KingRex1:
When it comes to sex, we tend to think the more orgasms, the better. And why not? Orgasms are great. They’re a sign that
you’re having a really, really great time. But according to research,
having an orgasm every
time you have sex might
not be such a great thing –for your relationship or
your sex life. You see, if you have an orgasm every single time you have sex, you’re going to start expecting them to
always happen. This can
lead to viewing orgasms
as a sign that you’ve been
‘successful’ at sex, leading to pressure not only to
make sure you climax, but also to ensure your
partner achieves orgasm,
too. If they don’t, you can end up feeling like a failure. The resulting belief that orgasms are an essential part of sex – and that if you don’t achieve one, you’re doing it wrong – is called the ‘orgasm imperative’. Scientists argue that this is a very, very bad thing because of all that negative pressure. The orgasm imperative
can actually have negative effects on your
relationship, as it makes
couples likely to view sex
as a goal-driven activity.
Which it’s not, FYI. It’s something to be enjoyed. And on the sexual side, all
the expectation can make
it harder to relax and climax. Oh dear.
So, in short: relax. Try to
give each other loads of
orgasms, but don’t expect
them. And remember, most importantly, that
good sex without an
orgasm is still good sex.
Enjoy it.

KingRex1:
When it comes to sex, we tend to think the more orgasms, the better. And why not? Orgasms are great. They’re a sign that
you’re having a really, really great time. But according to research,
having an orgasm every
time you have sex might
not be such a great thing –for your relationship or
your sex life. You see, if you have an orgasm every single time you have sex, you’re going to start expecting them to
always happen. This can
lead to viewing orgasms
as a sign that you’ve been
‘successful’ at sex, leading to pressure not only to
make sure you climax, but also to ensure your
partner achieves orgasm,
too. If they don’t, you can end up feeling like a failure. The resulting belief that orgasms are an essential part of sex – and that if you don’t achieve one, you’re doing it wrong – is called the ‘orgasm imperative’. Scientists argue that this is a very, very bad thing because of all that negative pressure. The orgasm imperative
can actually have negative effects on your
relationship, as it makes
couples likely to view sex
as a goal-driven activity.
Which it’s not, FYI. It’s something to be enjoyed. And on the sexual side, all
the expectation can make
it harder to relax and climax. Oh dear.
So, in short: relax. Try to
give each other loads of
orgasms, but don’t expect
them. And remember, most importantly, that
good sex without an
orgasm is still good sex.
Enjoy it. Nlander gals always lookin for orgasm naughtynaughty, dollyjoy, hateu2, misspicy, cruzita, speechless nd co. Hope yov've heard?

KingRex1:
When it comes to sex, we tend to think the more orgasms, the better. And why not? Orgasms are great. They’re a sign that
you’re having a really, really great time. But according to research,
having an orgasm every
time you have sex might
not be such a great thing –for your relationship or
your sex life. You see, if you have an orgasm every single time you have sex, you’re going to start expecting them to
always happen. This can
lead to viewing orgasms
as a sign that you’ve been
‘successful’ at sex, leading to pressure not only to
make sure you climax, but also to ensure your
partner achieves orgasm,
too. If they don’t, you can end up feeling like a failure. The resulting belief that orgasms are an essential part of sex – and that if you don’t achieve one, you’re doing it wrong – is called the ‘orgasm imperative’. Scientists argue that this is a very, very bad thing because of all that negative pressure. The orgasm imperative
can actually have negative effects on your
relationship, as it makes
couples likely to view sex
as a goal-driven activity.
Which it’s not, FYI. It’s something to be enjoyed. And on the sexual side, all
the expectation can make
it harder to relax and climax. Oh dear.
So, in short: relax. Try to
give each other loads of
orgasms, but don’t expect
them. And remember, most importantly, that
good sex without an
orgasm is still good sex.
Enjoy it. Nlander gals always lookin for orgasm naughtynaughty, dollyjoy, hateu2, misspicy, cruzita, speechless nd co. Hope yov've heard?

cruzita:
that one no concern me,I NEED ORGASM

hercatonchires:
Good write up but contradictory context. You're supporting and at the same time opposing.

Now ask yourself, does a guy ejaculate everytime he has sex? A reasonable amount of them do(yeah), then why shouldn't gals too orgasm whenever they get laid?
You made mention of negative pressure (that I reckon with)
All they need do is understand themselves better and it'll come normally. Mind you, circumcised gals might find it challenging to have that experience (sowi).
What I expected to see when I read ur topic, I thought you'd relate early orgasm and relationship. It's synonymous to guys premature ejaculation.

Enough said already.

khristals:



...now why would I dig if I ain't looking for gold

HateU2:
Noted but wait ooo who told u that I'm looking for orgasm

wordbank:
E dey even show for ur face

KingRex1:
all romancelanders want a serious orgasm.. esp ladies. True or false?

HateU2:
False

KingRex1:
When it comes to sex, we tend to think the more orgasms, the better. And why not? Orgasms are great. They’re a sign that
you’re having a really, really great time. But according to research,
having an orgasm every
time you have sex might
not be such a great thing –for your relationship or
your sex life. You see, if you have an orgasm every single time you have sex, you’re going to start expecting them to
always happen. This can
lead to viewing orgasms
as a sign that you’ve been
‘successful’ at sex, leading to pressure not only to
make sure you climax, but also to ensure your
partner achieves orgasm,
too. If they don’t, you can end up feeling like a failure. The resulting belief that orgasms are an essential part of sex – and that if you don’t achieve one, you’re doing it wrong – is called the ‘orgasm imperative’. Scientists argue that this is a very, very bad thing because of all that negative pressure. The orgasm imperative
can actually have negative effects on your
relationship, as it makes
couples likely to view sex
as a goal-driven activity.
Which it’s not, FYI. It’s something to be enjoyed. And on the sexual side, all
the expectation can make
it harder to relax and climax. Oh dear.
So, in short: relax. Try to
give each other loads of
orgasms, but don’t expect
them. And remember, most importantly, that
good sex without an
orgasm is still good sex.
Enjoy it. Nlander gals always lookin for orgasm naughtynaugh.ty, dollyjoy, hateu2, misspicy, cruzita, speechless nd co. Hope yov've heard?

naughtynaughty:
I mean wats s*x witout 0rgasm?