One of the best parts about being in a relationship is feeling like you have a partner who supports your life, without controlling it. You are your own person and that sense of identity should only be strengthened when you are with the person that you love. Unfortunately, many individuals are stuck in unhealthy relationships. One of the most dangerous relationship moves is to remain with someone that you know is controlling of your life.

The more she controls your life, the more you are going to start to feel like you have lost your own sense of independence and may quickly forget about the things that you were once passionate about. This is an extra depressing thought when you consider that what your partner is supposed to love the most about you is the things that you are passionate about.

Unhealthy and controlling relationships are also incredibly difficult ones to end. If your partner is controlling every element of your life to the point that you cannot function without them, you may end your relationship and quickly find yourself without any support. Many people backslide into their old relationship because of this, but remember that you owe it to yourself to be healthy and happy.

There are definite signs that you are in a relationship that is controlling, and unfortunately, sometimes you need to read about them to really get the gravity of the situation. Your partner loves you, but that doesn’t make their controlling behavior acceptable. One question you should always be asking yourself is if your partner loves you, and if your answer is that she loves controlling you, then hopefully you know where the exit is. Here are the ten definite signs that she is starting to control and dominate your life.

10. She Is All Over Your Phone



It is one thing to have your partner look at your phone, especially when you ask her to see who just texted you. It becomes incredibly controlling if your partner is all over your phone and going through all your texts and emails. You have the right to your own privacy and you also have the right to be in a relationship in which you feel she trusts you. The more she questions your behavior, the less freedom you may feel, and that’s a quick recipe to make sure she starts to control other areas of your life.

9. She Grills You About Small Details



Nobody likes to feel like they are on trial, but if you are in a relationship with someone who is controlling, then that is exactly what it will feel like. Did you go to the movies with Bob? That’s awesome! What’s not awesome is getting home and having a long discussion with your partner about how you love them and that you were really just out with Bob and not another girl. The less trusting your partner is, the more she will analyze every small detail of your life. This is especially awful because if she is doing this then she is almost definitely…

8. Accusing You Of Cheating




Now to be fair, if you are currently cheating on your partner, what the hell? Get out of that relationship. It is not fair to either of you to be in a relationship that you know does not have a future, and I am pretty sure you know what decision your partner would make if they knew what was going on.

If you are genuinely a trustworthy partner though, her constant accusations of you cheating are going to get old really quick. When she grills you about details, it is only natural that you may forget small nuances of your day. But when you’re in a controlling relationship, all of those small slip-ups are definite signs that you are cheating. Unfortunately when a partner starts really harping on you about you cheating, it may be some projection on their end and they may end up being the ones that are cheating.


7. She Hates Your Hobbies



You probably have certain hobbies or activities that you love to do and are maybe even things that you have done your entire life. Someone who is controlling will not only hate your hobbies and activities that take you away from them, but will try and make you feel bad for enjoying them. You don’t want to end your relationship and suddenly have that realization that all of your former hobbies and passions have gone completely ignored for the duration of the relationship. Shockingly, you’ll also hopefully realize how unhealthy that is.

MORE:http://www.asapgist.com/10-signs-she-is-controlling-your-life/

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