Tru Mantra:

Your observations are only partially true. I know some married folk that are lovey dovey after several years.

Still, the reason why dating folk always appear more in love is simple. No matter how much time they have dated, there is still the possibility that they can part. When you do not have complete ownership, you always value an object more.

Ever wanted something so bad? A car? A certain accesory? A house? Well, how did you feel after you had owned it for a while?
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Staying lovey doevy takes work. Why would a married couple make out in public when they have a whole house to get raunchy in? It's the reason why babes that live with their boyfriends are not so smart. Why would a guy pay for what he is getting free? No way!

luap:

Yes, we frown sometimes. Really with the right partner you will do more smiling then frowning. I frown when the wife is PMSing, She is a real pain in the bum.

I piss her off sometimes also. I guess when your married, you can really let your reservations go and be the real you. When your a dating couple, we put our best foot forward.

dollz:

@serubawon u sound more confident by the way u type, God has really bin your strenght

serubawon:

Confident? I hope so. [b]My late wife and I [/b]used to have this game of guessing which couples were married or not. The funny thing was that it was so obvious which ones were married or not. That got me thinking about marriage, dating and the challenges people were facing as couples. Gives you food for thought, huh?

double08: Nigeria Jaga Jaga,EVERYTHING scatter scatter,why will he smile when he is thinking about house rent,school fees,food stuffs e.t.c

serubawon: Life can be funny.

I have noticed a very big difference about married couples and dating couples.  Look in any naija city.  When you see a married couple in a car, the man is always frowning with so much seriousness and the woman is usually looking out the window with that expression that says "if you like, frown make you explode".  however, when you see a dating couple in a car, they are almost making out in full view of people.  the lady is usually seated facing the guy (sideways) and the guy has this relaxed look on his face.  Most of the time, she is feeding him some kind of pastry from a fast food joint.  Wasn't this how the married couples started out

My question is [b]WHAT WENT WRONG??[b]

Why are the couples having this metamorphosis from "happy go lucky" to " i wish i could get out of this prison"

What do you think?

serubawon:
you are very correct
Very true.

Kslib:
Your head na jaga jaga,even your hair na scatter scatter,gbooosa gboooosa two slaps on his head... So you didn't ask yourself this question " What if the man is rich?"...