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Craving Emotional Intimacy In Your Life? Here's How To Get It by psalm121vs1: 8:31pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
Feeling emotionally connected with loved ones is a deeply fulfilling experience, but one that is all too often missing in our important relationships. Emotional intimacy thrives when both people, or all concerned, feel safe with each other. The question then becomes — what creates safety? Here are six ways to increase the emotional intimacy in your most significant relationships. 1. Take responsibility for your own feelings and needs. When each person takes responsibility for their own feelings and needs, then no one fears getting blamed for the other person’s struggles. We feel safe when we know that we are not going to be attacked if we say something or do something that another person doesn't like. 2. Be open to learning about yourself, both alone and with your partner. We feel safe when we know we have an open arena in which to discuss any problems that might come up. If we’re afraid to bring up a problem because the other person might get angry, defensive, resistant, or withdrawn, emotional intimacy can’t survive. 3. Believe in your own and each other's essential goodness. We trust that our partner, family members, or close friends would never intentionally hurt us, so we know that if we feel hurt by them, it's not deliberate. This makes it easy to ask about it and try to understand it within ourselves and with each other. 4. Be caring, kind, and compassionate with each other rather than judgmental. One of the quickest ways of undermining intimacy is to be judgmental. When we fear another's judgment, we feel tense rather than safe, open, or connected with that person. Consciously and consistently choosing kindness and compassion with each other — as well as with ourselves — creates the environment of safety that allows intimacy to flourish. We need to be able to rely on each other’s caring in order to feel the safety necessary for emotional intimacy. http://okoyetech..com/2015/12/craving-emotional-intimacy-in-your-life.html?m=1 |
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