halfricanadian:
I am not rich but i am not a gold digger

wristbangle:
With respect to vishu post which says guys who does not not have car, 3 bedroom flat and other material stuffs are not qualified to marry let alone date a lady shows that she and her fellow cohorts who agree with her are chronic gold diggers.

A lady who is expecting her boyfriend or husband to cater for all her needs is not a wife material/wife and can never be.

When I hear cases of billionaires, politicians and business tycoon men dumping some babes like dust bin, one should not pity these ladies because they deserve such treatment.

FreemanDave:

I love you....

JoeCutie:
Of course, I knew this one would come, it was just a matter of when.

And Op, I support the 'Opinion'. If my wife doesn't have anything, she'd better be ready cos na garri morning, afternoon and night. I no send oh!

halfricanadian:

Huh?

FreemanDave:



Very much...

halfricanadian:


Do i kno u?

FreemanDave:


You should. Its healthy...

Oliviaarims:
Well,actually, a good deal of the problem lies in the fact that women are always looking at the person next door. She sees ppl around her married to rich men and she wonders why she too can't be in that category. She feels getting married to a wealthy man is the ultimate.

She feels she'd be laughed at for dating and struggling with a guy. But nobody comes out to tell the world about what exactly is going on with them in their private homes. Dating or being married to a wealthy man does not always guarantee happiness.

I remember back then in sec school,our Literature teacher always used to admonish us that there's a lot value in being with a man and working with him side by side as he grows rather than just plunging headlong into marriage with a fully made man.

Women are being sent to school for a reason...and it is to be able to stand on their own...come rain come shine..
with or without a man...and of course to be able to think for themselves.

Actually, being dependent is far from sexy. It's totally depressing. I can't imagine then how a woman sits down and deliberately plans to be a liability to a man for life.:

halfricanadian:

How healthy

FreemanDave:


On a basis of 1-10...... 7...



Your username is creative....

Estharfabian:
.... And I'm Like, Why complain?
I Thought You Lots Wanna be SUPERIOR? THE ALPHA? OUR LORDS? The Messiah? The domino?




Anyhoo..I Clearly wasn't In FULL Support Of the thread. it goes against everything I believe in. Female Independency, that is.

Notwithstanding, before A couple should even Think About Marriage. They should BOTH Be Financially Stable and secured before thinking About Marriage. Or even making Babies.

And that'd mean Owning A well to do house and A Car.
I Mean, My future babies shouldn't jump from keke to taxi to danfo nah! aba!

Been there...done that. and there's No way I'm bringing My kids into A home full of struggles.

aolumaxi:
The space is not for sale beware of wristbangle

Oga tosyne, na wa ooooo.... been long since we saw u write sumfin like dis ke? wetin do 10-10 list

adeaks:


Yes....but a lot of people have brought up this point which people with your mindset haven't given any answer to:
'What if you run into financial difficulties during the marriage and the cars and houses have to go?'

will you then jump out of the marriage?
Will you start looking for a man with a house and a car again?
Won't the children have to jump buses?

No one is praying for financial difficulties in a marriage but it is a valid point that you gotta think of.

Yes, men want to be superior but not at the expense of being turned into cash cows, endlessly milked by a woman who thinks she has seen her Joshua and reached her promised land without trekking through the wilderness.


and besides, sometimes "jumping from keke to taxi to danfo" prepares and exposes the children to the reality of life. Abi you want your kids to be indomie children?

LoL!

about encountering financial difficulties, in life. we both know that's somewhat inevitable. Buh Sure! At least We'd Both work towards Changing That "difficulty".
Anyways, When the bridge comes. we'll both cross it. as a family.

Now, about men being turned into An AtM. Well, That's for them to choose. As much as i hate this golddiging ideology, When I see guys whinne about Girls milking 'em dry and whatnot. I get somewhat befuddled, I mean, No one's forcing You to give 'em this cash. You don't need to do sth U don't want to.


LoL. Yes. I want my kids into the indomie generation. sorry!

Estharfabian:
LoL!

about encountering financial difficulties, in life. we both know that's somewhat inevitable. Buh Sure! At least We'd Both work towards Changing That "difficulty".
Anyways, When the bridge comes. we'll both cross it. as a family.

Now, about men being turned into An AtM. Well, That's for them to choose. As much as i hate this golddiging ideology, When I see guys whinne about Girls milking 'em dry and whatnot. I get somewhat befuddled, I mean, No one's forcing You to give 'em this cash. You don't need to do sth U don't want to.


LoL. Yes. I want my kids into the indomie generation. sorry!

wristbangle:


See ya head

aolumaxi:
The space is not for sale beware of wristbangle

Oga tosyne, na wa ooooo.... been long since we saw u write sumfin like dis ke? wetin do 10-10 list

I just say make I cause controversy this nyt

tosyne2much:
I just say make I cause controversy this nyt

KingRex1:
nd y'all would be the 1st to tag him stingy nd uncaring if he holds back at givn foolishly.

Indomie children get grade, i hope its nt the soft ones u talkin bou

LoL!



What if They do??
It's his' money!


LoL! which one is soft one abeg?

FreemanDave:



Hehehehe... Garri....

Every man is the artisan of his own fortune meaning

Lool.
What do you mean by that quote?

Estharfabian:
LoL!



What if They do??
It's his' money!


LoL! which one is soft one abeg?

Oliviaarims:
Well,actually, a good deal of the problem lies in the fact that women are always looking at the person next door. She sees ppl around her married to rich men and she wonders why she too can't be in that category. She feels getting married to a wealthy man is the ultimate.

She feels she'd be laughed at for dating and struggling with a guy. But nobody comes out to tell the world about what exactly is going on with them in their private homes. Dating or being married to a wealthy man does not always guarantee happiness.

I remember back then in sec school,our Literature teacher always used to admonish us that there's a lot value in being with a man and working with him side by side as he grows rather than just plunging headlong into marriage with a fully made man.

Women are being sent to school for a reason...and it is to be able to stand on their own...come rain come shine..
with or without a man...and of course to be able to think for themselves.

Actually, being dependent is far from sexy. It's totally depressing. I can't imagine then how a woman sits down and deliberately plans to be a liability to a man for life.