sorry to jump in.

Have you never met boys all of your growing life? Has none of them ever been interested enough in you?

meeting and hooking up forum i guess

Lagosboy:

I beleieve every guy within that age bracket should be ready for marriage otherwise there is a problem. Why not make an ad on nairalist you might get better responses.

you wont get pro-active now. dey there dey ask kwersions as if na nairalist she want eat.
make i ask my own which number you dey now?

JustGood tanx 4 jumpin in as u put it.i actually met good enuf guys growin up but 4 several reasons we drifted apart.

I am yoruba 4rm ogun state

theolar:

I didnt know guys on nl liked dumb and dumber.

Nigerian guys like dumb and dumber.

Nairaland guys are majorly Nigerian.

therefore dumb down if you're serious about the topic.



anyway, work, church (if you're a churchgoer) or naija get togethers if you're looking for a naija male.

@OP
Try weddings, especially trad wed, i cud even give u tips on how to behave at such events
Trust me babe it works!!

Chinesedoll tanx i do need d tips anytin to help

Theolar hi,u said u are 31 and quite honestly u do exude so much confidence
and somehow the truth in all u ve said so far is not in doubt.

Most importantly,ur man may not come cladded in gold.Just thought i shud add dat.

Theolar, am so touched by ur honesty,
U asked two simple questions:

1. Where to meet guys
ans: Everywhere

2. How to meet them
ans: Exude qualities that are attractive and 'if' you dont have them, learn them,

Just as an after thought, i think u may want to know 'REAL TRUTH' better,
I perceive something, am serious!

Nezed:

Theolar, am so touched by ur honesty,
U asked two simple questions:

1. Where to meet guys
ans: Everywhere

2. How to meet them
ans: Exude qualities that are attractive and 'if' you dont have them, learn them,

Just as an after thought, i think u may want to know 'REAL TRUTH' better,
I perceive something, am serious!

nezed match making services.

if you come across any 16 -24 preferably moslem from maroko or ajegunle area of lagos dont forget lagosboy pls. she must not be more than 5ft.
small reward may be available.

seriously though- na person go marry all those politics, sexuality and romance section peeps sha.

even adam brody sef-na somebody go marry am if e ever fit marry.

Get ready for part 2 of the Nigerian experience. Or is it part 58.

hmmm- na someone go end up with all of una, NLers. Thank goodness my bobo is Guamese.

No man is ever ready to get married.
As the lady, you will be the one to make the men see why they need to marry and the benefit of being married.
However, go to church or mosque and i am sure you will meet some good brodas there.

I know dat d guy wont come clad in gold but he shld be able to provide basic needs 4 d family to shelter and protect his family

theolar:

I know dat d guy wont come clad in gold but he shld be able to provide basic needs 4 d family to shelter and protect his family

So the man has a function, so what is the role of the woman then?
I personally think it is high time we stop defining the role of the genders in a relationship and just enjoy one another, roles could be changed and that wont take anything away from the happiness, if the party involved knows what is important.

Fhemmmy:

So the man has a function, so what is the role of the woman then?
I personally think it is high time we stop defining the role of the genders in a relationship and just enjoy one another, roles could be changed and that wont take anything away from the happiness, if the party involved knows what is important.

Gbam!!!

chinesedoll:

@OP
Try weddings, especially trad wed, i cud even give u tips on how to behave at  such events
Trust me babe it works!!

LMAO! seems like u know ur stuff

Tanx everybodi 4 ur contributn it has been meaningful

Nezed:

Theolar, am so touched by ur honesty,
U asked two simple questions:

1. Where to meet guys
ans: Everywhere

2. How to meet them
ans: Exude qualities that are attractive and 'if' you dont have them, learn them,

Just as an after thought, i think u may want to know 'REAL TRUTH' better,
I perceive something, am serious!

wow,,,me She has ruled me out,,,cos am not in Nigeria,,,and she can't stand anything long distance,,,,but like someone,,,though I had noted same about her,,she is confident of herself,,,am just that kind of personality too,,,,am too sure and confident of my self,,,If I don't want something,,,I don't want it ,,,nothing can be done about that,,,If we apply this concept in relationships,,life would be a lot better,,,If a relationship is not gonna work,,U don't slam the door,,,U just shut it,,,,and keep the friendship going,,,it means we both can just be friends,,,and it ends there,,,,

Hi i never ruled u out i said i was skeptical not totally a taboo. Real Truth tell me abt urself may be i mite just rule u out or in

You know why all the other guys drifted away. Perhaps you should work on yourself so that future guys wont drift apart from you.

Voila! Eureka!! I said it!!!

theolar:

Hi i never ruled u out i said i was skeptical not totally a taboo. Real Truth tell me abt urself may be i mite just rule u out or in

REAL TRUTH AND THEOLAR: HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, IN ADVANCE!

Nezed u must be feeling verycool wit urself. I hope u havent scared Real Truth, Just kiddin

Nezed:

Voila! Eureka!! I said it!!!

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REAL TRUTH AND THEOLAR: HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, IN ADVANCE!

You self na wa for you,,,didn't you see where she kept me? she kept me here: [b]Real Truth tell me abt urself may be i mite just rule u out or in
Any way,,,I would be in naija soon,,,however,,I would try talking to her on the phone first and lets see how it goes from there,,
@Poster(Theolar),,,I can't tell you about myself here on this thread,,cos every single lady out there might just start want to have me for a grab,,,am sorry no intention to brag,,,I already got ur phone number,,,don't be surprise,,,,

theolar:

Nezed u must be feeling verycool wit urself. I hope u havent scared Real Truth, Just kiddin

My dear, it's not like that o, but am feeling something,

Real truth, how did u get theolar's numb?
Gawd, there's no stopping u now innit?

Please, u guys should keep it real and let us(NL) know wen its time,

Real Truth u really give a new meanin to bin proactive.good 4 u

My dearest Nezed u do have an overly excited imaginatn. I do enjoy ur post keep postin ur thots in ,really culd use a friend like u in NL

theolar:

Real Truth u really give a new meanin to bin proactive.good 4 u

abeg make you talk better to the guy.

make una stop this sidekrokro style

Bros we no do koro style. I told Real Truth say opportunity dey. I was just commending him.at my age no be so

Do you hear what I hear?

Wedding bells are jingling
Dormant eggs are popping
Sleeping tadpoles are waking
A new life is in the making
And Nairaland is watching

Let the party BEGIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

theolar:

Real Truth u really give a new meanin to bin proactive.good 4 u

Theolar, dats a nice step in the right direction, Complimenting someone is a gud way to establishing positive friendship!

Real truth, reply that compliment  ASAP!( am watching u o!)

JustGood:

abeg make you talk better to the guy.

make una stop this sidekrokro style

Just good, dnt u get? they are doing it like the old fashioned good days: nice and slow! good method if u ask me,