Unitedabby:
[color=#550000][/color]Good day Nairaland family,i'm quite worried and confused as i hit my keyboard button...without causing you much ado,straight to the matter!I met this extremely pretty igbo damsel about 6years ago when she accompanied her elder sister to my family house.I couldn't get my eyes off her the very moment i beheld her as the mere sight of her alone was breath-taking.I wish i could share some of her pics with you guys so you can see for yourselves but sorry you know i can't...LOL...Anyway,besides her demonstration of humility,respect and general good manners which should probably preceed every other thing,she also carries all the physical attribute that drives me berserk if you know what i mean.She's slim but not tall,very sexy,fair in complexion et al.We started dating sha eventually and dated for like 3years without sex (mutual consent) until we broke up.Not my fault though...so she suddenly emerged from the blue about a year ago begging to be taken back which i agreed after giving some thought to it.However,the problem is that she's not the Amaka i use to know as she has unbelievably put on weight that i can no longer play with her as i use to e.g. carrying her at will during romance which i like a lot...i still love her and she probably loves me much more but i've been hesitant in proposing marriage to her because of her weight.I mean i want to be able to carry my bride on the day of my wedding but how the hell can i given her current status?
Please i need your matured suggestions and possible solution to the plight i'm faced with...thanks and God bless as you throw them in.

favoured234:
You don't need to carry her... There are some things we don't have control over

Please give me amaka number lets do kill and divide
For 6 years I have worked so hard to add 5KG without success..

RadicallyBlunt:
Try burn some fat

bardella1:
lol sorry abt her weight tho
If u can't cope now dat she hasn't given birth
Wat will u do when she drops two kids for u
My candid advice..stylishly tell her u love her more wen she ws slim nd she shud hit the gym
On a 2nd thought, being fat is nt a disease tho.,love her for who she is

Unitedabby:
[/color]Good day Nairaland family,i'm quite worried and confused as i hit my keyboard button...without causing you much ado,straight to the matter!I met this extremely pretty igbo damsel about 6years ago when she accompanied her elder sister to my family house.I couldn't get my eyes off her the very moment i beheld her as the mere sight of her alone was breath-taking.I wish i could share some of her pics with you guys so you can see for yourselves but sorry you know i can't...LOL...Anyway,besides her demonstration of humility,respect and general good manners which should probably preceed every other thing,she also carries all the physical attribute that drives me berserk if you know what i mean.She's slim but not tall,very sexy,fair in complexion et al.We started dating sha eventually and dated for like 3years without sex (mutual consent) until we broke up.Not my fault though...so she suddenly emerged from the blue about a year ago begging to be taken back which i agreed after giving some thought to it.However,the problem is that she's not the Amaka i use to know as she has unbelievably put on weight that i can no longer play with her as i use to e.g. carrying her at will during romance which i like a lot...i still love her and she probably loves me much more but i've been hesitant in proposing marriage to her because of her weight.I mean i want to be able to carry my bride on the day of my wedding but how the hell can i given her current status?
Please i need your matured suggestions and possible solution to the plight i'm faced with...thanks and God bless as you throw them in.

favoured234:
You don't need to carry her... There are some things we don't have control over

Please give me amaka number lets do kill and divide
For 6 years I have worked so hard to add 5KG without success..

RadicallyBlunt:
Try burn some fat

sherif4owo:
being fat no be disease .

advice her to slim down
help her to slim down .. (read the slimming tips and educate her)


BTW .. if you really love to marry her, her weight is not worth to be an hindrance to marrying her.

good luck

Estharfabian:
Keyboard button ko...Piano Keyboard ni!

skarlett:



self-deception at its peak

JudgementHammer:
Chai I understand you very well. I hate such fatness too. Its not even about carrying them alone but they kinda become some uncontrollable mama or one big mommy just because of their stature and they lack smartness. Whereas you the hubby is still smart and young fit

favoured234:
You don't need to carry her... There are some things we don't have control over

Please give me amaka number lets do kill and divide
For 6 years I have worked so hard to add 5KG without success..

skarlett:


self-deception at its peak

QueenValerie:
Well if yer in love with her don't let her weight keep you from her.
Though I know it's a turn off for you,do you really want ta let her go over this

An Idea:
Suggest ta her that ya'll go on a weight loss journey tagther -you'll be motivater

Change the foods ya'll eat ta healthy foods or cut out/back on the more fatty foods ya'll eat

Work out tagther:
Bike riding
Swimming
Hiking
Jogging
Running etc.
Make it fun,Ya'll will enjoy it an stick ta it......hopefully

Mimido2:
just encourage her to slim down(and when she slims down u Will enjoy her)

Unitedabby:
great idea!*many huggs*

mmm hmm

skarlett:



No advice today, come tomorrow

PRISTINEMUSCLES:

That is a lie. Everyone can control his/her weight. Even if the weight issue is from the gene.
Eat balance diet with portion control, exercise regularly, be active, eat good portions of fruits and vegetables, then avoid or minimize stress. Make i see how body-fat go take accumulate for person body.

QueenValerie:
mmm hmm

Unitedabby:
lolzz

You a giggly dude