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How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:25pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
I am going through what I'd call a very trying time of my life. I can't eat. Sleep. Can't concentrate. Thoughts of her keep flooding my mind. I love this lady with the whole of me. We were engaged to be married later this year. We had a little misunderstanding which was partly her fault, it made her breakup our engagement. I am devasted,v tried couple of dating but my heart still beats her way. The ladies I meet kinda irritate me esp wen they try to impress me. I have begged, asked her mom to help, friends, my sibling, her sister to intervene...all to no avail, she even openly told me she has found someone she love...in just five days. I can't hold myself and the tears. Insults are welcomed. Pls honest advise please, am loading my mind! 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by ladyF(f): 5:27pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Eeyah....sorry. But heartbreaks shouldn't be taken as if it's the end of the world. Other people will come along. Don't let one human being who probably doesn't even care about you anymore come in the way of your happiness. Life has so much more to offer. Let me allow the experienced ones advice you sha |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by iykekelvins(m): 5:27pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Suicide |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Idydarling(f): 5:27pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
become her friend op, it will take off the sharp edges of pain, trust me |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:29pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Idydarling:Its making matters worst...she chats me up wit one liners....sometimes ignore me totally, it hurts real bad |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
that's sad...but let's hear the voice of cutehector...he is the best coach when it comes to love... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Cutehector(m): 5:30pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Op rejoice and be glad... for it would have been worse if u married her and she divorced u... So relax and be happy... it's her loss. She is a very selfish woman and unforgiving. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:32pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Idydarling: This is the worse advise have ever seen, even worse than the the guy that wrote "suicide" 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by ladyF(f): 5:32pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
But you no tell us the misunderstanding, did you play away match and she caught you? What exactly did you do? She can't just break up with you like that na... |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:34pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Cutehector:Thnx man...I begged her in the name of her late father, God...Ive tried every avenue to appease her. Am feeling empty, lonely, betrayed, rejected, mistreated, maltreated, abused, manipulated 1 Like |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Nturguy1122: 5:34pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:well maybe u are trying too hard to be her friend...let time heal u brov she'll come around later and u would laugh over it |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:34pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
ladyF: If that was the cause the dude wont be feeling this depressed na. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Cutehector(m): 5:34pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:u dey mind d babe. Wen I read it, I was like, who is dis confused being. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
smoke some weed nigga. life ain't got duplicates |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by ladyF(f): 5:36pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:You really can't say. Maybe he made a mistake once and let his guard down and was caught. He is yet to let the house know..... |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Cutehector(m): 5:36pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:eh eh, u sef wait, tell d house wat u did abeg.. sometimes we just pass judgements wen the op doesn't even gv a valid reason as to why the person left. So tell us, wat really happend. Cc Ladyf Falconey Idydarling Kashybaby Nturguy1112 |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Idydarling(f): 5:37pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:I understand u find it hard to comprehend sentences in English, but the op does, so u see you're irrelevant here |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:37pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
ladyF:Were were supposed to see at Dawaki in Abj. I dropped her off her house on a Friday to see next day. She called me the next day telling me she wants to go somewhere without any explanation....I was curious coz she never hinted me a day before that day. I asked her to excersie patience that I'll be with her coz at the time I was at jabi fixing my cousins car. She insisted on going to God knows where and dropped series of calls I put to her. I called her mother and made her know how hurt I felt. Next I saw was breakup message in my phone!copied? |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:37pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
ladyF: You may be right una like this don get too much experience for this matter. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Cutehector(m): 5:39pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:just like dat? |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:39pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Cutehector: i just hope her vocation is not therapy or counselling. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Leriebloom(f): 5:40pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:The best thing you can do is to take a step towards forgetting her, not comparing her with the other ladies that would come into your life. Get yourself occupied, anything that would make you not to start thinking again, and if that doesnt work, think about the hurt and humiliation this lady has caused you and why you would not want to get back into a relationship that is still bound to fail. I guess that would do. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Idydarling(f): 5:41pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:give it time, after a while, u chat her up, am sure she'll respond. try to engage her in a friendly conversation, and am sure d sharp edges of pain will gradually leave as for those quoting me to rant all manner of insults, I won't reply u further, go ahead and engage urselves....it's a faceless forum after all |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:42pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Cutehector: |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Cutehector(m): 5:42pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:seriously some girls r very stvpid I swear. How can one become frnds with someone they just broke up wit not long ago. Who just does dat |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:44pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Idydarling:Its not that easy my dear....thought of her constant rejection n ol |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:44pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Idydarling: hmmm if only he is as dumb as the teacher who taught you English Would he find your advise rational and held to it. you must be thinking with your boobs young girl. |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by ladyF(f): 5:46pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:Lol I no get experience at all o. OP should take heart. But why call her mother for something she did? That's childish biko. . |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by firstking01(m): 5:47pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
koife:@this point there's nothing you can do to instantly wipe away the heartbreak, rather, just cry, yes cry, it's not manly but cry....before you know it you 'll be relieved all of a sudden |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by Idydarling(f): 5:47pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
falconey:it's obvious |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(m): 5:47pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
ladyF:Over time I've come to realise she only listens to her mom. But this time....her mom is even tired of begging |
Re: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by falconey(m): 5:48pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
ladyF: He said they were engaged i think, both party families are involved so if shit is going down they should be aware i think. |
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