how we now live under grace but when it comes to giving, we must go back to Old Testament and emphasize it. And why sending such a high percentage to headquarters when a project is ongoing thereby putting members under constant but avoidable pressure? However it's almost everywhere these days. I was watching a pastor on TV saying that if you're poor and in debt, bring whatever u have left(literarily) and sow into his ministry if you want a turnaround. Can u believe that? Don't blame the pastors or the church itself, blame the fanatical members. Good morning to you 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 5:36am On Jan 20, 2016 |
Rose2014: There is widespread spiritual abuse in the body of Christ. The best cure against these atrocities which may be consciously or unconsciously perpetrated is the Word of God. If you are firmly grounded in the word of God, you won't be carried away by every wind of doctrine. For instance, one should with scriptures refute the teaching that not tithing earns you a curse. One also needs a good grip of History, Christian History that is. You can interrogate a doctrine and find it is no older than 50 years and was totally unheard of for over 1900 years of Christendom. I asked the OP what he was doing about it apart from opening threads on NL. Does he intend to depart from his faith because he is grossly offended? Or has he already left the faith? Offenders will truly come from all corners. It's a matter of when not if. One needs to guard their hearts against taking offenses |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Nobody: 7:16am On Jan 20, 2016 |
Rose2014: Very pathetic stories you've dropped/narrated here. These issues are very sad and a huge deviation from the principles Christ had left us with. The mind control is real. I've also heard all manners of emotional blackmail in the name of giving but I've grown way beyond that level of control- I give whenever I feel like.....I can't be cajoled into parting recklessly with my money. The Bible is very clear on giving.....anyone adding to what the Bible has said is doing themselves a lot of damage. The relationship between God and us isn't a financial one.... I've heard members of a denomination told me their leaders asked them never to support any person if the person isn't a regular tithe. ...That's how crazy the whole issues around tithe has become. You're right. ....the blame is on the people who don't study their Bible ....... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by plaetton: 11:52am On Jan 20, 2016 |
vooks: In your idi.ot universe, the solution to a problem = more of the problem ? Gosh , your kind are realllllllly silly. It never occurred to you that it is the so-called word of God that is being hawked to manipulate and exploit people? And to your retarded brain, the word of god is the cure? And let me guess , you know the real word of god, right ? When I call you a half thinker, you think I am just joking ? |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by plaetton: 11:59am On Jan 20, 2016 |
vooks: Mor.on, There is no such thing as spiritual abuse. This is the same spirit spiri crap that the abusers use to mentally exploit the sheep. What we are discussing here is plain old financial fraud, short and simple. Remove your sand filled head from the sand and call a spade a spade. Spiritual abuse , my asxx. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 1:18pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
plaetton:My Negro, There is something called spiritual abuse which of course means abuse of the authority by a spiritual leader. This is no spiri spiri sir, just plain old manipulation and excessive and unhealthy control of congregants. I had a thread about it here, make time and go through the book. The problem is bigger than church expenditure. How do they get the money in the first place? How is yo Wednesday coming? |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Candour(m): 3:50pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
vooks: Its because the G.O/HQ see the branch Churches as well......branches of a conglomerate with a mandate to raise funds for the HQ. Hence no thought for the hardship these small branches go through in the process. Its the same way banks pressurize their branches to churn out profits. Also on the mega status of these churches, how else does the G.O show he has a direct line to God if not by the size of his 'flock'? Ego is important in this business bro... Anglicans, Catholics etc see the headquarters bear a lot of burden for the smaller less buoyant branches and its so commonsensical that I wonder how it escapes our famous G.O's. Giving in the bible is meant to be from the buoyant to the needy and less privileged. |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by vooks: 4:58pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
Candour:Very true my broda...ego compels them more than nothing else; mega-structures,jets and so forth. Pushing struggling churches I think is twice as bad where the mother church does little to help them with nothing as they get established |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Candour(m): 5:15pm On Jan 20, 2016 |
