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10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Arian11(m): 12:43pm On Jan 27, 2016
the likes of Tosyne2much and Toks2008 etc have all said it. but this is 2016....kissing ass and behaving like hand bag should stop


1. CONSTANTLY ASKING FOR FAVORS: You know, this is not even about girls but trust nobody who constantly ask you for favors, they are only taking advantage. In the case of girls, if she constantly asks for your help especially when it comes to finances and buying stuff for herself, it’s just clear that she is in for the goodies, don’t be fooled bro .. Some even ask for favors that Bill Gates daughter won’t even ask her father.

2. SHE NEVER RETURN YOUR CALLS: She barely return your text messages and missed calls and when she does, it’s mostly the ‘k’, ‘lol’ ‘yes’ kind of replies after taking days to respond. I need not tell you that she’s not interested in you.

3. SHE ALWAYS COMES OUT WITH YOU WITH HER GIRLS: This is a clear sign to alert you that this girl don’t want alone time, she’s only there to please her friends or make her friends enjoy a bit of the goodies you are offering. Look elsewhere or grab one of her friends if you can. Some girls might even bring male friends just to piss you off, while you foot the bills.

4. SHE NEVER TAKES PICTURES WITH YOU: If you are the guy always taking photos of the girl or if she prefer taking photos of the food, drink, gift you bought for her instead, then my bro, be prepared to move on. You don’t matter like that. Try go through her social media/phone if there’s no photo of you, think twice. Some people might say it doesn’t matter but trust me every girl that loves you will share beautiful moments you share together or want to take pictures with you, every minute you spend together. Don’t ignore this, it’s a cemented fact.

5. SHE INTRODUCES YOU TO HER FRIENDS AS A ‘FRIEND’: I was once asked why do guys hate when they are introduced as a friend, and my answer was why not? Ladies should know that this particular thing hurts more than being shot, especially when you are so into her and in your head she’s the love of your life. That is clear that she’s not in a relationship with you, at least to her friends or whoever you got introduced to.

6. SHE FLIRTS WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR FIND YOUR FRIENDS WAY COOLER: The worst that could happen is introducing your girl to your friends and she start to get flirty with them. It could be for the fun of it but if she’s usually bored around you but come alive when she’s with you and your friends, try do your homework well or simply leave her to one of your friends, not an easy decision though but it will save you time to move on.

7. SHE NEVER COMMENTS ON HOW YOU LOOK: Everybody like compliments but if even in your best, she never say, “you look good” or “I like what you are wearing” then the answer is simple, ‘SHE DON’T CARE’. It’s straight like that. Don’t sweat it.

8. ACTS FRIENDLY WHENEVER SHE IS NEED: She usually calls you all the sweet names, ‘boo boo’, hun, bla bla … only when she needs a favor. Do you still need to be told bro? if she does this and you still stick around ...your picture is being used to fan your village witches

9. SHE FINDS YOU BORING: This is how to tell if a girl thinks you are boring, she don’t laugh to your jokes, she’s constantly on her phone when you are with her, if you don’t break the silence, she don’t make any effort to make a convo, she don’t even shout or singalong to her favorite song when you play it in her presence, bro, you are trying too much, go for someone who appreciate you, especially if you don’t think you are that boring.

10. SHE NEVER WANT TO GET INTIMATE WITH YOU: If after all this, you are still with her, getting a kiss, touch, s*x will be one hell of a problem, you are going to be put on a strict timetable. NO PDA (don’t even think about it). During s3x, that’s if she decide to give you one finally, might be boring than a couple in their late 90′s trying to have a doggy style.

Take Note, Don’t waste your Hard Earned Money in 2016 *Be Wise*

please don't let them use your destiny to cook ofada rice oh and patiently waiting for the Feminists or as i like to call them (Femi-Nazi's)

CC : STFUareyouGod , Tosyne2much, Toks2008

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Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by donTbone(m): 12:47pm On Jan 27, 2016
Simple! cool






11. If she calls you name she doesnt call his main man(honey, sweety, boo boo, baby, my dear, my love, my life, my heart),
wtatch it. Na friendzone you dey go so!
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by obiorathesubtle: 12:47pm On Jan 27, 2016
half the points there said 'if she puts you in the friendzone'...


All of em bixtches are fond of this schit!
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by doyinisaac(m): 12:48pm On Jan 27, 2016
Any lady that does this to a guy is not just using him but she has used him already...grin
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by sexylogan(m): 12:50pm On Jan 27, 2016
All dem friend zoned niggahs shud take note
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 27, 2016
Made some point there bro....Some of tis girls are heartless...but then ssome guys,dey disappoint....
I mean,the girl can tell em to their face "I will never love yhu"...Or "Yhu irritate me"...But they will still be knight in shining armour when she s in need....Hanging on to a tiny rope of hope....Ts well.....sad
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by aktolly54(m): 1:01pm On Jan 27, 2016
Na wa oo
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jan 27, 2016
Whatever undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by 2dice(m): 1:11pm On Jan 27, 2016
Everybody dey form Boss for Relationship now
Who Kon be doss Guys wey Dem ladies dey skibii ?
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jan 27, 2016
doyinisaac:
Any lady that does this to a guy is not just using him but she has used him already...grin
Hey name sake...whatsupp bro....grin
How yhu doin?
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by doyinisaac(m): 1:40pm On Jan 27, 2016
slyIsaac:
Hey name sake...whatsupp bro....grin How yhu doin?
I dey like dele oooo
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jan 27, 2016
What is wrong with being friend zoned really ?

You mean we should let every guy around into our pants undecided Please be real smiley
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Ifakiland(m): 1:45pm On Jan 27, 2016
to be frank....ure pointless. every couple deir own style. how many samples did u take to come up with this? understand ur gal, if u can't u fvck off simple.
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by skywalker240(m): 6:24pm On Jan 27, 2016
@ OP pls dont mind my question,...but sincerly, are u saying if a gal dont lov or like u she wont giv u doggy style?...

Am curious to know sir.
Re: 10 Signs She Is Only Using You [A Must Read For All Guys] by Genea(f): 9:05pm On Jan 27, 2016
Nawa o guys r getting smart, we need to upgrade chaiiiiii

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