chigoizie7:



Lol, funny u, you are right. But who did mark got married to?

DGKN:
Goodmorning Romancelanders. I have never felt this way before! I feel so sad. I'm emotionally deranged right now.

My girlfriend has been acting weird for some weeks now. She doesn't chat with me online, She doesn't return my calls. So I called her on Wednesday night. She didn't pick. (I called her number 8 times). The next day(THURSDAY) I called her at about 9pm. She told me she was in her church for a vigil. For real she was right because I heard piano sounds at the background. Then I ended the call.

So yesterday evening I called her and she didn't pick. So this morning I got this text from her.

"Sorry I couldn't pick I was in church, pls I need some time out to settle some issues in my life, this is what I really want to do, pls try and understand"

I'm so flabbergasted. I don't know if I should reply I her or not. I don't even know how to reply because I never experience this before.

I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. Painful this im always depressed when I don't hear from her. It's as if something left me. Pls ignore any typo error.

Please what do you think? Thanks as you reply.

DGKN:



Ok thanks a lot boss. Do you think I should reply her text? What should I tell her?

Welcomme:
Op, that is a sign that she does not need u in her life again.....
She is giving her choirmaster or pastor a Mouth Gig during d vigils..

Dongreat:


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DGKN:


Thanks a lot dear! What reply do u think I should give to her?

chigoizie7:


Was she his gf from skul?

DGKN:



Ok thanks a lot boss. Do you think I should reply her text? What should I tell her?

sweetilicious:
OP listen carefully cos i know you love her so much. She can't face you to tell you what the problem was. She is going through alot now. Don't you ignore her. This is the time to act matured and show her you are the best. We women love to settle down with men that are matured in thinking and how they handle situation. This is what real women want from men and not money. Don't call her. If you know her house, go to her house, get a gift with you while going no matter how little it is. Write a letter to her. In it, tell her she is the one that got your heart. Tell her you know what she might be passing through but that you respect her wishes and you would love to abide by it. Tell her you love her and that you pray for God's guidance and protection around her. That's all. Do not beg nor ask her what the problem was. Do not call her all the while. If you do this, you won't feel guilty of letting her go or not calling cos if you listen to pple telling you to ignore her just like that, you won't have peace. Give her time to come around later and explain by herself what happened. If she doesn't, you will still be able to move on well. LOOK at me giving advice while my boyfriend did the same to me. But i did this and was able to move on wella and now he is running helter skelter to get to me. I believe He wouldn't try it again. This is a rude, senseless, immatured, disgusting manner to end a relationship Nairalanders.

Funminicrown:
This babe isn't into you.....stop thinking about her.
I sèe no reason why a babe you claim to love would shut you outta her life....it means just one thing:you're just one of those guys.
Ignore the message and don't reply her, infact neva you call to check on her again. She will call when she's through with the life issue she's having(that's if she's come to realise you mean something).

JeffreyJamez:
What do I think?...... she said she needs time out to settle some issues in her life.. ...doesn't mean she wants a break up na....so just give her space.... stop breathing down her neck....channel your thoughts and energy somewhere else.

DGKN:



Ok thanks a lot boss. Do you think I should reply her text? What should I tell her?

Dongreat:
I feel so sad for any OP that write such story. OP if I was you I will try to build a better life first. Love has never fully favoured any man in a relationship, it's didn't favour romeo, Marc Anthony, even Samson. There is a way a man will achieve success; love, bro. Bro. relationship, GF or marriage won't be a prob. Mandela was in prison for 25 years, yet his wife waited patiently for his return, Mark Zak was a geek in Harvard and no girl wanted to associated with him, then he created FB, every woman wants him now, et Al. Now you are emotional deranged, how can you be productive, how can you mutate to a better stage in life. My advice, ignore and give her time while being productive, if she call to continue your choice if not still your choice. #myopinion.

DGKN:
Goodmorning Romancelanders. I have never felt this way before! I feel so sad. I'm emotionally deranged right now.

My girlfriend has been acting weird for some weeks now. She doesn't chat with me online, She doesn't return my calls. So I called her on Wednesday night. She didn't pick. (I called her number 8 times). The next day(THURSDAY) I called her at about 9pm. She told me she was in her church for a vigil. For real she was right because I heard piano sounds at the background. Then I ended the call.

So yesterday evening I called her and she didn't pick. So this morning I got this text from her.

"Sorry I couldn't pick I was in church, pls I need some time out to settle some issues in my life, this is what I really want to do, pls try and understand"

I'm so flabbergasted. I don't know if I should reply I her or not. I don't even know how to reply because I never experience this before.

I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. Painful this im always depressed when I don't hear from her. It's as if something left me. Pls ignore any typo error.

Please what do you think? Thanks as you reply.

sweetilicious:
OP listen carefully cos i know you love her so much. She can't face you to tell you what the problem was. She is going through alot now. Don't you ignore her. This is the time to act matured and show her you are the best. We women love to settle down with men that are matured in thinking and how they handle situation. This is what real women want from men and not money. Don't call her. If you know her house, go to her house, get a gift with you while going no matter how little it is. Write a letter to her. In it, tell her she is the one that got your heart. Tell her you know what she might be passing through but that you respect her wishes and you would love to abide by it. Tell her you love her and that you pray for God's guidance and protection around her. That's all. Do not beg nor ask her what the problem was. Do not call her all the while. If you do this, you won't feel guilty of letting her go or not calling cos if you listen to pple telling you to ignore her just like that, you won't have peace. Give her time to come around later and explain by herself what happened. If she doesn't, you will still be able to move on well. LOOK at me giving advice while my boyfriend did the same to me. But i did this and was able to move on wella and now he is running helter skelter to get to me. I believe He wouldn't try it again. This is a rude, senseless, immatured, disgusting manner to end a relationship Nairalanders.