LADIES if you haven't LEARNED SUBMISSION, stay away from MARRIAGE. Marriage is not PARTNERSHIP, its AUTHORITY, you are under your Husband and subject to Him.

The higher authority is Jesus. If HE is not SUBJECT to CHRIST, then its an ERROR! Start learning how to SUBMIT to your mum, dad, pastor, leaders and BOSS if you haven't being doing so yet.

GENTLEMEN, it doesn't make you become BOSSY. Oh GENT if YOU still THINK ME, MYSELF and I, then you ain't matured yet for MARRIAGE.

Stop Proposing and engaging sisters for donkey years and telling them to wait for YOU? Huh?

GENTLEMEN, MATURITY is for RESPONSIBILITY, don't go finding a woman when you ain't ready to be responsible. It's more than AGE and having a beard, or a good house, car or so much money in your bank account.

HELLO MR, Your parents still feed you, give you pocket money ,PAY your SCHOOL FEES? HUH? You have no business COURTING or being in a RELATIONSHIP not to talk of MARRIAGE. An adult still being BREASTFED? That's an ERROR!!!

FINDING someone to LOVE YOU is very EASY, but FINDING someone SUITABLE for YOU is the ASSIGNMENT.

LOVE is not enough for you to MARRY ANYONE. WHAT'S YOUR DEFINITION OF LOVE? HE CALLS YOU EVERYDAY? Say what? Any good friend can do that. SHE COOKS GOOD and BRINGS YOU NICE MEALS? Even your mum can cook. HE TAKES YOU OUT ALWAYS and SHOPS FOR YOU? That's sweet, but even a good girl friend can do that for you.

SHE'S CARING? Huh? Your sister cares, your mum does, that Lady at work cares!
SHE'S BEAUTIFUL? Beauty is Vain, charm is deceit!

If your reasons for marrying anyone is JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM or HER, those are LAME REASONS.....Its too cheap!

Have you checked, if he or she tithes? How about partnering in the kingdom? Who is he listening to? Who is she subjected to aside you?, What's
his or her relationship with others, family, friends or colleagues? You just can't be the only person he or she is passionate about or cares for? If you are, there is an error! We have too much love to dispense to only one person.

LOVE is more than feelings, its a FORCE! Its SUPERNATURAL and everyone is capable of LOVE.

Like I always say DON'T MARRY DREAMERS, MARRY VISIONAIRES!!! People Who make realistic and achievable goals and get them done in every little way.

There would be a time when those FEELINGS won't feel like it, WHAT WOULD YOU DO? You need CONCRETE CONVINCTIONS to MARRY SOMEONE! That's why as a MAN you must have VISIONS, LAID DOWN already! Know who you are and your God-given purpose.

LADY know who you are and where you are going, SO YOU DON'T GET CARRIED away by any man's vision.

There must be a MEETING POINT in your VISIONS, you are PARTNERS, If you're not going where the other is going, LEG IT!

GENT, YOUR WIFE is a HELPMEET, called to assist YOU. GENT! Now who told you because SHE PRAYS so WELL and SINGS so sweetly she's the ONE FOR YOU! Even the devil comes as an angel of LIGHT.

ENJOY your feelings with caution, DON'T LET THEM CONTROL YOU. There's a CALLING for EVERYONE. BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MARRY! Find it before you think of saying I DO!

AGE is not maturity! ( Pause and think). BE IN YOUR PLACE OF PURPOSE LADY - even if its a HOLE, HE WILL FIND YOU. Stop trying to FIND HIM. Lady protect your self-esteem. SET a STANDARD for yourself, UPHOLD BIBLE- based VIRTOUS VALUES and stick to them.

Nevertheless, LOVE is IMPORTANT, SHOW MUCH LOVE. Love is like a Plant, it takes time to grow when you are watering it.

EVERY RELATIONSHIP without COMMUNICATION dies no matter what kind it is. There must be constant sharing of thoughts. DON'T become INACCESSIBLE or deaf to your PARTNER, understand even their SIGN LANGUAGE. That's why you must pay attention to those you LOVE.

Yes its a responsibility, STUDY them and get to know them.

Without respect there is no love but remember RESPECT is earned; Guy don't go fighting for who to bow to YOU or call you LORD, its childish. When a woman LOVES you and you show her how important she is to you, she would KNEEL for YOU without you asking her to.

If you can't TRUST your PARTNER, you can as well leave now before MARRIAGE. You won't always be there to MONITOR them, stop STALKING!!!

LOVE is the BEST GIFT we can give to anyone, show much LOVE

Ephesians 5:33 Amplified version; "and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband [ that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly].

