Many ppl thinks is not important since dey ar goin to marry dr partner afteral...after marriage dey can talk about it....
To me its totaly wrong
hw can u marry sm1 u dnt knw abt his or her sex life....d problm is dt we pretend a lot at d end we start blaming ourselvs.....
Sit dwn wit ur spouse engage in urslvs in romantic talk its nt a must u wil slp wit sm1 to knw hw gud d psn is bf marriage...dr ar questions u wil ask dt wil giv u want u r lookn for...dnt let d discusion b like an interview...its an indoor romantic stuff...
Questions like;
baby wat do enjoy most in lovemaking
swthrt wat ar d tins dt turns u on
wts ur sensitve areas
baby wat sex positions do u lik best
how long can u romance
how long can u kiss
how long do u think u can last on bed
wat part of my body do u like to see often
do u do oral
do u like blowjobs....etc
ask questions base on ur interest n try to find out his or her own interest setle issues first...bf goin to d alter
cus sm at d end dey wil find out dey ar of two different worlds...pls lets save our marriages

Hehehe





Lemme call him right away nd ask him if he wud wan BJ for dinner

spot on OP. dunno why people are too shy to talk about sex

I like it when ladies think like this.

Seriously, op you are right.

Let me call her right away

Abbeyunique2:
spot on OP. dunno why people are too shy to talk about sex

Cos they may think you are damn after it(sex) alone

nice one....buh society's norms and religion won't let most pple discuss this, which I count as one of the important things in marriage

Cherryf:
Many ppl thinks is not important since dey ar goin to marry dr partner afteral...after marriage dey can talk about it....
To me its totaly wrong
hw can u marry sm1 u dnt knw abt his or her sex life....d problm is dt we pretend a lot at d end we start blaming ourselvs.....
Sit dwn wit ur spouse engage in urslvs in romantic talk its nt a must u wil slp wit sm1 to knw hw gud d psn is bf marriage...dr ar questions u wil ask dt wil giv u want u r lookn for...dnt let d discusion b like an interview...its an indoor romantic stuff...
Questions like;
baby wat do enjoy most in lovemaking
swthrt wat ar d tins dt turns u on
wts ur sensitve areas
baby wat sex positions do u lik best
how long can u romance
how long can u kiss
how long do u think u can last on bed
wat part of my body do u like to see often
do u do oral
do u like blowjobs....etc
ask questions base on ur interest n try to find out his or her own interest setle issues first...bf goin to d alter
cus sm at d end dey wil find out dey ar of two different worlds...pls lets save our marriages

it will be difficult to get answers to these questions in Nigeria

you are so right on this. I've got a friend who's having problems in his marriage because of sexual incompatibility. According to him, the wife does not give head, and this guy is a sucker for head. He claims to have told the wife several times, but the babe no gree.

In one of our conversations, he threatened to find head somewhere. I don advise am tire - make him no destroy him marriage. This problem could have identified earlier during dating period by asking some of those questions you listed up there.

vicstar:
op do you like BJ??

tel me who hates it?

demzylahot:
it will be difficult to get answers to these questions in Nigeria

should we den kp quiet n watch our marriages clash

Abbeyunique2:
spot on OP. dunno why people are too shy to talk about sex

but dey arent shy to engage in it

adepeter26:

Cos they may think you are damn after it(sex) alone

marriage is not all abt sex but sex in marriage is like O in LOL. as for me i can't marry someone who thinks sex is only missionary, who cant give good oral or who thinks Mouth Gig is a sin. nah laye kojoor

Cherryf:

but dey arent shy to engage in it

Hypocrisy of the highest order. that's why i like real babe who aren't afraid to say their mind.
To buy condom for some peeps gan nah wahala.

Cherryf:

Sit dwn wit ur spouse engage in urslvs in romantic talk its nt a must u wil slp wit sm1 to knw hw gud d psn is bf marriage...dr ar questions u wil ask dt wil giv u want u r lookn for...dnt let d discusion b like an interview...its an indoor romantic stuff...
Questions like;
baby wat do enjoy most in lovemaking
swthrt wat ar d tins dt turns u on
wts ur sensitve areas
baby wat sex positions do u lik best
how long can u romance
how long can u kiss
how long do u think u can last on bed
wat part of my body do u like to see often
do u do oral
do u like blowjobs....etc

If the man is a virgin, how is he gonna answer?

Myfantasies You see the reason why we need to discuss this asap?

Cherryf:
should we den kp quiet n watch our marriages clash

No......but Nigerians are reticent when it comes to sex

jmoore:

If the man is a virgin, how is he gonna answer?

atleast he is a human... He must hv smtn dt turns him on let he tel himself d truth....abi he neva rise bf?

timidapsin:
Myfantasies You see the reason why we need to discuss this asap?

See me see trouble ooo

Wetin concern agbero with overload

Wetin concern me concern dis topic

Or is dere something u r not telling me

Cherryf:
tel me who hates it?

no wonder

sinaj:
Hehehe





Lemme call him right away nd ask him if he wud wan BJ for dinner

what bj?

Cherryf:
but dey arent shy to engage in it

Spot on! I'm wondering how they can be having sex and still not discuss it?

myfantasies:
See me see trouble ooo

Wetin concern agbero with overload

Wetin concern me concern dis topic

Or is dere something u r not telling me

What time do you goto bed?

timidapsin:

What time do you goto bed?

Just waking up, really had a stressful day, i slept off while browsing

I don't really have a particular time of going to bed

How was your day

myfantasies:
Just waking up, really had a stressful day, i slept off while browsing

I don't really have a particular time of going to bed

How was your day

Mine was Kinda.. stressful, you just waking up? sorry bout the stress you went through .. Meaning you will be going to bed very late tonight?

timidapsin:
Mine was Kinda.. stressful, you just waking up? sorry bout the stress you went through .. Meaning you will be going to bed very late tonight?

I slept off almost immediately after waking up

myfantasies:
I slept off almost immediately after waking up

morning!

timidapsin:
morning!

Good morning

How was your night?

myfantasies:
Good morning

How was your night?

I didnt sleep.
Yours?

Daz true ... My new gf doesn't like sex before I met her but within a month , omo she don be expert, in fact I no go ask her to give me head before she does.... Sometimes, we can really tune our partners to what we desire abt sex....