Christ! Allonym

She is already said sorry , so wats the Martin Luther King Sermon all about

allonym r u african american?

why do you ask?

just because , its not in a wrong way n yea your points make sense , but im just asking.

i'd prefer not to answer. . . just like i don't reveal whether i'm male or female, hetero or homo. . .though I have revealed I was a christian. . but that was a special case. .

I tend to post in topics to challenge traditional views that many people hold which I feel is wrong. I think if people could pigeonhole me into a certain box, they'd find it easier to explain away my points as - oh thats just because he/she is such and such or from such a place. I'd rather my views be considered as purely intellectual, logical, scientific without any possibility of bias.

That is how I strive to respond to posts, and that is how I want my responses to be interpreted.

gotcha

I guess I've been a little . . .well not a little. . harsh lately . . . I'll try to tone it down. . . I've got a break coming up so that should help

Lol a little?

actually, in this thread, a lot. I'm starting to feel bad now. .

aw

I want to publicly apologize to WesleyanA for the way I've responded to her in this thread. I've clearly overreacted here.

better.

hey[b] Goodguy[/b] i'm born African but raised here n i still got strong African roots. well wit' all these, my father is never going to let me marry an African american. i'm not Nigerian either n he said i'm never going to marry a Nigerian too. (no offense people it's nothin' personal)

rihanna:

hey[b] Goodguy[/b] i'm born African but raised here n i still got strong African roots. well wit' all these, my father is never going to let me marry an African american. i'm not Nigerian either n he said i'm never going to marry a Nigerian too. (no offense people it's nothin' personal)

Does that decision belong to you or your father? When was the last time you let your heart decide?

raregroove:

Does that decision belong to you or your father? When was the last time you let your heart decide?

funny guy! my father plays a lot in my life he asked me to be a nun but i didn't want to so he said if i want to get married it shuld not be to an Akata (african american) of to a nigerian.

rihanna:


funny guy! my father plays a lot in my life he asked me to be a nun but i didn't want to so he said if i want to get married it shuld not be to an Akata (african american) of to a nigerian.

Are you happy to work within this constraint? Would you feel that you've cheated yourself, if you were to adhere to your pop's wishes?

i don't understand how your parents decide who you can marry and you cant marry.

K2DaC:

i don't understand how your parents decide who you can marry and you can't marry.

gurl dats just the way it is

...oh yeah.

i dated black americans before (right now) but really i would not like to be married to one.

why?

raregroove:

Does that decision belong to you or your father? When was the last time you let your heart decide?

gurl is me and u my father nor my mother said i should marry to a black american they said they'll never step a foot in my house. so i snot only gurl

zeora:

girl is me and u my father nor my mother said i should marry to a black american they said they'll never step a foot in my house. so i snot only girl

Pardon me, i'm a tad confused.

" so i snot only girl" - what does this mean?

she meant, so I'm not the only girl (who would not marry an african american [for whatever reason] ).

I really don't think I can get married to an american, black or white.

watch out before allonym gets you.. .i fell victim

I can date black American and married them any time any day. by mom or dad doesn't have any problem with me go with black American

goodguy:

I really don't think I can get married to an american, black or white.

You must have a very very good reason for this goodguy. . . i mean, based on your christian background, there must be something interesting here. Did you promise your dying grandmother that you would not marry and american and thus must honor that promise. Please tell me your reason.

Nobody is against me dating/marrying an american. It's just a personal decision which has no solid reason and has nothing to do with my Christian background. It's just more or less like me deciding not to marry a mad woman. (I ain't saying americans are mad people).

If we get along well, then why not. This thing is almost like age. What matters is the way you feel; Opposites attract and people have different prefences so you shouldn't judge others too harshly for their choices.

zeora:

girl is me and u my father nor my mother said i should marry to a black american they said they'll never step a foot in my house. so i snot only girl

i mean she is not the only one, cuz i'm in the same position my parent won't allow me to date a black america. i didn't say i won't date one. i'm not ready yet. but when i'm ready i'll date who ever i want to. right now i'm concentrating on my studies.