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Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by torpedodaezy(f): 1:40pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
U have to pray and fast for your husband. I think he has lost his senses |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
tommychow: Couldn't have put it better. You rock Sir! |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by myfantasies(f): 1:42pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Okemmuo:It's not a matter of rendering advice, it's a matter of heeding the advice A lot of nairalanders have given advice as best as dey could in the first thread dat she opened, nd now dis second thread |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by myfantasies(f): 1:43pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Dminister:Just leave her let her sit down nd watch another woman take over her home Let her not do anything about it |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
ronald4lif: Another sensible man. All hope is not lost. God bless you. Woman wey im husband dey maltreat na she leave am. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by onos1979(f): 1:47pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Nkasiobi87: slam7000:you will even be a bigger fool to beg your husband's mistress, go on your kneels pray to your God and he will answer you. remind God of his words, search the scripture. lsa.25:5 ps.18:44-45, jer.3:33, lsa.54:15-17. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
cococandy: Self esteem issues. Money issues. It's real my sister. It's well 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by dazzy2(f): 2:01pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Am sure @Op went into dis marriage coz all her frends were getting married . |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Angelmm: 2:01pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
My dear contact me so that we can pray. Meanwhile, pray my father my God, cause my enemies to make mistakes that will favour me. God arrest my husband as you arrested Saul. Once he is under God's control, whatever is used to tie his eyes will leave. For the woman to be laughing at you, you should know its not ordinary. Let's give them 2 weeks prayers and your story will change. God bless you. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Baylam(m): 2:03pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
My cheap advise is that do whatever your husband want and stay firm to God, Divorce is not a good idea with 5kids, with time, God will take full control of everything |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by byvan03: 2:10pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
rubbish!! |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by byvan03: 2:18pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
cococandy: This woman is a joke, utter waste of time. 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 2:20pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
author=Nkasiobi87 post=42413521] My Mum experienced some hard times in her marriage too. (though not as hard as this). I salute U mar for enduring thus far. indeed, U are a mother. But I think its time to draw the curtains. Yes, I know U don't have much cash to sustain Ur kids, so brace for impact cos its gonna be painful. U need to start gathering money now. Enough money to sustain Ur kids till at least two of them are independent. Endure his B S. Start preparing to step out |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Nkasiobi87:Hi ma, I'm not sorry to say this: please walk out of dt marriage!!! Ur husband is a pastor, so he should know better. But since he doesn't, biko do urself a favour, walk out and take ur kids along! #arrantnonsense # |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Michellla(f): 3:05pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
ipledge10:yea yea. it was deliberate. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Dammed93(f): 3:07pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
This story is similar to the fate of one Cele pastor whose husband keep abusing just to pls his mistress. During one of their relative burial ceremony, he handed over the cooking and feeding of their guest to the mistress and commanded the wife to meet the mistress for food for her guest. He has on many occasions battered the woman. She is now a living corpse. One thing that baffles me Is that people still attend the church. Madam God will fight for you, and He will not come down Himself to do so, you have to apply wisdom. I will advise you give them breeding space and as for the worker am very sure he will meet his Waterloo. Be strong for your kids..... That's why I can never date a man who will not respect my opinion |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Askseek(f): 3:20pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Onegai: Laff is killing me here oh. Perfect response to foolishness. #Telemundomarriage. Didn't know there was such a thing |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by smartleo(m): 4:04pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Nooooo,don't get me wrong,she can move out of the HOUSE but not Divorce the man ,that's my point.Thanks. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Miami11: 4:25pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Forwetinnah: She was 14 when her parents gave her out to a man 31 years older than her to settle a debt. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by chacha3(f): 4:30pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
I have read all ur posts,to think ur hubby is a pastor is unbelievable. I dnt pray or wish for divorce but in this case u better stay far away from that devil pastor. Separation will do you good even if u dont want to divorce him. Try and do family planning too and i hope u took the job o, in anycase u can still hunt for a job just dat u are preggy now. I wonder y u neva did FP with all these drama goin on and after so many kids. No marriage is problem free or perfect but ur case is overboard..dat is nt marriage but hell on earth. Its time for u to act and not create threads on nairaland. Ur kids will understand u after u explain everytin to them,besides i am sure the grown up ones are aware of the hell u are facing in that house. But i wonder,how wil d pastor now advise couples in his church..hmmmm just SMH. I do feel ur pain cos as a married woman i picture ur situation kaii. Pls dear,u have to be strong and act before we hear stories that touch. I wish u well. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Strahovski1(m): 4:43pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
smartleo: Of what benefit is the marriage? Why should she continue to answer the name of such a man? What is in it? Answer the question. 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by blesoh(f): 4:45pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Ehhh,choi u no show d girl small craze wey u get? If u hv a job divorce him or u dont hv,u beta stand up for urself,this is not a prayer mater,its physical principality and u deal wid it physical. 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by smartleo(m): 4:55pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Strahovski1: For the future of those great kids,separation would be the best bet. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Vikky014(f): 5:03pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
JESUS!!!your hubby is a pastor Abegi which church besides wht r u still doing in such home are u jobless even if u r jobless abegi divorce him ASAP |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Strahovski1(m): 5:25pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
smartleo: You did not answer my question... .. tell me of what benefit is keeping the man as husband wen she doesn't stay with him? Husband that has another mistress.. ah ah ah. . A pastor What moral values does he want to impact on the children? 2 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by sayoberry(f): 5:30pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Monalisa185:I love you |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Evacroft: 5:47pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
To say there are still pple like this baffles me mehn, what! Madam,let me tell u if u don't know,in the olden days when men bring their other women home they always strife for peace BTW them,that is the only way pple around the man respect him. In your case I can see u don't mind another woman coming as long as she doesn't push u out. And your husband ain't striking for peace rather he wants u gone. You are not even wife nos 1,you are just some sort of servant as far as they are concerned. Pls get seperated if you ain't sure about divorce yet. And use that time to talk to God. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nkasiobi87(f): 6:02pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
sandland:thank you.honestly he has tormented me a lot just because I refuse to acknowledge his relationship with the mistress. but I post this because I think this is the last abuse I will take from him. I have been participating in lifting up the church, all the books and activities the church can boots of today are all my deeds.it hurts that some are blaming me of becoming pregnant it happen because I don't want him to say that am not playing my role as a wife to him which is why he is thinking of another woman. I once belive in endurance that is why no matter what he did I endure but this is to much and is after my kids now.I have a meeting with the church members tomorrow regarding this issue I pray God guide my words. thank you all I really appreciate all the response. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by tommychow(m): 6:05pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
queenfav: As in, she's sounds too emotionally and mentally weak. I can see her man smacking this kinda woman around and getting away with it. SAD! May God help over-submissive african women. 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Miami11: 6:08pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Nkasiobi87:Are your parents alive, what about his family. Now that you will have six kids and you have seen the treatment get family planning? Your kids and you are suffering. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
This is just one of the problems with the way we get Married in Nigeria. Arranged marriages doesn't work in this era anymore. Parents please |
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