vooks: Very true bro |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by elantraceey(f): 3:29pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
sonOfLucifer: Now this is interesting. |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
elantraceey:I'm always interesting booboo. You're the book I want to share my pages with. #toastoflife 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 21, 2016 |
MATTHEW 21: 12-14 12 And Jesus entered the temple and drove out all those who were buying and selling in the temple, and overturned the tables of the money changers and the seats of those who were selling doves. 13 And He said to them, "It is written, 'MY HOUSE SHALL BE CALLED A HOUSE OF PRAYER'; but you are making it a ROBBERS' DEN." 14 And the blind and the lame came to Him in the temple, and He healed them.… THE IRONY OF THIS IS THAT NEWER CHURCHES AND PENTECOSTAL BODIES ARE COPING THIS ALTITUDE AND IDEOLOGY.? THIS IS NOT BUILDING THE BODY OF CHRIST. THIS WITHOUT ANY DOUBT IS FRAUD AND IS ALREADY WEAKENING THE CHURCH FOUNDATION. WE NO LONGER HEAR OF SALVATION, HELPING THE NEEDY OR GENUINE EVANGELISM. WE ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN BUILDING THE BIGGEST BUILDING, PULLING THE BIGGEST CROWD, HAVING THE MOST FLASHY PASTORS, WORLDLY PROSPERITIES ETC. |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Djboosting: 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
dearpreye: Remember in a post of mine a while ago... "When you don't and not ready to do your thinking for yourself, people will do it for you." Ignorance and Fear are the only enemies from which men need salvation. #WakeUp call 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by urahara(m): 9:11am On Jan 23, 2016 |
osagix: Funny enough in churches they sell wristbands handkerchiefs and etc. E.g redemption camp |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by christemmbassey(m): 7:07pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
Candour:Oga Candour the poet! I dey hail ooo!! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by daroz(m): 7:03am On Feb 06, 2016 |
This is the issue that have been bothering me for a while now. I have always complained that Nigeria churches always use all the verses in bible where money/giving is mentioned for their favour to exploit / extort members. And this is becoming a culture. Infact this is the reason I left Christ Embassy in 2011 after spending over 5 years there. As soon as I left, my eyes became more opened. So I joined one new church , whose founder seems more inclined to the pure undiluted word of God of salvation / deliverance. But within 2 or 3 years, her messages metamorphosed into the normal gospel of money , like it's d normal usual way of a typical nigerian pastor. Anytime she is preaching, you must rush out to drop money at the alter, if not you will not partake of the blessings attached to the message. You must pay (sow seed)for prayers and deliverance , pay for everything. Infact even if you are a new comer or old timer living in iniquity, as long as you are willing and able to be giving big, you will have and maintain a special seat in the front row. This was the situation in the church before I relocated out of Nigeria. And on getting here, it was a different ball game. I have planned to write on this soon. I have a lot of things to talk about as regard this issue... that is comparing a typical Nigeria/ African Church to A Typical European Church. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Nobody: 8:22am On Feb 06, 2016 |
daroz: Most of Nigerian churches are only exploiting the poor and ignorant. The emphasis on money and giving is just immoral and a total deviation from what's commanded in the Bible. |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Candour(m): 9:21am On Feb 07, 2016 |
christemmbassey: I dey hail you too my dear brother |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by dankol: 1:59pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
this post got me cracking seriously and am forced to write here on nairaland after a long while. I cant just recall the last time i made a statement on nairaland but i have been following up a lot of thread. I recall back then, when i was very active in church, how i defended all kinds of doctrine provided it is passed down from the god of men. it continued until certain events changed my perspective and i began to do my research. i was shocked to realize that, these whole religion thing is a scam. Karl Marx was right when he said, religion is the opium of the people. Op, i was just like you, i decided to hold on to what i perceive is the truth as i stood against much of these doctrines. Yet, i made more research, logic and qualitative reasoning took religion from me. i see things the way they are. Though, i still go to church to stop wagging tongues and fulfill society righteousness. I am not here to say for or against anyone but to encourage everyone think deep within himself and do what he or she thinks its