1: You see the 1st synonym for reverence is to notice him. Most women don't notice their husbands. They think they are still in their parents house where they just walk and see their siblings sitting in the sitting room and just greet them and pass by! If your husband is alone in the parlor maybe watching tv go straight there, hold his hand, sit very close to him, maybe lean your head on his shoulder. Just do something romantic and watch with seriousness what he's watching

If you don't like watching football and he likes it you better start learning how to watch football. Moreover when men have their women around them, it makes them feel proud, it makes them feel important and valued, it makes them more a man.

Don't act as though your husband is an inanimate object, notice him! Don't wait until you have a need before coming to him.

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Issorite

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You opened a thread and also claim the FTC position.

To your post,you have spoken well!!!!!!!

LADIES if you haven't LEARNED SUBMISSION, stay away from MARRIAGE. Marriage is not PARTNERSHIP, its AUTHORITY, you are under your Husband and subject to Him.

Trash!

The higher authority is Jesus. If HE is not SUBJECT to CHRIST, then its an ERROR! Start learning how to SUBMIT to your mum, dad, pastor, leaders and BOSS if you haven't being doing so yet.

Bullsh*t

GENTLEMEN, it doesn't make you become BOSSY. Oh GENT if YOU still THINK ME, MYSELF and I, then you ain't matured yet for MARRIAGE.

Senseless! What are you saying here what did you say above? Low I.Q

GENT, YOUR WIFE is a HELPMEET, called to assist YOU. GENT! Now who told you because SHE PRAYS so WELL and SINGS so sweetly she's the ONE FOR YOU! Even the devil comes as an angel of LIGHT.

Counter! I thought she is my Subject as above?

If illiterates are on Nairaland to give you likes, the enlightened will let you know your sh*t we don't give.

Bottom line, this is a pro-chauvinist and religion based thread!

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Have you checked, if he or she tithes? How about partnering in the kingdom?

Trash for Lawma.

"Marriage is not PARTNERSHIP, its AUTHORITY, you are under your Husband and subject to Him" I actually disagree with this, marriage is indeed partnership, we are one, fine he's d head I won't dispute that but he's the king and am the queen, it's not a dictatorship.

if the man becomes too bossy that's where the problem starts.

nice advice indeed.

I tot madam introvert was only gud at booking ftc space.

Every Miss introvert post was a hit.... back to back .


From Front page booker to Relationship adviser and yet some folks will claim not knowing her on Nairaland.

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LADIES if you haven't LEARNED SUBMISSION, stay away from MARRIAGE. Marriage is not PARTNERSHIP, its AUTHORITY, you are under your Husband and subject to Him.

There must be a MEETING POINT in your VISIONS, you are PARTNERS, If you're not going where the other is going, LEG IT!

If you can't TRUST your PARTNER, you can as well leave now before MARRIAGE. You won't always be there to MONITOR them, stop STALKING!!!

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Strahovski1:


Trash!



Bullsh*t



Senseless! What are you saying here what did you say above? Low I.Q



Counter! I thought she is my Subject as above?

If illiterates are on Nairaland to give you likes, the enlightened will let you know your sh*t we don't give.

Bottom line, this is a pro-chauvinist and religion based thread!

guy u can type woteva...av been noticing u all along...u r jst one retarted nigga,all u knw best is to post nd type unreasonable stuffs...get a life nd jst rot away in ur indian way of life.

Philtim:
guy u can type woteva...av been noticing u all along...u r jst one retarted nigga,all u knw best is to post nd type unreasonable stuffs...get a life nd jst rot away in ur indian way of life.

Hmmm I think you need a life bro. If you have one you won't be 'noticing me all along'

Last time I checked, we Indians are far better off than you Nigerians. Please see your politics section you would be wowed.

By the way, you seem so pained by my post. The op did not respond to me but you did. Who needs a life now?

Philtim:
guy u can type woteva...av been noticing u all along...u r jst one retarted nigga,all u knw best is to post nd type unreasonable stuffs...get a life nd jst rot away in ur indian way of life.

Dude, in as much as i do not comment on threads here often, i still comment when a comment needs to be made. As such, with all due respect, you are the one who needs a life not the guy. I will give you reasons:

- You have been stalking him, who does that?
- He is free to air his opinion. So going racist talking about his race or nationality is immature on your side. If you don't like it, ignore. I feel its inferiority complex.
- Truly, the thread is chauvinist. Unless you are one, you are not to support the thread. If i am a mod, i will remove such a thread. How would you say your wife is your subject? Your wife who you went down on one knee to propose(If at all you did sef) that same woman is now your subject? And you encourage men to have that idea? What happened to love and respect? So yes, he is right for saying that line is 'Trash'.

In a nut shell, you are to take back your words..

As for the thread, this is utter nonsense! The first paragraph gave it away!