Hello everyone. I have a question and was hoping you could shed me some light in a matter. I am in America. I went to Nigeria in 2011 and married my husband. I petition for him in 2012 and he arrived to America in 2013. Three months later he left. He is here in America, just not with me. He just left once he received his social security number, his permanent visa and a job in two months of being here. I haven't heard from him nor seen him again. I been wondering for a long time if my marriage to him is valid. In the marriage license it says it expired in 2013. I don't understand that.

Was our marriage set up or arranged to be temporary? I don't really understand Nigerian law or customs concerning marriage. (I am not Nigerian) I know my husband was rushing me to get him here before that expiration date. I am very confused. I also went to the office of public records here in America and they couldn't find any marital records of me and my husband, nothing. On the back of my marriage license issued in Nigeria, there is a website of marriage records, I entered my name and his name and didn't find anything. It just says no records found. Am I married to him or was it all fake? Can you please help me find out? I'd appreciate it. Even if it was all a scam, I still have Nigeria in my heart and will never have anything against Nigeria and Nigerians. Just my husband. Thank you in advance.

You were used to ferry him to US, he is probably gotten what he wanted and gone forever.
What is written there does not matter his actions after arrival are what matters
Count yourself single and learn from this experience

Lawa

What is "Lawa"?

Really sorry for all that happened. What you posted there isn't the real marriage license from Nigeria. I guess he has completed his mission with you.

It's fake, take heart n move on with ur life. God will definitely punish him someday. love could make u do stupid n crazy things, it's well.

He probably yearned to come to the USA and you were just a means... Just move on..

How did they issue him a visa with that certificate? I guess he's probably hiding the genuine one from you. .

However, don't you communicate with him? You can get the truth from him...

LAjibade:
Hello everyone. I have a question and was hoping you could shed me some light in a matter. I am in America. I went to Nigeria in 2011 and married my husband. I petition for him in 2012 and he arrived to America in 2013. Three months later he left. He is here in America, just not with me. He just left once he received his social security number, his permanent visa and a job in two months of being here. I haven't heard from him nor seen him again. I been wondering for a long time if my marriage to him is valid. In the marriage license it says it expired in 2013. I don't understand that. Was our marriage set up or arranged to be temporary? I don't really understand Nigerian law or customs concerning marriage. (I am not Nigerian) I know my husband was rushing me to get him here before that expiration date. I am very confused. I also went to the office of public records here in America and they couldn't find any marital records of me and my husband, nothing. On the back of my marriage license issued in Nigeria, there is a website of marriage records, I entered my name and his name and didn't find anything. It just says no records found. Am I married to him or was it all fake? Can you please help me find out? I'd appreciate it. Even if it was all a scam, I still have Nigeria in my heart and will never have anything against Nigeria and Nigerians. Just my husband. Thank you in advance. [color=#006600][/color]

Stop calling him your husband already. He is gone and dont expect him back soon except he comes begging to decieve and lure you into using you again as a gateway to another of his wicked plans.

He is just one of the bad Men and Nigerian who has spoilt the good ones. Some women too are like that.
Move one with your life and forget you ever meet him. Karma will deal with him.

The guy is somewhere singing "my helper o,my helper" and you are here calling him"my husband".

He's gone like a candle in the wind. You aren't his wife,just a means to an end.

Move on,forget him.

I have not seen him again and I have not spoken with him since September 2013, which was only three months after he arrived to America. I did asked him on Facebook but he won't respond.

Lalasticlala , biko bia .. our sister here has been 'scammed' by a 'hustler' ....

Lajibade ^^^, just move on.. He used you to get to the US ... Too bad, he would have just officially ended the marriage instead of keeping you in the dark ....

congrats on your non-marriage. you assisted an hustler to come across fortunately for you the wedding documents are not the legitimate wedding documents issued in Nigeria. what I expected to see was the marriage certificate which you don't have.
dust yourself Ma and get a new Husband. also you can always threat him bad by reporting him

yes

Ya

Sorry #one chance

Scam??hmmm mm

It is well....scammers everywhere.

LAjibade:
What is "Lawa"?

lawa/na wa = this is wonderful

Whatever

That looks like a receipt an agbero will issue out. The paper isn't even signed or stamped.

D paper looking like all this danfo bus ticket.

U were just his free ticket to getting in the states. He is not ur husband, he just used you.

If you need to find him, try peoplefinders.com . His addresses in the US will be revealed to you and you can confront him if ud like to.

Move on dear

Ehhhh, it has happened again

I am sorry this happened to you. Do you have his social security number or at least a copy of any of his document like International passport? If you do I will suggest you report him to immigration let them track his black ass.

I know some people will tell you to let go and let God be the judge, my dear do not listen or fall for that shit. I hate it when people take advantages of others more especially someone that loves them. The truth is that when the next guy that really loves you and want to spend the rest of his with you comes around, he will bear the consequences of what he knows nothing about it.

My dear, it may not be easy but let him pay for what he has done to you. In this life no one will fight your battle but you alone. I am sure if you involve immigration they will fish him out just a matter of time.

Sorry for the heart ache!

Hummmm

darling its fake. mail me on yinkslinksproperties@rocketmail.com let me show you what the original looks like.

LAjibade:
Hello everyone. I have a question and was hoping you could shed me some light in a matter. I am in America. I went to Nigeria in 2011 and married my husband. I petition for him in 2012 and he arrived to America in 2013. Three months later he left. He is here in America, just not with me. He just left once he received his social security number, his permanent visa and a job in two months of being here. I haven't heard from him nor seen him again. I been wondering for a long time if my marriage to him is valid. In the marriage license it says it expired in 2013. I don't understand that.

Was our marriage set up or arranged to be temporary? I don't really understand Nigerian law or customs concerning marriage. (I am not Nigerian) I know my husband was rushing me to get him here before that expiration date. I am very confused. I also went to the office of public records here in America and they couldn't find any marital records of me and my husband, nothing. On the back of my marriage license issued in Nigeria, there is a website of marriage records, I entered my name and his name and didn't find anything. It just says no records found. Am I married to him or was it all fake? Can you please help me find out? I'd appreciate it. Even if it was all a scam, I still have Nigeria in my heart and will never have anything against Nigeria and Nigerians. Just my husband. Thank you in advance.

My dear the cert is a fake.

this is just how they tarnish our image.
dearie take heart and move on some people can be like that sometime.
but I bet karma will sure hit him back.

Hehehehe I know some men would wish theirs had expiring date too

Truluvguy:
darling its fake. mail me on yinkslinksproperties@rocketmail.com let me show you what the original looks like.

LAjibade scam alert o. Don't fail for the second time.