kilode100:
Allow the woman to marry someone else na. You no get get money and That's because you are not ambitious!!

No make me vex for you now o..

Cut her some slacks biko.

kilode100:



There's more Bros I dey suspect say the guy blokos no dey perform like that..

kilode100:



What serious issues? A girl dumping a loser of a guy? Swerve jor!..

kilode100:



There's more Bros I dey suspect say the guy blokos no dey perform like that..

elprint:
Friends, I would need nothing short of matured advise here as I'm being torn apart here.

We have been dating for almost 4years now; we fell in love while we were serving in Osun State. Our relationship was a very popular one as it got people talking. Without doubt, we loved each other at the time. Service came to a close in June 2012 as a result we parted ways physically. I returned to my base in Lagos while she left for PH. In spite of the distance between us, we still love each other as there was never a day we would chat or talk over phone. Intermittently, we would see in Benin. This situation carried up until July 2014 when I noticed changes in her disposition towards me. I would probe her to tell me about what amiss, she would say nothing was wrong however she wouldn't communicate me if I didn't. This was exactly what raised my suspicion. Towards the end of the same month, she shook me by telling me she had seen someone she wanted to get married. Words cannot describe how I felt that night. It was as if my life would end that night. For days, I went without food. I pleaded with her to rescind on her decision but she told me her mind was made up. I still didn't give up on telling her to be with me. Somehow, she changed her mind and we became good again.

In 2015, I was planning to leave the country for a job, she knows about it, our plan at time was: I'll be there for 2years then I'll come back for our marriage, but things didn't work out as planned. When it became obvious that the plan had collapsed, she began to change, I noticed it, I would probe, she would say there was nothing. She has been to my place a couple of times, my parents and siblings love her so much. I'm been loved by her people too.

Things became real bad in our relationship in August last year that I had to visit her without notice as she wouldn't permit me to come if I had told her I was coming. I told her elder sister what has been going on between us. She appeared to be shocked as she told me that she hasn't introduced anybody to them apart from me. She promised to talk with her about it and that she would change. After that visit, we became good for awhile. She was at my place December when we made beautiful promises to each other. However, things nosedived again in January. She wouldn't call me if I don't; she wouldn't discuss anything about her with me; she appears not to be interested in whatever I do anymore.

I know marriage is her problem but I have assured her that all things being equal, we would get married this year. I know her to be a staunch Catholic but now, she worships at the Winners Chapel. I had asked why she changed her denomination, she would tell me nothing. I'm suspecting she is seeing someone from that church.

Lastnite, I asked her to tell me if were still in a relationship she couldn't give me a definite answer. If I asked her whether to walk away, she would say no. I don't seem to understand her anymore. She has refused to take anything from me since this issue started. We had formerly agreed to see yesterday when she changed her mind about the meeting.

Friends, I really don't know what to do right now. I love her so much. This is the woman I have always wanted to be my wife. I have made a lot of sacrifices just so we can be together. Her attitude is tearing me apart and it is taking a serious toe on what I do. Socially, psychological I'm been affected.

Friends, what do I do? should I pretend as if nothing is wrong and continue with her or I should just let her go? Pls, I need your advice.

Thanks.

gabinogem:
Bruvver u need to stand first inorder to be responsible for another soul... ladies of nowadays are not ready to manage with any nigger hence, keep ur hustle alive & try to avoid distractions. Emotional problem of living is the greatest distraction of all.

2sex:
dude, you better start having plan B or backup plan. She has a Plan B, backup plan and a masterplan.

You will be a fool when the game is over

fbtowner:
Please. I need to read first. So they won't insult me that I did not have sense




Reading..............


Ok. Op. You break the law. Now you are facing the consequences.

Section 1025 of the genera relationship law

Never Beg for love.

Point is who ever loved u, u won't need to beg to have them

Now move on man.

But lastly. I am disappointed in u. U didn't post on NL to see for advice on how you can become a financial Stable man see what u are posting.


My uncle once said if u chase woman before your future. You might need the most scarce grace to make it.

Go build yourself man and leave that GD

kilode100:
Allow the woman to marry someone else na. You no get get money and That's because you are not ambitious!!

No make me vex for you now o..

Cut her some slacks biko.

elprint:
Bro, this is exactly what i have been thinking. It's gonna be hard be for me but I'll do it.

skarlett:




If she dumps him it would be better or didn't you read the part that she did not want them to break up? She's just stringing him along and whiling away time with him. Sorry but the only loser I see here is her for toying with the op's feelings and you for outrightly supporting her, no offence

EMMAUGOH:
OP in my own evaluation i think the lady has other guy in mind ( at-least financial balanced) and don't want to be committed to anyone for the sake of heartbreak..... ladies from south east always play such games due to intensified concern placed on marriage introduction.....she wants to string u along till she gets a wealthy partner.... Better focus on your future and allow Gods will to be done

EMMAUGOH:
OP in my own evaluation i think the lady has other guy in mind ( at-least financial balanced) and don't want to be committed to anyone for the sake of heartbreak..... ladies from south east always play such games due to intensified concern placed on marriage introduction.....she wants to string u along till she gets a wealthy partner.... Better focus on your future and allow Gods will to be done