STFUareyouGod:
nah. E pass one week.
Wetin I dey talk be say, if no be bad belle, derailing no suppose carry pass 24hrs


But in my own case, dem nack me 8days


17 days? You chook person knife for NL ni? abi you slap mod?

numericalguy:
@OP, it's very wrong for a man to go after a married man but your posts is lopsided, you make it seem like men are evil and women are saints.

Believe me some married women go out of their ways to chase after young guys too but to your deluded mind, that is not a bad thing since women can do no wrong.

Vongsama:
Someone once told me women are naturally selfish. I never actually understood until now.

Statistically there are more single girls constantly going after married men than there are these guys in ur post.

But OP why am I not surprised at your post? Well you are a lady and I'm sure you can draw conclusion from my firts paragraph.

amtaken:
Told you it is not personal.
When I was growing up, I knew many men who swore they would never have anything with any married woman but now I have noticed that many boys/men of nowadays don't fear God. Some of them even come online to narrate their escapades and some people cheer them.

People should shun evil.

You said married women are the cause, well the ones I have seen, the ones I am talking about, they are not the cause.

I know of a lady here who has children's boutique. One spoilt brat of a man has vowed that he must befriend her. He spends a lot of money regularly shopping from her shop even though the wife and kids live abroad. He tries everything to impress her and sends flowers and notes to her daily. The lady told him to stop wasting his time that she's a covenant child yet he is adamant.

We told her to ban him from her shop. Now he sends money regularly to her account because he once paid her by wiring money into her account.

You see that kind of temptation?

Men of this generation need to fear God.

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

mineANDurs:
Y cant men take d blame for once in their life without trying to shift it to d women. Going after a married woman is wrong in all aspects of it! Lets call a spade a spade. I am a married woman yet a lot of men frequently ask me out and the only thing dat provokes them is my looks, as for my dressing, I dress over decently dat my husband had to start buying most of my cloths himself in d bid to make me dress beta.
Some things are off limits and d sooner some men realise it d beta for them.

dammytosh:
Yes it will continue to be like that until Married Women learn to say "NO" and mean it without enjoying the useless attention it gives.

You say he is disturbing you but you get disturbed if you don't hear from him for a week.

You see chats like "you just abandon me"

Ladies need learn how to say the real "NO". Not that kind of "NO" when his hand is on your panties and you are adjusting it for him and still saying "nooo jor"

I tell my friends, why are u polite to him when he is treating you as if u are a Bittch ? I know why, it is because you are thinking you can fall back on him if road clear.

numericalguy:
@OP, it's very wrong for a man to go after a married man but your posts is lopsided, you make it seem like men are evil and women are saints.

Believe me some married women go out of their ways to chase after young guys too but to your deluded mind, that is not a bad thing since women can do no wrong.

mitchyy:


The most important thing here is when someone hits on you and you are married, how do you respond that very moment? How you respond will either encourage him/her or send him away.

@OP your friend who says a man keeps coming to buy things from her store just to get her attention, she is actually encouraging the man. So she cannot stop him from coming to her store abi? Or she cannot inform her husband about it so he can take appropriate action? She also cannot inform her bank to prevent the man from making transfers to her account?
When the man wants to collect his money back in kind, make she nor vex o. I don't like it when women act helpless when they know what to do

MarieSucre:


This is also true. Open a discussion on this pls. It needs to be addressed.

3rdlegxxx post=433o45272:


You this lady ernn, do the needful and follow me let's chat privately, I kinda dislike all this public show...

amtaken:
Not me. Other women. Some have confided in me.

MarieSucre:


Which one is real NO again? Its only children who need to be told NO in a firm voice and as many times to comprehend it. Are you saying that these men who do such are children?
If you want to take a spoonful of my food and I say no, do I need to slap you repeatedly for you to understand that I don't want to share my food with you. You make it sound like these men who do such don't agency. They are just robots on a string, retard.s who can't do anything but chase skirt. I don't know where you were raised buy I believe these men are sentient adults and are not the little children you're trying to paint them to be.

smithsydny:
my dear I've seen worst than this most of the problems are from the husband. I have see women that cus there hubby dont treat them well he is been so hard and harsh they hard no option than to fall out of love. sometimes we don't know what lead to this insane act. try to find out how a husband and wife live if there is peace or not. if the wife own is folo come. its just not as we see it.

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

henrimoto:
you self, you write as if you are familiar with this part of the world.

MarieSucre:


This is also true. Open a discussion on this pls. It needs to be addressed.

haul:


Its good to know you're losing your religion, the world need you to lean towards morals

STFUareyouGod:
I think you should help create the discussion thread. I'm not permitted to do that

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

MarieSucre:


Why? Aren't you registered member?

PresVA:
Mtcheeew. . Blaming other people for your mistakes/in capabilities. .. As a person, whether married or not, temptations will come... It's entirely up to YOU to fall or not. . And if you fall, it's because you wanted to.. Fullstop..

Learn to take responsibilities for your actions!

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

ChappyChase:

But your case bad o, how you take derail sotey them nack you 8days ban?!
The mouth wey I use for one mode like that(I no go call name before the guy ban me for life) pass knife ooo..

femi4:
Tell the married women to stop committing touchry and sending wrong signal

amtaken:
First of all it is not a personal post.

Secondly, I am talking of married ladies who will never have their marriage beds defiled yet these evil men keep tempting their lives. Am not referring to loose married women ok.