Often times we get attracted to another opposite sex outside our relationship/marriage.

This is not and shouldn't be a crime as far as i am concerned; what should be the concern is how to overcome the temptation that may arise from attraction.

Then, if you don't want to cheat on your spouse you need to deal with the opposite sex with caution.

The problem of attraction most times is the inability to control oneself which is common among men, not that women too don't fall prey anyways.

Attractions should make you strong and determined rather than break you.
Attractions should make you see the positives in your spouse rather than to want to take advantage of the attracted object.

Attractions should make you see reasons why you must adore every moment with your spouse.

Attractions should make you see reasons why you must not be distracted from your spouse even when the point of attraction is irresistible.

Being attracted to someone else should not affect how you feel about your partner, nor should it have any kind of negative effect on your relationship.

Attractions will only break your relationship/marriage if you allow it.

Let it rebuild you in order to be the best for your spouse and not destroy you and your home altogether.


Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/03/things-attractions-should-do-to-your.html