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The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Toks2008(m): 11:34pm On Mar 08, 2016
Every relationship has three stages and no matter who you date..even if you date your twin of different gender,formed in the same womb,you must go through these 3 stages and the truth is that any guy can date,marry and live together with any lady till old age if only you are both determined to go through these 3 stages.

No matter the butterfly feeling you have towards that new date,until you pass the first two stages with him or her,i will advice you take a chill pill.

Here they are...

1- Initial stage of adrenaline rush where you are just ok with him/her and everything about this person is just wow.This is the most fascinating,deceptive yet frigile stage of every relationship.The initial stage when you meet a new person and you just can't see or hear enough of each other but suddenly after sometime which could be days, weeks or months,you just tend to realize that the feeling is not so real and you move on to another person.The unfortunate twist is that many people tend to mistake this stage for the real deal until they get to stage 2.

2- The reality stage :When all the initial gragra fades and you see the real person. This is the make up or break up stage where you start doubting if you ever made the right choice.This is the stage that defines a relationship and it is at this stage that you start seeing the faults and imperfections of the other person and many relationships break up at this stage due to the dreaded "irreconcilable differences" but the unfortunate fact is that no matter how many times you change partners, this stage will always be waiting for you.

My advice is that people in romantic affairs should not say i do to each other until they have truly passed the first and second stage.

3- Last stage is called comfy stage :At this stage,you have become so used to each other and both of you have made a conscious decision to be together against all odds and couples who make it to this stage will experience the best union ever.

While some believe that falling in love with someone is never planed,i will say loving someone is a decision we must make if we truly want to get the best from any union.

Hope this makes sense.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Mar 08, 2016
bla bla bla

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 11:37pm On Mar 08, 2016
I always like this guy's threads cool

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Ighoga898(m): 11:38pm On Mar 08, 2016
Still waiting 4 d day i fall in love

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Strahovski1(m): 11:41pm On Mar 08, 2016
This guy.. you made sense today.

Although I did not pass stage 2. I guess me legs are sooo long that I jumped from 1 to 3

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by ClassCaptain(m): 11:47pm On Mar 08, 2016
Educative..

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by wolfgangg(m): 11:47pm On Mar 08, 2016
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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Toks2008(m): 11:49pm On Mar 08, 2016
Strahovski1:
This guy.. you made sense today.

Apparently you chose to see sense today..if you calm down,you will most likely see sense in my write ups.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 11:50pm On Mar 08, 2016
undecided im lost
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 11:52pm On Mar 08, 2016
halfricanadian:
undecided im lost
dnt u Eva sleep
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Strahovski1(m): 11:53pm On Mar 08, 2016
Toks2008:


Apparently you chose to see sense today..if you calm down,you will most likely see sense in my write ups.

Oh really? Telling ladies who want to get married to be ready to share their husband's with a mistress is making sense? Really?

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Toks2008(m): 11:55pm On Mar 08, 2016
Strahovski1:


Oh really? Telling ladies who want to get married to be ready to share their husband's with a mistress is making sense? Really?
toks2008

Omase o...

Never mind..someday it just might make sense.

But for the records please go back and read before misquoting me...because i still remember writing that its a possibility and not a certainty..thye problem with many people is that they find it hard to comprehend and unfortunately i can't help in that area.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 11:55pm On Mar 08, 2016
Cutehector:
dnt u Eva sleep

No embarassed night crawler

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 11:56pm On Mar 08, 2016
halfricanadian:


No embarassed night crawler
pls go and sleep.. unless u are bored
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 11:58pm On Mar 08, 2016
Cutehector:
pls go and sleep.. unless u are bored
Im nt bored cant just sleep
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 11:59pm On Mar 08, 2016
halfricanadian:

Im nt bored cant just sleep
watch a movie or smth!
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 12:00am On Mar 09, 2016
Cutehector:
watch a movie or smth!

Na embarassed
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 12:01am On Mar 09, 2016
halfricanadian:


Na embarassed
Wana talk?
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 12:02am On Mar 09, 2016
Cutehector:
Wana talk?

Yes cheesy
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 12:03am On Mar 09, 2016
halfricanadian:


Yes cheesy
call me.

Can't make calls but can receive.
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by halfricanadian(f): 12:04am On Mar 09, 2016
Cutehector:
call me

Lemme borrow from network ok??
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Cutehector(m): 12:06am On Mar 09, 2016
halfricanadian:


Lemme borrow from network ok??
alrite
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by AfroKnight: 12:08am On Mar 09, 2016
The King of assumptions is here again. What interests me is how you know that your principle holds for every relationship.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Nobody: 12:46am On Mar 09, 2016
Hmm
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by nikkypearl(f): 12:54am On Mar 09, 2016
The fourth realistic stage is..."All men cheat" !
OK ...not" All men cheat"!
* confused* angry

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by MrImole(m): 1:20am On Mar 09, 2016
nikkypearl:
The fourth realistic stage is..."All men cheat" !
OK ...not" All men cheat"!
* confused* angry


Lol!
Who doesn't cheat anyway?

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by ILOVEFOOD: 1:21am On Mar 09, 2016
I cn only go with stage 1 n maybe negotiate stage 2 to sm xtent but 4 stage 3 is a big NO NO 4 me
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by yettybaby112(f): 1:21am On Mar 09, 2016
You are so on point with the second stage, religious partners might think it's the devil at this stage.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Pheals(f): 1:41am On Mar 09, 2016
So people don dey fall in love again dey ain't in love agsin grin
Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by WiLdFLame(m): 2:31am On Mar 09, 2016
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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by missvera(f): 7:14am On Mar 09, 2016
Nice one, at least this won't put me in trouble with my fiancee if I share this on social media.
# can't forget one of toks2008 I shared and my fiancee and I had a very big argument over it that leads to him not calling for almost a week.

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Re: The 3 stages that determine the outcome of any romantic affair. by Vikky014(f): 7:23am On Mar 09, 2016
Toks2008:
Every relationship has three stages and no matter who you date..even if you date your twin of different gender,formed in the same womb,you must go through these 3 stages and the truth is that any guy can date,marry and live together with any lady till old age if only you are both determined to go through these 3 stages.

Here they are...

1- Initial stage of adrenaline rush where you are just ok with him/her and everything about this person is just wow.This is the most frigile stage of every relationship.The initial stage when you meet a new person and you just can't see or hear enough of each other but suddenly after sometime which could be days, weeks or months,you just tend to realize that the feeling is not so real and you move on to another person.The unfortunate twist is that many people tend to mistake this stage for the real deal until they get to stage 2.

2- The reality stage :When all the initial gragra fades and you see the real person and this is the make up or break up stage where you start doubting if you ever made the right choice.This is the stage that defines a relationship and it is at this stage that you start seeing the faults and imperfections of the other person and many relationships break up at this stage due to the dreaded "irreconcilable differences" but the unfortunate fact is that no matter how many times you change partners, this stage will always be waiting for you.

3- Last stage is called comfy stage :At this stage,you have become so used to each other and both of you have made a conscious decision to be together against all odds and couples who make it to this stage will experience the best union ever.

No matter how hard you want to deceive yourself that a new partner is better than the previous,until you pass the first two stages with your new partner,i will advice you take a chill pill.

While some believe that falling in love with someone is never planed,i will say loving someone is a decision we must make if we truly want to get the best from any union.

Hope this makes sense.
MR ROMANCE/ RELATIONSHIP ADVISER...I DEY HAIL OO.
the second stage though. i will like to escape it

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