dtyla:
.....well i just snubed and slightly disgraced and it feels exciting,lol.

vizkiz:
don't you have anything better to do than create threads about women?

sinequanon:


You must be insecure.

Anyway, I always approach women with the intention of getting to know them, first. It never goes wrong.

Women who do what you say you did, gradually lose the ability to communicate normally, and can only hook up with players.

dtyla:
what do u mean by i am insecure?

sinequanon:


Insecurity is at the root of feeling good about snubbing somebody.

dtyla:
I have modified the post,"i just got snubed........"

sinequanon:


oh, that's different. How did you approach?

MRBODMAS:
I can't remember if any lady av turned me down or disgrace me, bcso i always do my klin job by making her fall in love and thirsty to receive my proposal and i always break their quotable quote of nt having sex on first visit. I be ekun to n je igbin ati ikarahun e. U cant just see a lady and jump to her anyhow, bro u will jump back again. #Make a perfect impression.

dtyla:
Normally---> I said hi,mornin i have seen u couple of time but we haven't officially met,she then said hope no problem,I replied none,I said my name and asked her's,she said something i didnt hear clearly,so i asked what she said,she then said i should let her be '_'

sinequanon:


...and you left, feeling dizzy with excitement?

dtyla:
Hello Romancelanders, I have always heard stories about guys who have been snubed or abused or disgraced by the girls/ladies they approached.....well i just got snubed and slightly disgraced and it feels exciting,lol.


So guys in the house, if you have walked down this path before do share your experiences/tales


P.S:girls/ladies if u have ever rejected a guy who defiled all odds to talk to you,please DON'T comment.

dtyla:
what should i have done?

sinequanon:


Nothing.

You got what you wanted. You met her "officially", whatever her name is, and she politely told you to get lost.

And you got a bonus of a warm glow of excitement and gratitude in your stomach.

dtyla:
You sound like a Pro.

sinequanon:


Never had the problem.

If you have no problem meeting people, you should have no problem meeting girls.

If you are not led by your d1ck, and you are able to meet her as a person, she will make the rest easy, if she is interested.

So, my advice is not to bother with "game", just with general social skills.

dtyla:
Alright Bro.

sinequanon:


Don;t get me wrong...

[size=18pt]If[/size] a girl is interested, there comes a point where she wants you to be led by your mind, heart and d1ck (even though they may not put it that way). It is a question of reading if, and when.

Too early, and she will feel awkward. Too late and she will usually feel insecure. So, you've got to be laid back, let things take their course, and be able to read the signals, as well as spot the girl players, who act out and put on a pretence.