right. Recently, i saw the statistics of the welbeing of religious countries to non-religious countries. Am sure you can guess who is better off to who. But let me say this to the op and others in similar situation, if you want to remain a faithful christian, STOP BEING CURIOUS i.e just focus on the bible and what you believe in it strictly ( though i wont advice such cos you seems to be a very curious fella, and the more you suppress, the less comfortable you will be). If you dont stop being curious, your Faith will give way to facts and figures. And that's why i barely want to engage in religous argument any longer. it is distinctively clear. FAITH IS NOT FACT let me give you an example, if is a fact all over the world that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, you standing where you are can prove it anytime any day but it is not so to faith, you just got to be believe whether it makes sense or not, and because you believe it does not make it a fact. OR You explore your curiosity and be either a nonchalant, passive and realistic xtian or perhaps an atheist. What do i mean by realistic, I work with what i see and can evaluate more than what i cant see or evaluate. For instance, there is this analogy a philosophy lecturer narrated during lectures, there is this poor lady with a sick kid who was about to die, the lady had no money on her to get drugs which is certain will save her kid, lo and behold, she went to a chemist/pharmacist to obtain the drug on credit, the chemist refused, she pleaded, the chemist refused. Luckily for her, the chemist was distracted by a call, the lady saw the drug she need to save her child's life, picked it and left the shop un-noticed to administer the drug to the child. The child lived. But the question here is, 'Was she right to have stolen to save the child or would you rather have her play the holiness thing and let the child die?'. This is my take on religion, ' change is a constant thing, man is evolving, religion is evolving to that makes it closely related to man's way of thinking, permit to use to the bible as an example, in the old testament, God approved slavery and it was no where refuted in the new testament (I stand to be corrected). today, slavery is unacceptable anywhere in the world. Don't you think something is wrong somewhere? Now the bible is unfallible but it is already fallible in certain rules and approach to issues in our mindset and way of life. Moses believed in slavery, do you believe in slavery? I guess the answer is NO, thus, religion is a function change with respect to mindset and time of man'. My great grand parents were followers of some deities different from what i believe today because, they do not know what i know today. I can go on and on but i am quite sure you will not agree with me but i dare you to be challenged. My take, my opinion. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by sparklekay(f): 3:00pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
....@dearpreye.Am not an RCCG member,but I advise you to either change your church,or stay where you are & keep quiet!...if you know you are being exploited in your church, why don't you leave??...if you are TRULY after the salvation of your soul(making heaven), why don't you go to a church where biblical principles are maintained?....by the way,can someone truly force you to give when you don't want to?... pls,leave that branch(or church) & go to another church.You could go to churches like Omega fire ministries (OFM), MFM, and so on. I presently attend OFM, & i can attest to the fact that the word of God is preached there.We are in the end time. Anywhere you know dat you are being exploited, leave!....after all, God knows all you've done in the church,& He will reward you in due time, Not man. My pastor @ the branch I attend,says dat rather Dan criticising your pastor for what he is doing wrong,it's better you leave the church.He said that pastor's grace will no longer work for you,as long as you keep criticising.if you want to keep on giving,give!...if you dont want to,pls leave. why did you even bring this up on the internet?....you didn't even hide the name of your church?...Do you know dat you are indirectly calling out your G.O, pastor Adeboye??..Do you know what God can do to you because of this??... pls,go & confess to God what you just did,& stop calling out MOG.This is one way d devil destroys lives.peace!.. |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by dankol: 3:39pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
sparklekay: lool, so God will purnish him for being sincere and truthful right. seriously, Nigerians needs help. so pathetic 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
dankol: I didn't even bother replying her. Nigerians really need help. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by TrajansKong: 4:30pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
sparklekay: So many Nigerian Christians live and die as slaves. Terrified, dumb, hysterical slaves. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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