JamesMoriarty:
Let her abort the baby. You have nothing to lose. If she dies during the abortion at least you would have her out of your life and you can hunt for other better ladies. She also seems like someone who is prone to abortion. You don't want to marry such person.

JamesMoriarty:
Let her abort the baby. You have nothing to lose. If she dies during the abortion at least you would have her out of your life and you can hunt for other better ladies. She also seems like someone who is prone to abortion. You don't want to marry such person.

Laveda:

The mods should curb this mad man.

MzzTega:
A serious relationship in deed.

Why sleep with her when you not ready to be a father? Congratulations. Cos the best option is to keep the baby. Abortion is murder. You've done it once don't do it again.

Wouldn't have said it better!



***slowclaps***

misspicy:
use condom,MBA,they will not use

take morning after sex pill,lailai,they will not take

now the deed has been done,you want people to decide for you?

if they ask you to keep the child,none of them will help you train the baby,not even a gift from these advicers

if they ask you to abort it,none of them will share the guilt and pain with you,Godforbid if something go wrong, none of this same people whom you need advice from will comfort you...



Nobody is above mistake,its your cross,bear it but do not kill that innocent child

sickstars:
Let her give birth and give up the child for adoption

this is one of the stories that touches the heart

JamesMoriarty:
Let her abort the baby. You have nothing to lose. If she dies during the abortion at least you would have her out of your life and you can hunt for other better ladies. She also seems like someone who is prone to abortion. You don't want to marry such person.

kilokeys:
U dey do... E dey sweet u..
If dem wan commot ur head that time... U for gree.

Morally,
It is wrong to abort

Socially,
It is not acceptable to have a girl stop school cos of ur mistakes

Economically,
Cos of the dollar/naira saga, baby food is on the increase. Even if u opt for ogi baba and blended crayfish. The strain will still be there on both families.

Spiritually,
Angel Fatai dey prepare your koboko. The host of heaven are waiting for your next line of action

Nairalandally,
U are own ur own.. Do the right thing. After this post, ill go and pick beans to cook for lunch. And stumble on another fvked up thread.

misspicy:
use condom,MBA,they will not use

take morning after sex pill,lailai,they will not take

now the deed has been done,you want people to decide for you?

if they ask you to keep the child,none of them will help you train the baby,not even a gift from these advicers

if they ask you to abort it,none of them will share the guilt and pain with you,Godforbid if something go wrong, none of this same people whom you need advice from will comfort you...



Nobody is above mistake,its your cross,bear it but do not kill that innocent child

Laveda:

The mods should curb this mad man.

3rdlegxxx:


Ignore him, he won't want that on his sisters or family members either. And just so u know, I slept around 3am, reading ur diary!!!

3rdlegxxx:


Give birth and give up for adoption, that sounds a lot easier said than done.

sickstars:


Well most people dont follow d advise they give

There are some people u dont want a child to b a connection btw u both

3rdlegxxx:


I get it, like u like him but not enough to have a child for him so best case scenario give birth to stay on d safe side and put him or her up for adoption that way, u don't get to have a daily reminder that it happened, makes sense the only flaw here is, with the baby out of the way, he might come back or d lady might head back to him and once they forgive each other, they continue and ur back with the connection plus it's still easier said than done, what about the families in involved, a pregnancy and a child is more bigger than d 2 young foolish ones who did the damage, most naija parents won't accept for their child to give up his or her child for adoption unless they do it without letting word reach them.

3rdlegxxx:


Give birth and give up for adoption, that sounds a lot easier said than done.

Laveda:
Already ignored
.
My diary? Slept by 3am? I have nothing much that'll keep you glued till 3am.

3rdlegxxx:


Wasn't glued by just ur diary, was watching a movie and switching to read it, got lost in it till I reached the end, I'm kind of the type with a vivid imagination so it was kind of reading and playing out the events, felt like such a real story, u detailed everything well, do keep it up

Laveda:

I know I got some kinda cray updates there, hope you didn't imagine shít?