Hello folks, yesterday I was engaged in a little discourse with some friends and this ish came up :
As a lady, which would you be more comfortable with, a man who assaults you physically or one who assaults you emotionally. Let's get your opinion

Hmmmm

Chai. No one good o make we no lie

This tuesday morning...

None of the two Is an option. Emotional abuse is even worst than physical abuse while physical abuse will at the end of the day lands you in the hospital with scars that will not heal. None!!!

Either of the two er optional. the emotional abuse is worse cos it could lead to suicide or insanity.

HateU2:
None of the two Is an option. Emotional abuse is even worst than physical abuse while physical abuse will at the end of the day lands you in the hospital with scars that will not heal. None!!!

nice speech, ma'am.

Why would anybody want any of those...
Btw..OP, which one are u planning on becoming??

Nawa o

Say NO to verbal and Physical Abuse!!

HateU2:
None of the two Is an option. Emotional abuse is even worst than physical abuse while physical abuse will at the end of the day lands you in the hospital with scars that will not heal. None!!!

So right!

Let's protect our Ladies!

kossyablaze:
Let's protect our Ladies!

Amen!

Ain't got the patience for any of the above, life is way too short to be unhappy

Skryptchex:
Why would anybody want any of those...
Btw..OP, which one are u planning on becoming??

None my friend, none. I'm a gentle man.

I ain't a lady but if I was a female, I will not put myself in a position where I'll be abused physically. As per emotional abuse, I'm gonna walk away from such toxic situation.

The "I reject it in Jesus name crew " would soon be here buh while they are still held up in mainland traffick, I should add that these issues aren't what we can just wish away.
In my course of work, I encounter not a few women who are abused by their husbands, some actually requiring medical care. If you have a married lady as a friend, do well to ask her, if she were to be sincere, emotional and physical abuse are more common than the bliss we're made to believe. It really pains me when I encounter such ladies.
Bottom line : Our ladies shouldn't be deluded into believing they can 'pray away such things ' or that he would suddenly be changed and all loving in marriage, once the signs are ominous that he would abuse you, don't dither , RUN

Ain't comfy with any.

Shey sexual abuse no dey there?cos I wnt and wld love to be sexually abused! By a female though!

Nothing on earth shld make u beat ur wife

None of d above.hence one will have a short life span

jonaifame22:
Shey sexual abuse no dey there?cos I wnt and wld love to be sexually abused! By a female though!

Sexual abuse is included in both categories. He cheats on you, that's emotional. He sleeps with you against your wish, that's physical.

I think many of our ladies are already used to physical abuse and trauma. It can be well tolerated too. However, many women go as far as commit suicide over emotional assaults.

RadicallyBlunt:
Chai. No one good o make we no lie

Bros make we no lie we know say every naija babe like harsh men both physical and emmotional...i just read a threafd wer a lady dumps a guy 4 been too nice,.thats y they freindzone every nice guys and worship the thugs.

skywalker240:




Bros make we no lie we know say every naija babe like harsh men both physical and emmotional...i just read a threafd wer a lady dumps a guy 4 been too nice,.thats y they freindzone every nice guys and worship the thugs.

my man ur right to an extent. Some girls believe that gentle guys would be too docile on bed, thats one reason they would say "even though my bf beats me, i love him like that", not because they really love him but cos they love the rough sex. naija gurls be forming like they dont sex at all.

ladyF:
Ain't got the patience for any of the above, life is way too short to be unhappy

Ahbeg tell me which tape u use measure life, ma measure mine too

going tru both at the moment

Damsel21:
going tru both at the moment

Sis please run if you love your life

Rukkydelta:

Sis please run if you love your life

wish I can am praying over it all