tenderlaw:
You are a foool

vizkiz:
bro please be a gentleman and pm me her digits

lekjons:
nonsense!
why couldn't she simply ask you out

lookingbuoy:
I had an experience on friday that I just have to share. First, moral of the story: take your chances when they present themselves

I came into town and quickly set out for a party with a couple of friends. There, I met this really hot chic. She so hot, I just couldn't help it. Wish I could share her pics. She came with some of her friends and appeared really quiet and attractive as she sat away from the bustle. I approached her two glasses in hand. It was noisy with the music. I handed her one and requested we have a chat outside. She obliged.

We chatted outside, and I asked her out to have a drink with me tomorrow. She was immediately down with it. Took her number; she didn't wait to collect mine before rushing off with her friends. The next day, I called and reintroduced myself. Urged her to let's meet for the date. Somehow, she couldn't make it, so we rescheduled our rendezvous. The next day, we met. She was dressed in this really lovely short dress that made her look a whole lot sexier than I could ever believe. (Ladies, please consider wearing short dresses.) I took her to my favourite bar in town, an exquisite bar around the VI area. We chilled at my favourite spot, ordered drinks and some chops and chatted away all night. She was interesting company, because I was, of course, also interesting company. We talked about her birth place, childhood, my birth place, etc. She had this really attractive smile that reveals a subtle imperfection in her dentition. When you read that imperfections are sometimes killer-attractive, like Noami Campbell's birth mark? This is the exact case. Anytime she smiled, I fell a bit more into the hole she had dug for me. I told her straight up I admired her smile. That made her smile more. She was tripping. Told her she could order anything; but she went just as far as needed.

Gently I raised my arm behind her back as we sat on the chair. Just placed it here cautiously. Soonest I was dragging her closer to me by the shoulder. By the time the night was gone, I had blown more than 40k. She was impressed, but only subtly showed it. You don't chill with a girl like this and not want to impress. I pulled every trick out of the playbook and I believe I won her heart in many different ways. By then, it was close to midnight. She didn't want to leave. Neither did I.

I told her matter-of-factly that I'd like to be her "friend". She smiled; I tripped. Time was 12:03am.

As we descended the stairs, I reached for her hand and she yielded. Inside my car, I asked her again what she felt about being my friend. She smiled, wanted to talk and swallowed her words. I observed she was breathing slightly heavily and sighed frequently. That was a sign I couldn't ignore. She was starting to lose her footing as she tripped. I reached for her lips and we kissed, rather passionately. Lasted a while, before she withdrew. Then she said, gasping, she wanted to take things slowly. The momentum was building too fast.

I asked her how she was gonna get home. She intended to take a taxi. I felt it was too late and could be too risky, so I proposed that she come stay the night at my place. I promised not to touch her since she wanted to take things slowly; I'm a gentleman, I assured the beauty. Okay, she murmured. She'd stay the night and then hurry home in the morning. She only needed to call her mum and inform her accordingly.

At my house, I prepared a room for her, provided everything she'd need and promised to stay away in a separate room. Only some hours later, she messaged on whatsapp that she needed company. She couldn't sleep, she wanted me to come around. I did come, but sat away from her. I saw the signs, I didn't ignore them, but I wanted to keep my promise as a gentleman and not touch her. Wouldn't she respect me more when it's morning and I hadn't made a move on her?

Well, I sat away and she slept facing me. In the morn, she was up, had her bath and prepared to go home. All I could observe was that she was suddenly moody. A lady who chatted freely and smiled at every tug is now suddenly withdrawn. As I drove her home, I asked what the problem was. She murmured something incoherent.

After i dropped her off, I invited her out again for another date. She said okay, got off and headed into the house. Hours later, she dropped me a message on whatsapp expressing disappointment in me for not making a move. She had had me help remove her chain, unzip her dress and, in her words, had expected that I'd hold her and do things through the night. Well, I didn't. Now, she's lost interest and wouldn't really want to see me again. She told me she was off the next day on a vacation with her siblings and wouldn't be replying her messages.

I asked for the umpteenth time, did I do anything wrong? Each time, she replied that I did everything wrong. Plus she wouldn't have considered all my offers, if she didn't like me.

So, guys, please take your chances when they present themselves. Nacking wouldn't have even been a problem, but for christ's sake, I was trying to be a gentleman. I'm still buzzing her on Whatsapp as I type this, gently keeping desperation at bay, as a reasonable dude. I can't call as she is out of the country. No responses so far. I'm hoping this incredibly hot damsel gets a change of heart towards me.

sexymoma:
I don see this story before
come!! na every year this kind thing dey happen?

see ooo after now men will come and say ladies are fools
i still dey find where man fool woman in the Bible and Qua-ran
Eve fool Adam
Delilah Fool Samson

Jamean:
Oyibo film
weytin ear no go hear

Not all chances should be taken, I think this one of them. I mean how do guys just cope with going intimate with someone you barely know.

Aviero:
Is the girl Nigerian?

csamii:
Bobo, you did everything wrong!

clickwtB:
ITS FUNNY BUT WOMEN ARE CAGEY,I STOPPED BEING A EXCESSIVE GENTLE MAN WHEN A SIMILAR SCENARIO GIRL STARTED MOCKING ME!!!NEVER AGAIN DO I SLACK BUT I WOULD NOT RAPE BUT ANYCHANCE I WOULD HAMMER!!!

MizTyna:
If this story is true. Then it is either she's a child, or was never into you and needed an excuse. I'm with a guy, if I want it believe me, there will be no doubt. Why play games and beat around the bush for sex? Duh